Have you ever caused your own heartbreak?
1. Aries (March 21 April 19)
You cause your own heartbreak by always relentlessly chasing after the things that you want even though they’re not right for you. As an Aries, you are kind of stubborn. Whenever you want something, you feel like you must have it. You don’t care what you have to put yourself through to get it, but in the end, you always end up heartbroken whenever you fail.
2. Taurus (April 20 May 21)
In typical Taurus fashion, you cause your own heartbreak by allowing yourself to hide behind the curtain of fear when it comes to love. You deprive yourself of many opportunities for love and romance just because you’re too afraid to let yourself become vulnerable. You are always trying to protect yourself from getting hurt to the point that you don’t really put yourself out there.
3. Gemini (May 22 June 21)
Your own indecision is essentially the root cause for all of your heartbreak as a Gemini. You just don’t know what you want out of life and relationships, and you always end up being disappointed or feeling incomplete because of it. You have a great deal of soul searching to do so that you can really figure out what you want to achieve for yourself and for love.
4. Cancer (June 22 July 22)
You have a deep obsession with the past and that’s why you are always causing your own heartbreaks. As a Cancer, you just can’t seem to let go of history. You are always harboring old feelings for people who aren’t even in your life anymore. You can’t seem to just live in the present and be excited about the future because your mind is too consumed by the past.
5. Leo (July 23 August 22)
The reason you are always heartbroken is because you always let your pride get in the way. You put so much effort into portraying yourself as a strong and successful individual, you tend to forget to address all of the demons and ill emotions that are inside of you. As a Leo, you tend to prioritize how others see you more than how you actually see yourself.
6. Virgo (August 23 September 22)
As a Virgo, you cause your own heartbreak by thinking too much. You are a naturally cerebral person who always likes to think before acting. But when it comes to love, that isn’t always a good thing. Sometimes, when you overthink things, you end up talking yourself out of a potentially rewarding opportunity for love.
7. Libra (September 23 October 22)
You have to a tendency to settle for things that are beneath you. As a Libra, you are always looking to promote the peace and you never like to disappoint others. But this also means that you end up having to disappoint yourself just to make sure that everyone else is happy. You cause your own heartbreak by always compromising your own happiness in favor of those around you.
8. Scorpio (October 23 November 22)
Your own unwillingness to trust other people is why you always end up breaking your own heart. You just refuse to step outside of your comfort zone and so you deprive yourself of being able to really experience what real love feels like. You always like to assume the worst in people and so you tend to avoid them a lot. In fact, as a Scorpio, you have a tendency to be antisocial.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)
As a Sagittarius, you tend to be reluctant to the idea of staying in one place for too long. Your inability to be content with just staying put is what gives you perpetual heartbreak. In order for a love to be real, you have to allow for it to stabilize. But that just never works because of your wayward personality.
10. Capricorn (December 22 January 20)
Like a Leo, you tend to disregard how you really feel on the inside. And like a Libra, you tend to prioritize the needs of others above your own. You cause your own heartbreak by never really allowing yourself to just demand what you want and need as a Capricorn.
11. Aquarius (January 21 February 18)
Your cynicism is the cause for your own heartbreak most of the time. As an Aquarius, you like to think yourself to be an intellectual; a person who doesn’t let emotions get in the way. But the more that you ignore your emotions, the more that you don’t really get to pursue the things that make you happy in life.
12. Pisces (February 19 March 20)
You are the opposite of the Aquarius. While the Aquarius cares to little, you, as a Pisces, have a tendency to care too much. You always over-romanticize love to the point where you dream of impractical and downright impossible scenarios. You think of all these outrageous narratives that are just never going to come true for you.
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