This is so me!
There are pros and cons to everything in life including dating. Some traits possessed by the other person qualifies them as the best match for you. The others, on the other handnot so much. Sharing a life with someone else and being committed to a partner is a pretty big step in life. Therefore, it becomes imperative to make sure you are dating the person who’s right for you.
Based on your zodiac sign, you have your unique set of traits which the other might or might not like. Similarly, you have your own demands which the other might or might not be willing to fulfil. So here is a glimpse into the few yet representative facts of the kind of person you should date, depending on your zodiac sign and what it says about the sort of personality you have.
1. Aries: March 21st April 19th
As an Aries, you are known for standing on your own two feet and valuing your independency above all else. You want that alone time to set things straight for yourself, to function properly in life. It helps you grow as a person.
You should not be with someone who prevents you from doing so, that is, someone who can control you in any way. They will eventually make you feel like they are smothering you. You will want your alone time and space from them much too often; leading to a great divide come between the both of you. The relationship will be over much too soon. So steer clear of any such controlling person to date.
2. Taurus: April 20th May 20th
Being a Taurus, you are very stubborn. Getting jealous easily also happens to be among your most defining traits only because you care for that relationship that much.
Even though you like the charming sort of personalities, you would not like to be with someone who loves being the center of attention all the time. Feeling a sense of security matters a great deal to you as well. So don’t go for someone who doesn’t value the significance of a home and safety in the relationship.
3. Gemini: May 21st June 20th
Geminis are knows most accurately as the social butterflies. You love talking, interacting and showing affection to others. Do not date someone with these same traits as you. There will instantly be a clash among the two of you.
Since both of you will want to go out there and communicate with others and be all affectionate and tender, this will lead to a severe competition between the two of you on who gets to be more of social butterfly. Instead of being affectionate lovers, you will be competitive lovers and that just will not work out.
4. Cancer: June 21st July 22nd
Being the kings and queens of mood swings, you bottle most things and feelings inside you. You need to sulk in your shell and figure things out. As per being overly sensitive and a deep thinker, you sometimes have trust issues even with yourself.
You should not be with someone who fails to validate that. So don’t date anyone who you find too secretive and sneaky with you. They will do nothing worthwhile to gain your trust like that, but will only frustrate you more. Due to their immense moodiness and sudden mood swings, you need someone who can put up with your mood swings. Do not date someone who is not patient enough to do that for you. You hate being told what to do when you know it better in your own way. Dating someone who’s bossy will also destroy your relationship.
5. Leo: July 23rd August 22nd
Being the most egotistical sign of the zodiac, it means a big deal for a Leo when they choose to set aside their ego just to love you a little more and show you affection and care just a bit more even in public; especially more so.
You don’t bow down to anyone but when you make that exception in the name of love, it means the world to you. Never date someone who becomes so careless so as to not value this and doesn’t bother returning your resilient loyalty and affection. They will only end up hurting you and making you feel less about yourself, even when it wasn’t your fault but theirs.
6. Virgo: August 23rd September 22nd
As a Virgo, pleasing others and making their life more ordered in terms of emotional and physical terms is your life’s main goal. And you have to do all in your power to make that happen for your partner too. But you should not date someone who lacks good enough communication skills to convey their inner selves to you. If they can’t be able to tell or show you what their problem is, you will not be able to help them, always hanging in the balance.
That will leave you torn. So stay clear of such a person. Because of your high tendency to take things too seriously and worry a little too much, you should not be with someone who is not practical enough.They will make no special effort to lift your worry and so, you will not feel productive enough about where the relationship is heading towards. You should be with someone who not only encourages you not to worry but helps you practically to work things out and make it better, instead of sitting idly by. –
7. Libra: September 23rd October 22nd
With all you idealistic perspectives and morals and high style of living and what not, you know pretty well what you deserve in life and wouldn’t settle for less. So you should never date someone who doesn’t believe in the worth of little things in life, someone to whom giving due value and respect to the one worthy of it doesn’t really matter that much.
They will only make you feel small about yourself and give you a continuous sense of insecurity. You should not be with someone who beguiles you with their lies all the while not knowing the real worth of what they.
8. Scorpio: October 23rd November 21st
As a Scorpio, you are a fierce being but highly loving and compassionate at the same time. It does not do you any right, therefore, to be with someone who cannot put up with your personality and doesn’t accept you the way you are.
You like being in control and taking the upper hand in things. If you date someone who does not see the good you can do to the relationship by being the one in charge then it will not lead anywhere good. Do not choose anyone to date who doesn’t trust you enough to know what you are doing. They will just put a stain on all your efforts without letting you even try to do things your way.
9. Sagittarius: November 22nd December 21st
As a Sagittarius, you are best known for your highly spontaneous nature. Being out and about and enjoying life to its fullest is the goal of your very existence. You love trying out new things, meeting new people, learning something different and interesting and going on new and bright adventures.
So you should not date someone with the entire opposite disposition: introverts. It will be a horrible match for you, because you will not want to stay with someone like that for long someone who is too shy or anxious or nervous to meet your family and friends or to go out on adventures with you. One will try the other to do one thing or the other and that sort of constant tug-of-war between what to do and what not to do will only create chaos in the relationship.
10. Capricorn: December 22nd January 19th
Being the official workaholics, you cannot bear to be with someone who does not value your work or so much as comes slightly in the way of dreams and your efforts to achieve them. You need your sense of security too, that the person you choose to date is okay with the way you work and deal with things. If it is someone who stops you from being in control of your own life, they will just not do and you should not be with someone like that. You like those that know how to stand up for themselves.
So do not go for someone you may find weak, or someone not capable enough to speak up for themselves. Having to work for them 24/7 will make you think you have no time left to work for yourself and on yourself. This will, therefore, lead you to want your personal space and time away from them a lot and that is just no good to the relationship.
11. Aquarius: January 20th February 18th
As an Aquarius, you mostly tend to be shy at public gatherings and like your alone time. Never date someone who is just a homebody like you are. Otherwise both of you will mostly stay inside your own personal, separate zones and will get to know nothing about each other.
Instead, date someone who likes to hang out and experience new things with you. You hate fights and conflicts etc too so being with someone who does not fully understand the value of peace in the relationship is not acceptable to you either. Do not date someone who has a short temper or does not confront after a fight. It will only leave you feeling unsafe around that person and nothing can come out of such a relationship.
12. Pisces: February 19th March 20th
As a Pisces, you are perhaps the most sensitive signs of the zodiac. There is always a kid inside you. Hurting others is the thing you hate the most. With such a sensitive nature, you often tend to dislike and clash with people who are just so devoid of empathy, love and have big egos. So do not ever date someone who loves themselves more than they love you, or someone who thinks hurting others is not such a big thing and thinking getting away with it is fine.
You will also not get along with the people who crack jokes all the time, because their jokes will usually get taken the wrong way and they might leave you deeply hurt. Dating someone who does not appreciate the creative genius you hold inside you is also not a good option for you; they will give you the impression that what you think is creative is not even that important, that there is no special worth of art and creativity in this world even though there is. So do not date someone who cannot see the beauty in life and reality like you do, and instead mocks you for it.
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