For anyone who has had the privilege of experiencing true love has also undoubtedly has some experience with true pain. There are those of us who are unlucky enough to just always be on the losing side of a relationship experience; wherein our emotions get the best of us, and we’re left traumatized, scarred, and socially inept. A lot of relationships end.
That’s just the plain truth of the matter. It takes a whole lot of good luck, hard work, and then some in order for a relationship to live on happily ever after. All it takes for a relationship to end is one huge mistake, or an accumulation of little idiosyncrasies that can cause a rupture in a union. And there’s one thing that’s for sure about breakups: they’re never easy.
Here are some rough instances of women having to end their relationships due to very painful circumstances. If you find yourself in a troublesome relationship, perhaps it would make you feel better to know that you aren’t in a situation as worse as what these ladies had to go through.
1. She caught him in bed with another woman.
What could be worse than actually finding your man in bed having sexual relations with another woman? That’s what this one girl had to experience, and it was absolutely heart wrenching. It’s a very confusing and traumatic experience that not many people would know how to handle right away.
2. His religion made him too crazy for her to handle.
He had way too many weird religious beliefs that were downright too much for her to bear. He wanted to have sex a lot but his religious beliefs forbade them from seeing certain kinds of movies or eating specific kinds of food on certain days.
3. She was treated badly by his parents.
When you are in a relationship with someone, you always want to make sure that you are liked by that person’s family and friends. Unfortunately for this one girl, her boyfriend’s parents weren’t exactly her biggest fans. In fact, they absolutely detested her and they weren’t shy about letting her know how they felt. She wasn’t going to subject herself to that kind of abuse so she ended things as soon as she could.
4. She couldn’t teach herself to become physically attracted to him.
As shallow as it may seem, a lot of girls just go through this perfectly natural experience. A lot of times, a girl will leave a man because he just failed to attract her on a physical level. To plenty of girls, physical attraction is an important aspect in absolutely any kind of relationship.
5. He was too disorderly and filthy.
No one likes to be with a slob. That’s why it is absolutely no wonder that this one girl left her disgustingly dirty boyfriend. Good hygiene and cleanliness are always important aspects of living a healthy life. Anyone who can’t clean up after themselves is probably not mature enough to be in a relationship anyway.
6. She developed an eating disorder because of him.
Food is life. There’s no denying that. That’s why it was perfectly okay for this girl to leave the man who essentially gave her an eating disorder. He was always abusing her and making fun of her whenever she chose to indulge herself in some extra bites. In the end, she developed an eating disorder, and no man is ever worth that.
7. He always expected her to cook for him all the time.
Ladies, you don’t always have to be the chef in the house. That’s why this woman just couldn’t stand the fact that her man could never bring himself to learn how to cook. Cooking simple meals doesn’t necessarily have to be so hard. It’s not rocket science. He was just being lazy and bratty, and that’s why she needed to let him go.
8. He had a criminal background he never told her about.
Imagine the horror of discovering that your long-term boyfriend has a criminal history and he never told you about it. Relationships are always built on trust, honesty, and openness. That’s why this woman didn’t wait one second longer to escape a relationship that was built on such a huge lie.
9. She was always on the receiving end of his verbal abuse.
No woman ever deserves to be the victim of verbal abuse. That’s why this woman who knew her self-worth was quick to pack her things and go. Men who verbally abuse their women are those who don’t know how to act gentlemanly and respectful.
10. He had weird sexual fantasies and fetishes.
Sexual fantasies that involve animals, other people, or inanimate objects can be very intimidating for a simple-minded woman. That’s why when this girl’s boyfriend started asking her to do weird stuff for him in the bedroom, she had no problem saying no and moving on to other things.
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