There is a looming threat that places dread in the hearts of all young couples: the threat of having the flames of their passion die down after the honeymoon phase of the relationship. It’s a fairly common phenomenon and so perhaps there is some justification to this fear. However, it doesn’t always have to be like that. The flames in the passion of a relationship don’t always have to die down and wither out eventually. Remember, the best kinds of couples are those who are able to sustain and even grow the flames of their passion over time. It comes with a great deal of commitment, habit, and hard work.
So how do you know if the sexual activity of your relationship is continually thriving? Well, you would know it if you’re in it. But the issue here is that not a lot of people know how to maintain active and healthy sex lives throughout a long-term relationship. While there is no guaranteed solution to this, there are some best practices and trends that can be found within sexually active and healthy couples.
Here are some common trends that you can find within couples who are maintaining their sexual passion.
1. You have no problems with being nude around each other in the household.
Nudity doesn’t have to be seen as disgusting and inappropriate especially when you’re just within the confines of your home. In fact, nudity can be very playful and natural when practiced regularly around one another. If you and your partner are just perfectly comfortable with walking around nude in front of each other, then it means that you have a happy sex life that is devoid of any vulnerability or insecurity.
2. You still constantly flirt with one another no matter how deep you are into the relationship.
Flirtation is key in any relationship no matter how deep it gets. You can be together for 5 months or 50 years; you should still never stop flirting with one another. You should still always be making the effort to be attractive to your partner whether it be through your looks, your actions, or your words.
Teasing is a great way to spice up the dynamic of any relationship. Constant teasing in a relationship is a very effective means of getting your partner excited to actually have you in the bedroom. It’s the same kind of excitement and exhilaration that one feels when they catch a trailer for a movie that they just can’t wait to see.
4. You want to spend all of your time with one another.
If you want to spend every waking moment with one another, then that means there is a level of comfort and stability in your relationship that is difficult to match. You find joy in each other’s company and you can never get sick of being around one another. This is because the connection between the two of you is strong and there’s just no stopping it.