“#3. You make an effort to tease each other.”
There is a looming threat that places dread in the hearts of all young couples: the threat of having the flames of their passion die down after the honeymoon phase of the relationship. It’s a fairly common phenomenon and so perhaps there is some justification to this fear. However, it doesn’t always have to be like that. The flames in the passion of a relationship don’t always have to die down and wither out eventually. Remember, the best kinds of couples are those who are able to sustain and even grow the flames of their passion over time. It comes with a great deal of commitment, habit, and hard work.
So how do you know if the sexual activity of your relationship is continually thriving? Well, you would know it if you’re in it. But the issue here is that not a lot of people know how to maintain active and healthy sex lives throughout a long-term relationship. While there is no guaranteed solution to this, there are some best practices and trends that can be found within sexually active and healthy couples.
Here are some common trends that you can find within couples who are maintaining their sexual passion.
1. You have no problems with being nude around each other in the household.
Nudity doesn’t have to be seen as disgusting and inappropriate especially when you’re just within the confines of your home. In fact, nudity can be very playful and natural when practiced regularly around one another. If you and your partner are just perfectly comfortable with walking around nude in front of each other, then it means that you have a happy sex life that is devoid of any vulnerability or insecurity.
2. You still constantly flirt with one another no matter how deep you are into the relationship.
Flirtation is key in any relationship no matter how deep it gets. You can be together for 5 months or 50 years; you should still never stop flirting with one another. You should still always be making the effort to be attractive to your partner whether it be through your looks, your actions, or your words.
3. You make an effort to tease each other.
Teasing is a great way to spice up the dynamic of any relationship. Constant teasing in a relationship is a very effective means of getting your partner excited to actually have you in the bedroom. It’s the same kind of excitement and exhilaration that one feels when they catch a trailer for a movie that they just can’t wait to see.
4. You want to spend all of your time with one another.
If you want to spend every waking moment with one another, then that means there is a level of comfort and stability in your relationship that is difficult to match. You find joy in each other’s company and you can never get sick of being around one another. This is because the connection between the two of you is strong and there’s just no stopping it.
5. You aren’t afraid to be adventurous inside and outside the bedroom.
Neither of you are afraid to try new and exciting things in your relationship and that’s why it continues to be so strong. Whether it’s trying out new sexual positions in the bedroom or going off to an unfamiliar land together, you are always willing to try out new things. This kind of excitement and thrill always adds to the vivacity of a relationship.
6. You always make one another feel sexy.
You have this uncanny ability to lift each other’s confidence and that is rare to find in many couples. You never feel insecure around one another and it does wonders for the dynamics of your relationship. You never lose your luster for one another because you are always building each other up.
7. You are both comfortable with being open and honest about your needs.
You never feel like you have to censor yourself when it comes to expressing your needs in the bedroom. If you feel like you want your partner to be satisfying you a certain way, then you come out and you say it. This open communication that you have between the two of you is great because you are both constantly learning from one another about how to make your relationship better.
8. You make it a point to always trust each other.
A huge aspect of sex and relationships is trust. You can never really be vulnerable to another person unless you are able to trust them. That’s why your relationship works so well both in and out of the bedroom because you always trust each other very deeply.
9. You are known to be quite touchy and feely.
You are that couple that everyone else hates being around because you’re too touchy but you don’t care. You are physically attracted to your partner and you want to be able to express your intimacy in physical manners.
10. You really make time for sex.
Sex is something that you really make time for because you acknowledge its importance in how you go about your relationship. You are committed to expressing your love for each other through physical means and you really prioritize it.
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