Not a lot of people realize that one of the most difficult things to actually do in a relationship is to just walk away from it when you know that it isn’t meant for you. Sometimes, people can get into the wrong relationships. And it’s always rough whenever that’s the case. People never want to go into relationships thinking that the relationship isn’t going to last. They always assume that they are going to be able to last for the long haul.
However, peoples’ plans don’t always go the way that they want them to. In spite of your best intentions and your grandest dreams, you aren’t always going to be able to make your relationship work. However, there will be times wherein you will just not want to admit to yourself that your relationship just isn’t right for you. And when that’s the case, you end up sticking things through in the relationship even though eventually, things are going to crash and burn.
You never want that to happen. You don’t want to be prolonging the demise of a doomed relationship. Yes, you always want to put in the effort to make a relationship work. But you must also be honest enough with yourself to be able to call it quits on a relationship that just isn’t right for you. If you notice that a lot of the signs that will be listed on here are actually applicable in your relationship, then it’s time for you to think about walking away.
1. You can’t trust your partner at all.
Trust is always going to be a very important aspect of any romantic relationship. When you fail to build trust with your partner, then there is practically no way for the two of you to ever be able to make things work with one another.
2. You find yourself daydreaming about being single a lot.
You often find yourself daydreaming and fantasizing about what your life would be like if you were single. It means that you’re so detached and unhappy with your current reality that you are desperate to cling onto whatever dreams or fantasies you would be able to conjure.
3. You can’t find a way to solve the problems in your relationship.
All relationships are always going to have their fair share of problems. No love, no matter how strong, is going to be immune to these trials and tribulations. However, the best couples are always able to find a way to work through these challenges.
4. You share fundamentally different values.
In order to be in a healthy and happy relationship, two people don’t necessarily have to be alike in all aspects. However, whenever two people are just fundamentally different in terms of values and principles, it can generate a lot of friction within the relationship itself.
5. You don’t share similar plans in life.
When you fail to plan for the future as a couple, then you are essentially putting yourselves at a disadvantage with regards to the longevity of your relationship. It’s always important that the two of you are able to see yourselves being together down the line.
6. You feel more insecure because of your relationship.
Your relationship should never be the source or the trigger of all your insecurities. If your relationship is just responsible for making you feel less confident and less assured about yourself, then it’s probably not the right relationship for you. It might be best for you to just walk away.
7. The quality of your communication is dwindling down.
Communication is always going to serve as the bedrock and foundation for any important relationship. If you and your partner don’t communicate well, then that’s going to serve as a major weakness in your relationship with one another. It could also serve as a big sign of incompatibility.
8. Your friends are telling you it’s time to walk away.
You always want to be making decisions about your relationships on your own. You never want to be bogged down by the thoughts and opinions of others. However, it’s still important that you keep an open mind. If the people you love are telling you that they are concerned, then maybe they’re worth listening to.
9. You see no signs of change.
You really don’t see any signs of change. You know that if you stay, things are just going to remain the same, and that’s not something that you would really be able to live with, would you?
10. You just aren’t happy anymore.
There really isn’t any point in staying in a relationship that just doesn’t bring you a sense of happiness. There’s no point in being with someone who can’t make you happy. You just have to walk away from all of that. It’s much better to find happiness on your own.