10 Reasons A Relationship Won’t Work Even If You Love Each Other

You always want to be in a happy relationship with someone who you are vastly in love with. However, love alone is never going to be enough to sustain a relationship. Yes, it’s a good place to start. It’s a solid foundation on which the two of you can build your relationship. But ultimately, it’s going to require a lot more than luck if you want to make sure that your relationship stands the test of time.

There are just so many variables that you need to be taking note of if you want your relationship to last. Aside from just loving one another, you must both be willing to put in the effort for your relationship as well. And on top of that, you’re just going to need a whole lot of luck so that your relationship doesn’t have to go through some backbreaking challenges. It’s also important that the two of you have compatible personalities and lives.

That’s why it’s totally possible for two people to still break up even if they are in love with one another. If you’re curious as to what might cause a relationship to end even though you still love one another, then this is the article for you.

1. Your future plans don’t really align.

Your relationship is just not going to have a future unless both of you can actually agree on a shared future together. You might love each other. But if you can’t see yourselves in each other’s futures, then it’s all moot.

2. Your partner’s family doesn’t like you.

Family is important. Remember that you’re not just trying to win your partner over. You must also make an effort to win their family over as well. And if you fail on that front, then it’s unlikely that your relationship is going to be able to last.

3. There are trust issues in your relationship.

Trust is something that is going to be just as important as love in a romantic relationship. You must always be able to trust that your partner is going to be there for you in your relationship. If you find yourself incapable of doing so, then know that your love isn’t going to be enough to save you.

4. Long distance has no end.

Long-distance relationships can be really difficult. And it’s true that there are so many long-distance couples out there who are able to find a way to make things last. But ultimately, if a long-distance relationship shows no signs of having two people come together eventually, then it’s definitely not built to last.

5. You have a lack of physical attraction.

Remember that the one thing that separates lovers from friends is physical intimacy. Yes, it’s important that the two of you have a really deep and strong emotional bond. However, physical intimacy is also going to be just as important. And when it’s nonexistent, you’re practically just better off as friends.

6. You have had so much drama in your relationship.

Drama can be really toxic and dangerous to any kind of relationship. And that’s why it’s totally possible for your relationship to end due to the drama that you have endured as a couple. You might have gone through so many things to the point that your love is incapable of keeping the two of you together.

7. You can’t shake the desire to see what else is out there.

It’s still possible for you to want better things even though you’re in love with someone. Just because you are in love with a person doesn’t mean that you won’t have this deep yearning deep down inside for other things. And when that’s the case, it might be best to let your love go for now.

8. You have poor communication in the relationship

Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship. It’s virtually impossible for any relationship to last when the communication in it is poor. That’s why it is essential that you still maintain open lines of communication in the relationship if you genuinely want it to last.

9. There is abuse in your relationship.

There is a form of abuse in your relationship. Don’t discount the fact that abuse is possible in your relationship even though you are in love with each other. People can still be abusive towards the people that they love. And abuse is never something that anyone should tolerate in a relationship.

10. You just know that things won’t work out.

And sometimes, even though you’re deeply in love with someone, you just know that things aren’t going to work out for the two of you. Deep down inside, your instincts are telling you that this is all coming to an end anyway in spite of the fact that you are in love with each other.

  1. Most of those reasons is what ended my 3 year relationship. I deeply loved my boyfriend as he did me. He didn’t like any of my family except my mom. I think my mom just tolerate him. He was so jealous of my 22 yr old son it made it extremely hard on me. My family didn’t care for him either. He said he hated drama yet he caused such drama if I said anything about my past even though my former husband is deceased. Yet he talked about his past 3 wives I felt like I knew them all personally. I’m no psychologist but I can tell you he was such a narcissist. I still love him but it’s best it’s finely over for good.

  2. 1st of all! I’m very disappointed that #9 is abuse!
    If I. Could post my screenshot I would! Why are we so bass awards about things these days!
    #1 should be the feelings of manipulation, self destruction! Abuse whether mental or especially physical!
    Red flags are what we should be educating about!
    Nothing else! Otherwise the rest of these are dumb excuses to not ne alone! #CODEPENDENCYFORTHEWIN!!

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