1. She can focus on taking care of herself.
She is a woman who really knows how to take care of herself. She is a girl who doesn’t really need a man to take care of her. She knows that she can’t take this life too lightly. She knows that she has lots of work to do; but she doesn’t let any of that faze her. She knows exactly what she needs to do to survive. She knows exactly the kind of mindset she needs to have if she’s going to get through her life’s challenges.
2. She doesn’t need anyone to be holding her back.
She really understands that she should only ever really be with people who are able to help her get to where she needs to be. She should never have to settle for being in a relationship with someone who is only bogging her down and holding her back. She has so many dreams for herself; and any man in her life should always be able to respect that. He should always be willing to help her get to the summit.
3. She has no time to deal with unnecessary drama.
She is the kind of girl who doesn’t want to have to deal with drama. And she knows that settling for a man who isn’t exactly the one she’s meant to be with is only going to generate a lot of unnecessary drama. She already lots of things on her plate; and she doesn’t want to have to deal with the stresses that come attached with relationship drama.
4. She knows how to deal with solitude better than disappointment and heartbreak.
She knows that even though she risks feeling lonely when she becomes single, she knows she’s going to be able to deal with that better than being constantly disappointed and heartbroken by her toxic relationship. She knows it’s better that she just faces her loneliness rather than put up with a love that is constantly destroying her on the inside.
5. She knows that she doesn’t want a fallback.
She knows that having a guy to “fall back on” is a cop out and she doesn’t want any of it. She knows that there is a chance that she’s going to fail in the future especially when you consider the gravity of her goals and dreams. But she isn’t going to allow herself to have a guy serve as her safety net. She knows that that shouldn’t be the motivation when it comes to falling in love.
6. She wants to burn bridges with toxic people.
She knows that not everyone she meets in life is always going to be worth keeping. She knows that some people are designed to stay with you forever; and there are some people who are only temporary. And she understands when it’s time to actually cut herself loose from people who don’t add value to her life anymore. It’s not about being selfish; it’s about giving herself the space that she needs to flourish on her own.
7. She doesn’t need a man to give her a sense of completion.
She is the kind of woman who is always going to complete herself. She knows that there are many holes to her personality that she needs to patch up on her own. But she definitely knows that being in a relationship with someone is not going to make her feel complete. Her sense of self-worth is never going to be tied to her relationship status.
8. She doesn’t want to force something that isn’t meant to happen.
She knows whenever things aren’t working out; and she knows when it’s best to walk away from something. She doesn’t want to be so pathetic to the point that she wastes her time on something that just isn’t meant to be.
9. She doesn’t want to deprive herself of finding the real man of her dreams.
She knows that if she’s going to settle for being in a relationship with someone she’s not really meant to be with, she is depriving herself of the opportunity to have her real soulmate walk into her life. She knows that she can’t close herself off to finding the true love of her life. She knows that she can’t settle for a love that is just “okay” because she knows that true love is always supposed to be something more than that.
10. She knows that the love of self is the most important kind of love.
She understands that it would be great to fall in love with someone who knows how to love her in return; someone who knows how to love her in the way that she deserves to be loved. But at the end of the day, the most important kind of love is the love of self. And she’s always going to prioritize loving herself over the love of any other person.
