Reasons why introverted people are amazing lovers.
Personally, I find shy guys extremely irritating, you just keep on wishing that they’d make the first move- say something, but they never do, instead, they just watch you from afar and all that staring tends to get on your nerves.
But that in no way means that reserved guys don’t make for good boyfriends, they make the best boyfriends- not for short term, just having fun kind of a relationship but for long term, lasting relationships. Shy guys are the kind to make you happy on the roughest of days for multiple reasons.
1. You don’t have to worry about getting on with their friends
Not just because they don’t have that many friends but also because the friends they do have are extremely close to them and he’s chosen them wisely, with great consideration. It’s next to impossible to not get along with genuinely good people, especially if they appreciate you for making their introverted friend happy.
2. They come up with the best ideas for dates
They don’t need to act crazy and get drunk in order to have a great time with you, granted clubbing can be fun and exciting; sometimes you just want to lie in bed with him all day or have a relaxing home-cooked dinner.
He’ll be all but relieved at you suggesting foregoing all the crazy bar-hopping plans and instead curling up on the couch or going for a walk in the park. Besides, clubs are just such wastes of time and makeup and what’s the point of going to a place where you’ll have to scream at the top of your lungs over the music to make conversation?
3. They really notice
Because shy guys spend most of their time observing the people around them, they know just how the ordinary human being works and they’re great at reading body language. Your shy boyfriend will be able to pick up on the littlest of things like when you’re faced with an ex or in a tricky situation with your parents and want to make an escape, he’ll know and he’ll steer you away expertly.
This quality of theirs also makes them expert comforters as they know exactly when you need to unload on them and you know you can count on them for always paying close attention to how you’re feeling and noticing your emotions.
4. They’re good listeners
There will never be a time that you’ll have to snap your fingers in front of him to force him to pay attention to what you’re saying, he’s always intently listening. Even if you’re talking about the most unexciting of things like how Susan wore the same blue dress she wore to Kate’s party to your party. He takes everything you say to heart and will never rudely pull out his phone while you’re trying to talk to him about something.
5. They always make you feel like you’re the most beautiful girl on the planet
In just the way that they are, they say the sweetest of things at the best of times. At times, you’re so grateful that he’s shy because if he wasn’t, girls would be all over him because of the fact that he’s smoother than Ryan Gosling’s character in ”Crazy Stupid Love”.
6. They’re never late and they never stand you up
Unless of course it’s an absolute emergency, like when his pet dog died and he held a proper burial for him. They call when they say they’re going to call and they pick you up exactly when they text you they will, you actually find yourself becoming more and more punctual, making his punctuality a habit of your own.
7. They enjoy a heart to heart moment
Unlike all the other guys you dated who cringe at the mention of anything deep or emotional, shy guys really value the fact that you’re opening up to them and can listen to you talk on forever.
8. You’ll never stop learning something about them
No matter how many secrets he has already unveiled to you, there’s always more to be discovered. It’s not even like he keeps things from people and is secretive, he’s just very selective of all the things about him that he wants to make public and when he starts to trusts you, he’ll tell you things about himself that you could’ve only ever imagined.
9. You’ll never ever suspect them of cheating
You can’t even imagine it happening, not in a million years would he willingly be insincere to you. They won’t even lie to you unless it’s a little white lie to protect you and they’ll do their best to keep you in the loop so you won’t even be able to suspect that something’s up (even though it never will be).
10. You will always be a priority for them
They’ll never be a question of putting something or someone over you and your happiness, for them you’re everything and they can’t even fathom putting their career or family over you.
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Have you ever dated an introvert? Can you related to all these advantages of dating a shy guy?