5. You might just cling to the idea of eventually ending up with prince charming.
Prince charming does not exist in this real life. If you really want to find love, you have to accept the fact that reality isn’t always going to meet your fairytale expectations. Let go of the idea of prince charming just randomly showing up in your life. There is no knight in shining armor who is going to come and sweep you off your feet. Let go of these childish beliefs so that you don’t end up disappointed all the time.
6. You risk talking yourself out of trying to find the love that’s meant for you.
If you convince yourself that good men don’t exist, then you essentially talk yourself out of trying to find love. You tell yourself that it’s a lost cause and that you’re only going to be fighting a losing fight. And that’s all untrue. You always have a shot at love so as long as you believe.
7. You might think yourself to be undeserving of love.
The more you buy into this idea that only bad men exist in your life, you might effectively lower your self-esteem. You might consider yourself to be unworthy of love and that’s bad for you in the long run. You never want a diminished sense of confidence.
