If you’re truly as hopeful and as innocent as can be, then it might be likely that you are prone to being naïve when it comes to the game of love and relationships. You might think that every single person out there on the dating scene is looking for a long-term romance. You might believe that everyone has noble intentions and only wants to feel and experience love with someone else. However, you would be wrong.
As sad as it might be to think about or acknowledge, there are so many people all over the world who are just plainly disgusting and despicable. Even though you go into dating and relationships with the best of intentions, not all people are going to share your sincerity. There are so many guys out there who are only looking to use and abuse you for your body. Being in a long-term relationship could be the farthest thing from their minds, and they’re going to do or say anything to score with you.
And you don’t want to be entertaining guys like that. You don’t want to be subjecting yourself to their abuse and manipulation. You would never want to allow yourself to be used in such a manner. You are a human being and you are so much more than just a sexual object. You shouldn’t be so willing to sell yourself short like that. You shouldn’t be so okay with just having a guy objectify you like some kind of toy. That’s why you always want to make sure that you take guys like this out of your life.
But how do you do that when they’re so good at hiding their true intentions? How do you know when a guy is being genuine and when he’s just being fake? You don’t want to be shutting yourself off from love completely. But you don’t want to be setting yourself up to get hurt either. So, what do you do?
This article is going to help open your eyes to the many red flags that you need to be on the lookout for if you’re going to be dating someone. The moment that you see your man doing a lot of the things listed here, then you better take action. It’s likely that he’s just looking to get you into bed with him.
1. He only cares about finishing himself in bed.
Whenever the two of you get physically intimate, he only looks to finish himself. He couldn’t care less about meeting your sexual needs.
2. He hasn’t introduced you to his friends and family.
Even though the two of you have already gotten intimate with one another, he still hasn’t introduced you to all of the important people in his life. He has been hiding you from his friends and family.
3. He goes out without you a lot.
He seems to be going out a lot but he never wants to invite you. He’s always just out with his group of buddies and he doesn’t seem interested in asking you to join in.
4. He has a history of being a player.
If he has a history or a reputation for being a player, then you should be very wary of his type. It’s unlikely that he has changed just for you.
5. He still has his dating apps on his phone.
He’s still looking to keep his options open. It shows that the only attachment that he has to you is physical. Emotionally, he’s still searching.
6. He ditches plans on you last-minute consistently.
He isn’t really a man of his word. He doesn’t show you any signs that he’s willing to seriously commit to being with you for the long term.
7. Most of the time you spend together is in the bedroom.
It’s as if the only time that the two of you ever hang out is when you’re in the bedroom together. You rarely ever get to spend time with one another outside of that. He never really asks you out on real dates.
8. He doesn’t really talk about the future with you.
He doesn’t really try to talk to you about the future. He’s always just content with living in the present. Whenever you try to discuss future plans, he just immediately changes the topic.
9. He doesn’t let you stay the night.
Whenever you guys do it at his place, he’s always adamant about you not staying the night. He knows that there is a certain emotional weight in allowing you to stay over and he doesn’t want that.
10. The only kind of intimacy you have is physical.
He doesn’t really open up to you on an emotional level. He doesn’t really try to talk to you or get to know you better. Any kind of intimacy or connection that the two of you have is purely physical.