If you’re truly as hopeful and as innocent as can be, then it might be likely that you are prone to being naïve when it comes to the game of love and relationships. You might think that every single person out there on the dating scene is looking for a long-term romance. You might believe that everyone has noble intentions and only wants to feel and experience love with someone else. However, you would be wrong.
As sad as it might be to think about or acknowledge, there are so many people all over the world who are just plainly disgusting and despicable. Even though you go into dating and relationships with the best of intentions, not all people are going to share your sincerity. There are so many guys out there who are only looking to use and abuse you for your body. Being in a long-term relationship could be the farthest thing from their minds, and they’re going to do or say anything to score with you.
And you don’t want to be entertaining guys like that. You don’t want to be subjecting yourself to their abuse and manipulation. You would never want to allow yourself to be used in such a manner. You are a human being and you are so much more than just a sexual object. You shouldn’t be so willing to sell yourself short like that. You shouldn’t be so okay with just having a guy objectify you like some kind of toy. That’s why you always want to make sure that you take guys like this out of your life.
But how do you do that when they’re so good at hiding their true intentions? How do you know when a guy is being genuine and when he’s just being fake? You don’t want to be shutting yourself off from love completely. But you don’t want to be setting yourself up to get hurt either. So, what do you do?
This article is going to help open your eyes to the many red flags that you need to be on the lookout for if you’re going to be dating someone. The moment that you see your man doing a lot of the things listed here, then you better take action. It’s likely that he’s just looking to get you into bed with him.
1. He only cares about finishing himself in bed.
Whenever the two of you get physically intimate, he only looks to finish himself. He couldn’t care less about meeting your sexual needs.
2. He hasn’t introduced you to his friends and family.
Even though the two of you have already gotten intimate with one another, he still hasn’t introduced you to all of the important people in his life. He has been hiding you from his friends and family.
3. He goes out without you a lot.
He seems to be going out a lot but he never wants to invite you. He’s always just out with his group of buddies and he doesn’t seem interested in asking you to join in.
4. He has a history of being a player.
If he has a history or a reputation for being a player, then you should be very wary of his type. It’s unlikely that he has changed just for you.