Don’t be with them if they’re only after your body and not your mind.
When you’re in a relationship with someone, you always want to know where the both of you stand in the grand scheme of things. You want to make sure that you’re both operating on the same emotional wavelengths. You want to make sure that there is an emotional bond and connection between the both of you that you can nurture so as long as you stay together. You can’t discard the fact that there are so many couples out there who aren’t necessarily operating on the same page. An example of such a case would be one wherein the girl may be looking for something emotionally stable and real and the guy is only looking for a casual hookup.
Not a lot of people know this, but how your boyfriend reacts to you after a session of vigorous lovemaking is very important. You can tell where his mind and his heart are in the midst of your relationship based on how he conducts himself after your romantic and intimate night sessions. So if you suspect him of being someone who is only after your physical intimacy, then this is the perfect article for you. Read on until the end of this list and if you find that your boyfriend is guilty of a lot of the items listed on here, then your suspicions are most likely true.
1. He goes straight to the bathroom for a long shower.
There are two things that he is trying to accomplish by doing this. For one, he wants to rid any scent or evidence of the activity that both of you have just engaged in doing together. And two, he’s doing it as a way to avoid the post-sex conversations with you. It’s all physical for him and he’s not looking for anything more.
2. He doesn’t bother to make you a nice breakfast in the morning.
Another great way to know whether it’s all just about the sex for him is how he is in the morning. If he’s still there and making you some breakfast, then that’s a good indicator that he’s interested in more than just the physical aspects of the relationship. If he’s not doing so, well then things aren’t looking so bright.
3. He drifts right off into dream land that moment that you finish.
He’s done with you. He had his night of immense pleasure and he’s done for the day. He doesn’t care about talking to you or cuddling with you anymore. He has had his climactic experience and it’s time for him to drift off into dreamland.
4. He grabs his phone and starts scrolling through his feeds and messages.
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5. He avoids any opportunities for kisses.
No extra kisses for you. All of the intimacy is over and done with. You don’t deserve to get any extra kisses from him. He doesn’t want you to think that he’s interested in getting emotionally attached to you. Unless of course, kisses are going to lead to another round of fund.
6. He doesn’t take the time to engage in foreplay.
He wants to get straight to the point. The very fact that he doesn’t want to play any games with you beforehand is an indicator of what his true intentions really are. He just wants to do it with you and be done with you. He doesn’t really care for the whole build-up process.
7. He only cares about finishing for himself and not for you.
One of the biggest telltale signs that he just isn’t into you emotionally is when he is selfish in the bedroom. If your sexual escapades are all about him wanting to please himself, then that means he doesn’t really care about what you want. If he were truly in love with you, he would want to please you too.
8. He doesn’t cuddle with you after.
The deed is done. He got what he wanted. He has done to your body everything that he set out on doing. There’s no justifiable reason for him to stay on and cuddle with you. It might be something that you want because you now it’s a practice of intimacy. But he’s done with it. He’s not interested in cuddling with you unless he knows it’s going to lead to another round.
9. He offers you a ride home.
Another indication that he really isn’t interested in an emotional relationship with you is if he offers you a ride home right after you do it. It’s essentially a veiled way of saying that he doesn’t want you to spend the night with him. He’s done what he wanted to do and he wants you to leave.
10. He tells you that all he wants is the sex.
Some guys just go right out and say it. If they are honest with you about it, then hey, at least you don’t have to keep on wondering.
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