When it’s true love, you’ll know, you’ll know.
It is easy to develop feelings for the guy you are dating but takes a while to understand if he is on the same page as you. Because of the initial confusion, shyness, and fear of giving you a lot to expect, he might not say it out loud, but there are some things that he might do to make it clear to you. Here are ten signs that the guy you have developed feelings for (or not) is seriously in love with you.
1. There’s Only You:
Whatever little contact he had with his ex-girlfriends and crushes, he ends it naturally because, for him, it is all about you now. It is a different matter if his ex happens to be his co-worker, but otherwise, he would indulge himself in only one serious relationship that is with you and put off all the old flames. When we genuinely like someone, all our confusions and old, unstable connections seem not to matter anymore. В That is how you will know that he has, somewhat, started seeing you the way you see him.
2. He Cares About His Impression On Your Family:
When you tell him about your upcoming family dinner, he seems ready more than hesitant. It is him saying that I think it’s high time I meet them’. He dresses up formally, unlike some guy who does not give a damn about what your family thinks about him. He stays his true self around your family and refrains from foul play because that is what a good boyfriend would do. His love for you keeps him disciplined and interested in your family and the stories they have to tell about you.
3. You Have Met People Close To Him:
You have met his best friend and the whole group, his favorite cousin, and all his family. That is one way to know that you have made your way into his heart. If you were just a fling, he would not bother introducing you to the people he is close to. It seems like he is almost certain that you will stay a part of his family now and that it is like an inevitable reality now. He takes you as his plus one to family weddings and is proud to be seen holding hands with you.
4. He Does Not Mind Waiting:
If you have not been physically intimate with him a lot of times, he does not mind for you to be comfortable. Guys who are time-wasters usually get cranky when denied sex; it won’t be the case with the guy who loves you. Your comfort and consent mean everything to him; therefore, he does not rush you in the bedroom until you are ready. It shows that he likes you and not just your body.
5. He Maintains Contact:
He is one of those guys who you do not have to worry about going astray because he initiates contact and gives you the satisfaction of being his top priority. He makes you feel content, and you know he must be busy when he is not texting or calling. Maintaining contact shows that he has got nobody so close to him, except you, with whom he can talk about anything and everything. Only love can be the reason behind wanting to talk to someone 24/7.
6. You Are On His Mind:
Even when you are not with him or around him, he thinks about you and talks about you. If his friends or family members tell you that he is always talking about you, it is justified that you get flattered. A person only talks about someone when he is obsessed about them, and if that obsession stays, it won’t be wrong to call it love.
7. Your Opinions Matter To Him:
Some men tend to keep their women out of their outdoor businesses and completely separate them from the things that worry them all day. If your guy shares everything that he can’t find a solution of by himself and asks for your opinion, you matter to him. He loves you if he thinks it appropriate to tell you everything about his outdoor businesses and considers your opinion because that does not only show how high he holds you but also makes it clear that you are his go-to person.
8. Truth and Nothing But The Truth:
Closed affairs and dark secrets will all be made open to you when he realizes that he loves you. He will feel no need to hide anything from you because he thinks you are constant. You will notice his phone won’t be password-protected, and even if it is, he will casually tell you the code. Complete trust in someone shows that they have made a place for themselves in our lives, and that is exactly what you have done if he always tells you the truth and nothing but the truth.
9. He Has Talked About Making It Exclusive:
Dating you without being exclusive means that you can meet anybody while you date him; the thought of sharing you with someone makes him jealous. If he has fallen for you, he will try or has tried talking. He has already asked you or will ask you if you want to call it exclusive. He might not say exactly how much he has become interested in you; the request for exclusiveness is enough to understand that.
10. He Makes Everything Easy for You:
If your workload is more than you can handle, he will be there for you to reduce/share it. If something is bothering you, he will make sure that he is of some help in making things right because seeing you upset upsets him. He will generally make everything easy for you as an honest lover would. Love is easy to sense. The little things we do make it clear how much we care for the other person, and he will do just that to make it clear to you.
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Let me know your thoughts in the comments down below!
I’m doubting if he really loves me. He has some of the qualities said here, maybe half of those. But I don’t feel safe just thinking all lf those things happened between us and my family because of him. So, I’m really in doubt. And totally afraid of believing it from him.
All of what things?
I’m in that same exact boat girl!
I have met my soulmate. We live 90 minutes apart, but he texts or calls me everyday. He talks about our future plans. He calls me beautiful. He is unlike any man I have ever met🥰
Don’t believe it. You will get together and he will make promises but then he will brake them it will never work. I have thinking it was going to work for 29 years. I was just kidding myself. We are just friends
You don’t have enough information to make this assessment. Just because yours didn’t work out, doesn’t mean others won’t.
This is sooo true! This is where I am at 🙌🏼🙌🏼🤪🤪I feel and believe the love. He is amazing.
My man got 10/10 .. I finally found my man who’s madly in love with me. He’s sad when I’m sad, he’s upset when I’m upset, etc. I am always his priority. He always makes me happy and special. For him, I’m the most beautiful. He use to surprise me with lots of things. He respects me a lot. He love and care to my family as well. He loves me so much. He’s the only man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I finally found my forever love!
Thank god my dear
However, that should work both ways.
“There’s only you” the most beautiful feeling.
He makes me feel the same every second of my life with him. Rest 9 follows effortless.
My Bull 😍, I thank God for my ‘built to order’ man.
My man is my twin flame & ticks every box. He’s currently over 3,000 miles away from me but we talk daily & if he can’t reach out because he’s got a hectic work day he apologises as soon as he’s free.
I’m 45 and have waited my whole life to have this kind of love. Almost 3 yrs ago I lost my husband (that’s a story in itself). I met my significant other about a yr later. He truly is my person!
I had that once and I wish he was still on earth. He was my everything. I didn’t want for anything. He made me feel like I was his queen. He made me feel wanted, respect it, loved and safe. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, but God had other plans for him. I will NEVER forget him and the belief he had for me. We were going to be that powerful couple. I will always love him and miss him.
I’m very confused cos it is all the total opposite of the horrible treatment I’m getting on my marriage 🤨
I had that for about 20 yrs, we built a family, a life, we had it all. Ups downs and got thru it. Then he was in a horrible accident and we both ended up turning to drugs. He’s been sober 4 yrs and helped me get sober 3 yrs ago. I couldn’t have done it without him! Unfortunately we couldn’t get past the past mistakes. But we’re still great friends and still do family stuff occasionally. We will always be there for each other!
Girl. Same here! Same here! The Evilness, hurt, and pain those damn drugs do, unfortunately tears many lives apart! I don’t know what I’d have done or where I’d be (prob dead) without hubby (legally still married) getting me clean. I was so frail and sick and he got me thru it. Unfortunately, like you said, we couldn’t get past the past but he’s still my best friend. We had many happy years, memories, and raised an incredible amazing family! Afterwards I got into an abusive relationship for a few years. Ended that almost a year ago…family and friends was so glad I came to my senses! Im happy again. Im learning to be myself again. I love it! Im so outta the game tho, lol I had to ask a coworker if a customer was hitting on me, idk what this man did but he definitely caught my eye! Damn did it feel good! I don’t think im ready to’date’ yet. im just living life and enjoying every moment! Whatever happens happens. It Does feel good to feel good!
I’m sure he loves me but then again he’s in jail… Hopefully he will get out soon and we can be together… I love him
That Dimitrios 😂 and this Gorski
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I have been married for 45 years. I knew when I met my husband that he is who I would spend the rest of my life with. I had abusive relationships before my husband. He is my dream come true. We have been best friends, lovers, and raised four wonderful chldren. We have always respected each other and or children are always thanking us for teaching them Gods way. We have one child who is a life flight trauma nuse. She is an RN. One son is Superintendent of the iron workers union..another is a Col in the USMC in Japan. And another is only two credit hours away from her Doctorate in Education. They have all done well and are so precious to us. Live in the moment..be mature not emotional, always listen with understanding.. Love God and Thank Him for bringing you both together. I send you all love!
True love is when he picks the neighbors flowers at 5 in the morning,gets away with it… and puts em in a vase on the bathroom counter or in your car.so you can see them when you wake up and start your day for work .❤️
You should ask him why he was at the neighbours and not in bed next to you at the day break. Something fishy is being dished at you in the smog of flowers. 😉
True will be cuddling you so when you open your eyes, you can see him.
I loved reading this article because it reinforced what my Baby💋 been saying, He’s crazy in love with me, according to this he is head over heels in love and based on this new discovery I will say Yes next time he asks me to marry him. Thank You so much for writing this the content has helped me to finally let go of my fear and embrace happiness.
My fiancee is all what you’ve listed here.he’s amazing. I wouldn’t have ask God for a better man than him he is wow am not married to him yet but he treats me like is sister, mother and wife. I love him so much. He’s my priceless.