Discovering that your husband is texting someone else can be heartbreaking, especially when your relationship seemed to be going well.
In this article, you will learn to recognize and understand the signs of suspicious activities and how to handle the situation.
He spends too much time on the phone
If you notice him constantly glued to his phone, it might be an indicator that he is texting another woman. Pay attention to whether he’s texting all the time or acting strangely when you ask who is messaging a lot. It’s essential to talk openly about your concerns and feelings to understand what’s going on.
He gets nervous about unlocking his phone around you
If he acts strangely or guards his phone like a treasure, it could indicate something is wrong. Trust your instincts and express your feelings calmly. An open conversation can help you both address any issues and build trust.
He doesn’t take calls in front of you
If he avoids answering his phone when you’re with him, it can imply that he is talking to another women behind your back. While everyone has the right to privacy, it’s concerning when he refuses to take calls around you. Talk to him about your feelings to have an open and honest conversation.
You see an unfamiliar name pop on his phone, and he acts oddly about it
If you notice an unfamiliar name popping up on his phone, and he acts strangely about it, it’s worth discussing. While it may not be a big deal, it’s essential to have open communication to understand each other better. It’s equally important that you address the issue with proper consideration and don’t ruin things by acting too harshly.
He hesitates to show you things on his phone
When he’s reluctant to share his phone with you, it can create doubt and insecurity. Respecting each other’s privacy is important, but if the hesitation feels excessive, you must address the issue and communicate your feelings openly to avoid misunderstandings.
He doesn’t leave his phone around you when he’s not around
If he keeps his phone close to him even when he’s not nearby, it can feel like he’s hiding something. Talk to him about your concerns and work together to balance trust and privacy.
He’s online but doesn’t respond to your texts
When he’s active online but doesn’t promptly reply to your messages, it means he is ignoring you and talking to someone else. That someone might be another woman – not necessarily a new romantic interest, but still you need to communicate openly about your needs and expectations to avoid misunderstandings.
He Suddenly Has More Time for Himself and Less Time for You
If your partner starts spending more time alone and less time with you, it could mean he’s interested in or texting another woman. But it could also be that he just needs some space. In any case, it’s important to talk to him about why he’s spending more time alone. Open communication can help you understand what’s going on in your relationship.
He Starts Talking About Another Woman a Lot
If your partner frequently mentions another woman, even casually, it might be a sign that she’s often on his mind without him realizing it. If you discover evidence that he’s been texting this woman, it’s natural to be concerned that there might be something serious going on between them.
He Starts Making Excuses for Why He Can’t See You or Spend Time With You
If he begins giving excuses for not spending time with you or seeing you, it means that he’s either spending time with someone else or losing interest in you. It’s essential to talk openly with your partner to understand what’s happening in the relationship.
he can have another phone and leave his phone in front of me
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Dose this go for women as well? Cuz my girl dose everything you said here.
Sure can cheating has no gender
Or says phone is an open book…..use it look through it you have full access. Yes because you have dummy accounts that you rarely use that I am able to view or are used when around me. Then there is the whole.world of second or more profiles and, secret messaging apps, and just being able to block a partner from seeing what one does not want their partner to see. I had seen a second profile and groups like “this is why i’m.single” are inviting her, or deleted Whatsapp Adult Dating 21+ group that she has denied hiding….so much out there to tempt anyone really whether satisfied or not in a relationship.
Exactly
Exactly. I’m responding to the other person who posted that he could have another phone.
Confronting is difficult….he gets defensive and angry…results are not good!!! Already found evidence once and confronting was unbearable…however things turned for the good…now nervous again! Total trust is an issue for me right now! Although he even prays to God for me in front of me…I am suspicious! I pray for God to come in his heart and head and get him to stop!!!
I had some issue. Found out he was texting his ex who obviously still had feelings for & she for him. After that it was like his phone was Ft. Knox. He also got a burner phone…totally broke my trust & it was consuming knowing he was texting her & probably seeing her. Could never get my trust back, so thats why he’s now my ex.
I don’t know how to raise concern. I have trust issues vase on past relationship but the current guy seems to do quite a few of these things. I feel like if I raise it up, it’ll become a problem.
Leaves his phone on do not disturb. 😬😬
Is it considered a major reason for breaking up the relationship?
No. The major issue is you’re having an affair with texts and at the same time, your other woman. It’s not a ground of break up if the guy is texting to a dummy account and not a regular txtmate.
Is it considered a major reason for breaking up the relationship? Though he doesn’t have a personal affair, just by through texting only.
Nope,. My fiance did the same thing before. I just talked to him, maybe I was lacking of time effort and affection and I admitted I am since got busy at work..But eventually we fixed it we didn’t break up but unfortunately death permanently set us apart😔
I’m sorry to hear.
But it’s good that both of you gave effort to fix that problem. I wish we could fix.
I texting draws them closer and then feelings happen and then he wants to meet up
That’s also considered cheating !
Believing,my instinct never been wrong that’s why I’d rather be silent unless ,they would try to intrude myown privacy,for instance these other person were anxious if my husband would not be able to get her message and blame me. That’s sound crazy but it’s true. So what I did I ask her to pickup up my husband right away if not ,I won’t give them a chance otherwise they both taking their own medicine for deceiving me.
I tell you’ll just told the truth. Cause this saying describes my so called husband. He guards his phone like it’s a piece of gold. He keeps it locked and he is always on there on these sites like ticktock and Facebook messenger. We have been married for 27 years and I know he has a girlfriend. Of course he denies it. He just doesn’t care how much he hurts me. I wish I would seen this article a long time ago. I promise you it is talking about him. It started back in 2019 and it is 2024 so that’s how long I have been dealing with this.. I just don’t know what to do. I am 60 years old and my health isn’t great either. We have no kids together. Please someone please help me out of this mess..
Sounds like you should move on , while your still young !
What he’s doing is inappropriate & emotionally cheating on you. You deserve better. My husband was doing the same thing with his ex-skank. Its totally disrespectful to you & your marriage. My counselor once told me that if you’re in a relationship & you want to cheat or are cheating, have the decency to first get out of your relationship cause its not fair to your partner. I was with my spouse for close to 30 years and it was really hard but I left him & he’s now my ex. Believe in your self worth Nancy, that you do deserve better.
Love the advice. Thanks so much
Exactly. Very accurate.