Men love attention. Men especially like the kind of attention that comes from women. When a man can make women swoon and want him, other men look at him in awe and envy him. Because amongst men, being able to have girls run after you is something of an achievement. Men who are excellent at pleasing women, who are just super smooth in their talking and in their actions around women are the ones that take the cake when it comes to being appreciated by both men and women.
But not all men are capable of effortlessly sweeping women off their feet. For some men, it’s difficult and challenging. Some men will get awkward, and they will get really shy, they won’t know what to say or when to say it. The nervousness can lead to being clumsy. They aren’t able to get the message that the like a girl across for the longest time and when the finally muster the courage to say, it doesn’t end well because men like these are just not familiar with the basic but essential things a man needs to do to make a woman they want, want them.
If you’re someone who struggles to do just the right thing, say the things you want to say just the way you’ve planned in your mind, if you’re going to be really good with getting a woman to like you, here are something you need to keep in mind next time you’re out on a date.
1. That first impression is more important than you realize
Make your first impression count. Do not falter or fumble on the first date. It’s a very special experience for a girl, and if you screw up, even if she doesn’t say or admit to it, she’s going to remember that for a long time. If you don’t have anything to speak to a woman the first time you two hang out, there can be nothing worse than that. You need to able talk to her, make her smile, laugh, giggle, blush; make her feel all of that good stuff. Be as confident as possible without being cocky and don’t say anything stupid or too made-up that will make you look like you’re dying from nervousness on the inside. Behave like a gentleman, know when you have to crack jokes, when you need to be serious, when you need to act cute and shy and when to be the tough guy. It all counts. Have her call it a night wanting more.
2. Make it challenging for her
No one’s asking you to play hard to get and act like you’re a diamond she’s going to have to extract from somewhere deep in the earth. But, if you make it too easy and predictable for her, she’s going to hardly try and lose her interest in you before it even fully develops. So, don’t come off too desperate. Build that mystery factor. Leaver her wondering a million things about you. Leave her wanting to know more. Let her in, but only enough for her to want to be let in even more. Be a challenge for her that she willingly wants to take on.
3. Ask only what needs to be asked
This is so important yet so underrated. Men don’t realize this, but it’s high time they did: asking stupid questions are the worst thing you can do when trying to impress a woman. It’s going to ruin the image of an intelligent, patient, mature gentleman that you’re working so hard on building. Don’t waste time getting into silly, pointless questions like “do you have a boyfriend?” “when did you break up” “what happened.” Just don’t do it in an attempt at getting to know her better. If you really want to get to know her, ask her sweet, sensible questions about her likes and dislikes, her hobbies, her desires, her bucket list, etc. etc. the point is there are a lot of right things to be asked so don’t waste energy on the wrong questions.
4. Don’t breathe their air
This doesn’t just pertain to women. No person like to have someone hovering on their heads all the time. Don’t ever be too clingy. Stay close but give her the time and space to think about you, want you and crave you. The only way she will come after you if only you let her. Don’t linger around when you say you’ll see her or talk to her later. Leave for real for that bit of time and make her miss you. Being clingy never ended for anyone.
5. It’s the little things that matter the most
Lastly, when in the company of women, don’t ever underestimate the power of the smaller details. The more a man takes care of the little details, the harder a woman swoons for him. Yes, really. So go that extra mile and do sweet, winsome things for her.