Calling someone your boyfriend is still going to be a big deal for a lot of women. That’s why you want to make sure that whoever gets that privilege is someone worthy of it. However, it isn’t always going to be so easy discerning that.
After all, there are plenty of guys out there who might look the part but still be complete fakes. Make sure that you stay on the lookout for yourself. You have to be your own most excellent guardian. That means safeguarding yourself from men who aren’t worthy of being in your life.
Anyway, let’s get right down to it. Here are the 10 things that he has to do for him to be worthy of being your boyfriend.
1. He makes an effort with your friends and family.
He makes a genuine effort for your friends and family to like him. After all, he knows just how important these people are to you. Ultimately, he also wants to be an important man in your life. And he understands that in order to do that, he has to make room for the people who are already close to your heart.
2. He opens up to you about his feelings.
He should be someone who opens up to you about his deepest feelings. You want a guy who isn’t afraid to keep it real with you. It might hurt to hear the truth. However, at least you know that you can always trust him to be true to you. And that’s a lot better than having a liar in your life who deceives you.
3. He allows himself to be vulnerable to you.
The vulnerability wouldn’t be a problem for a guy like him. After all, he understands that for you to take him seriously, he has to let you in. Additionally, he doesn’t have any problems with revealing his true self towards you.
Love the in put about what me as a male should do.
You keep an unbalanced view by banging on about men.
FYI, your readership consists of men too..
Ps.
Please don’t respond, saying you do…. The ratio needs to be more balanced, is all I’m saying …
Goodness knows we men need more insight into the female psyche, to help avoid beautiful women with damage beyond even their own compensation ..
AMEN!
I’m not the author of this article, but I agree with you.
I think a relationship should feel like you’re best friends and be a team effort honestly. But there should also be a connection between the couple to where they just enjoy each other’s company regardless that planning dates isn’t even necessary.
My hubby and I don’t actually “plan” dates… instead, we’ll talk about hanging out, watching TV, playing video games or going out kinda randomly and/or last minute lol.
We also now have a soon to be 9 month old and will bring her along on “dates” if the grandparents aren’t available.