This one is for the gentlemen, guys who genuinely care for the women they’re with, and their looks don’t mean much to them. It’s a common misconception about men that they care more about the looks, but let’s be honest, who doesn’t care about the looks at first? We all do. But what matters is that we don’t stay too attached to the looks and give other things more important, something that should matter more and do matter more.
Here are ten things men like in women more than good looks.
1. Their support
Men love it when their ladies back them up and support them in all of their endeavors. I firmly believe in the saying that behind every successful man, there’s a woman. When your man truly loves you, menial and superficial things go out the window, and what they expect from you is what’s going to matter in the long run.
2. Their time
I cherish every second I spend with my girlfriend because it’s not easy for her to take time out of her studies etc. But she still takes out an ample amount of time for me so that I never feel like I’m being ignored, she’s even met me during her exams also though she still had a lot to study, so I cherish every moment she’s with me. Men love it when their women devote their time to them because time is one of the most priceless gifts you can give to someone.
3. Their trust
Ladies, men don’t just care about how pretty you are, yes they will compliment you every single day because they love you and they don’t care about your looks. What’s more important is trust.
My girlfriend had a rough past, so it wasn’t easy for me to gain her confidence, but I tried my hardest, and I finally have it, I’ve finally gained her complete faith and trust in me, this felt like an accomplishment, and it still does.
4. When they’re good listeners
Men admire it when their women actually listen to what they’re saying and don’t just nod their heads without paying attention to the conversation. Everybody needs someone to talk to, about their days, about their life, about work, so many things happen, and so many events unfold every day, and we all need someone to talk to about it all.
For me, my day doesn’t feel right unless I call my girlfriend up and tell her how it went, and it makes me feel complete when she pays attention to every word I say.
5. Their sense of humor
One of the biggest turn-ons for me is a great sense of humor. If a girl knows how to joke around and laugh, nothing comes close to how I feel about a girl like that. Men love women with a good sense of humor when they can take a joke and equally give it back.
Good looks aren’t everything, it’s more about the personality a woman holds, and sense of humor is one of the most significant parts of someone’s personality. You can tell how lively a person is by their sense of humor.
6. The food
Men will be men; food will always be a weakness. Don’t get me wrong; I’m not one of those people who think women should be the ones in the kitchen, no. I sometimes try to cook, although I fail horribly at it I still try. But the way she cooks is something I admire a lot, I would happily stay home and eat her cooking rather than go out to any fancy restaurant, she’s a fantastic cook and I respect that a lot about her. Men love food; men like women who can make good food, it’s not all about good looks.
If the guy truly loves you, he’ll always pay a lot of attention to your goals and objectives. He won’t just be flattered by your looks, he will love you for who you hope to be one day, for what you hope to accomplish one day, he will love you for all of your hopes and dreams, and he will try his best to help you reach those goals with all of his heart and soul.
8. When they enjoy their food
I love it when a girl knows how to eat! I used to date this girl who used to be extra dainty and sophisticated at every lunch and dinner; she used to leave most of her food behind because she was “watching her diet” calorie by calorie.
It’s a huge turn off for me when women do that, women should know how to eat, without caring about anyone watching. My girlfriend and I fight over food sometimes, and it’s something I love about my relationship with her, she’s not helpful when it comes to food, and I love that about her.
9. When they’re emotional
I’m the sentimental type, and I love it when she gets all emotional about me or our relationship. Whenever I do something for her, she gets these emotional moments when she goes on and on about how much I do for her, and I cherish her emotions more than her looks. Men love it when a woman can be expressive about her feelings ultimately.
10. When they’re independent
I love it when a woman is self-sufficient and independent. A lot of people I know feel insecure about this, but I am proud of this one fact; it’s a massive turn-on for me when a woman is successful in what she’s doing when she’s ambitious when she wants to keep moving forward and keeps accomplishing her goals. My girlfriend is the same, and when I see her talk about work, I feel a sudden spark of pride within me.