10 Things You Should Never Do to Get A Guy’s Attention

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Let’s face it, you don’t need to use these reckless methods to get attention of a guy. Being yourself works better than any trick out there!

Being the social animals that we are, we love affection and attention from those we like. While it is better to do some things that get us the attention that we need, it is never good to be careless, reckless or immature when it comes to our attention-seeking actions.

Especially as a girl, you need to maintain a certain level of maturity. Let’s face it, you don’t need to use reckless methods to get attention of a guy. Being yourself works better than any trick out there!

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We’ve drawn up a list about all the things that you should never do both in relationships and in the dating world- in order to get a guy’s attention.

  1. Act Dumb

Ladies! Under no circumstances, act dumb in front of a guy in order to get his attention. Even if you are on a higher intellectual level than him, be yourself and If he is intimidated by it, then bad news, he isn’t worthy of you. You should not have to dumb down your mental faculties in order to connect with him. Even if you do, as yourself; Is it a real connection?

  1. Act interested in the things that you don’t like

Just because a guy likes something does not mean that he wants you to like that thing too. So, maintain your sense of self and do not pretend to be into the same things as he is. As a human being, of course you are allowed to be different.

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  1. Pretense

Pretending to be someone that you are not will only get you so far before the guy realizes that you are fake with him. You don’t need to be someone that you are not in order to get a guy’s attention. If he is not into the real you, then sure, good riddance!В – Continue reading on the next page

  1. Don’t change your principles and morals

Do not, under any circumstances, compromise on your principles and morals. You do not need to agree with anything a guy says in order to get his attention. You might be able to put up with the charade for a while, but abandoning your morals for another human being will eat your soul slowly from the inside out. So, stay true to yourself and do not compromise on the beliefs that you hold dear.

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  1. Lose your Friends

Do not abandon your friends to be around a guy all the time. This will only make you seem like someone who has no life. And the chances are, the guy you will abandon your friends for, will not give you as much attention as he would have previously. Too much of anything is bad. You need to have a life of your own without being around him 24/7.

  1. Change your wardrobe

Every person has a distinct fashion style. You too, have your own sense of style that you have been following since forever. Why should things be different now? You do not need to change your dressing sense in order to get a guy’s attention. What does that say about your personality?

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  1. Starve yourself

You do not need to go out of your comfort zone in order to look thinner for guys. If anything, you will be reinforcing the unreal beauty standards set by the media. So, do not starve yourself in order to fit in that extra tight dress that makes it hard for you to breathe like a human being.В – Continue reading on the next page

  1. Life goals and plans

You do not need to plan your life around his needs and preferences. Instead, be your own woman and plan your life according to the needs that you have. There is a difference between consideration and altering your life plans. Do consider that guy in your life, but do not make life-changing decisions for him.

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  1. Career

As a woman in 2016, career should be one of your top priorities. Of course we all need someone to hold our hand and stand by us in times of difficulty but that does not mean you should compromise on your career goals in order to chase a guy or to get his attention. Instead, once you are in a stable position career wise- you will see how easy it gets to gain a man’s attention. And here, we do mean a real man who is not intimidated by someone who has her priorities straight.

  1. Get Physical before you are ready

A lot of women make this mistake in order to get a guy’s attention. It is never a good idea to get physically intimate with a guy before you are ready. Chances are, it might even work against you. Men give women more attention when there is mystery and intrigue. Physical intimacy inhibits the emotional intimacy in case of men. So, make sure you are ready before engaging in sexual activities.

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Ladies, what’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve had to do for a guy? Let me know in the comments below!