It’s time to face the truth.
You can’t be so immature to believe that just because you’re helplessly in love with a person automatically translates to the two of you having a healthy relationship. In fact, a lot of times, people fall in love with individuals who are just downright wrong for them. And when that happens, it’s always best to call it quits no matter how counter-intuitive it may seem to walk away from someone you’re deeply in love with. It’s better for all parties involved to just not be selfish about it. No matter how much you would want a relationship to work out, sometimes it’s just not meant to be. Here are 10 uncomfortable signs that your relationship is wrong for you.
1. Your friends and family don’t approve of the relationship.
While you shouldn’t let your friends and family by making your own personal decisions for you, that doesn’t mean you should be totally disregarding their sentiments about how you live your life. We are all human beings and we all need the perspective of others to survive. Sometimes, your biases could potentially blind you from the fact that you’re in a bad relationship.
2. You never feel completely comfortable with just being yourself when you’re together.
In any relationship, you should always be made to feel like you can be yourself. You should never have to feel like you have to censor or suppress who you really are on the inside. Your partner should always be pushing and encouraging you to just be your natural self. They should make you feel comfortable with just being who you are.
3. You are constantly afraid of being judged in the relationship.
It’s normal for us to always want the people we love to think highly of us. This serves as a form of motivation for us to always try to be better human beings. We never want to be a disappointment especially to the people we love. However, that doesn’t mean we should be living in constant fear of judgment from the people we love the most.
4. You see spending time with one another as a chore.
Time is valuable and we never want to waste it on people, things, or activities that aren’t important to us. So if you feel like spending time with your partner is more of a burden than it is a pleasure, then there’s something really wrong with your relationship. That tells you that you don’t really find it important to spend time with each other at all.
Definitely feel the signs my man is giving up on us. Well he pretty much has given up. He leaves my texts on read, tells me he needs a few weeks to decide if he wants this. He’s been saying things that are very hurtful. I feel stupid for holding on hoping he will go wake up and realize the damage that he is doing.