10 Ways To Have A Healthy Breakup With Someone You Love

Sometimes, even when you love someone with all your heart, it just isn’t meant to be. Not all relationships are built to last. And even though you might think that you’re perfect for someone, life might have other plans in mind. That’s why there are so many couples out there who call it quits even though they still love one another. You might feel like you care deeply about a person but still understand that you have to draw the relationship to a close.

Compatibility is a huge driving factor in determining the strength and longevity of a relationship. Even though you are truly in love with someone, your relationship could ultimately still be jeopardized by your incompatibility as a couple. And whenever that’s the case, it’s always better to just end things than to try to force the issue. Of course, you can still try to make things work. And you should. It’s always best that you give a relationship with your absolute best. However, when it’s time to call it quits, you also have to be brave enough to do so as well.

But breakups are rarely ever easy. In fact, they can be some of the most difficult and painful ordeals that anyone would ever have to go through. This might be a big reason as to why you wouldn’t want to be initiating a breakup in the first place. You might be too afraid of dealing with all the awkwardness, drama, and pain involved with breaking up with someone you love.

It’s true, that the entire breakup process is a difficult one. However, it’s not totally impossible to have a healthy breakup with someone. Sure, it might still hurt. But there is a way for you to lessen the pain of the blow if you are just able to break up with one another in the right way. That’s exactly where this article comes in. If you feel like you want to break up with someone you love because you feel like you aren’t right for one another, then these are a few ways you can do so to make sure that the breakup is as healthy as can be:

1. Own up to your shortcomings and mistakes.

You have to come to terms with the fact that you didn’t do everything perfectly in the relationship. You have to be humble enough to own up to your mistakes and acknowledge the fact that you had your shortcomings as well.

2. Give each other space.

Agree to give each other space after the breakup. It’s not healthy for you to still be spending time with one another after the breakup even if you intend on remaining friends. You still need to be giving each other space.

3. Treat one another with respect always.

Respect is something that you should have always had throughout the course of your relationship. And it’s something that you should always have even when you’re now broken up as a couple.

4. Come to terms with the fact that love just wasn’t enough.

Sometimes, you just have to accept that the love that you had for one another wasn’t enough. There were just a few external factors out there that were too overpowering and were beyond your control.

5. Don’t play the blame game.

So, don’t play the blame game. Sometimes, things just don’t work out between two people who love each other. And it doesn’t always have to be anybody’s fault. If it isn’t a good fit, then it just isn’t a good fit.

6. Allow yourselves some time to feel pain and be sad.

Breakups are sad. And as much as you would want to have a healthy breakup, it can still feel really painful. It’s important that you still acknowledge that grief and you try to address it in healthy means.

7. Allow yourselves to heal and get better.

Once you’ve acknowledged that sadness inside of you, it is now time for the two of you to heal independently from one another. Lick your wounds and try to get to a better emotional state.

8. Don’t give each other false hopes.

Don’t give each other false hopes. Cut the cord loose. End things once and for all. Don’t be hyping a comeback if you know that it isn’t going to happen.

9. Believe that your love was still valid.

Just because things didn’t work out doesn’t mean that your love wasn’t true. It’s very much possible to share true and genuine love with someone and yet still have things fall apart at the end.

10. Trust that you can both still find love again, just not with each other.

Just because love didn’t happen o work out for you this time around doesn’t mean that it’s never going to. You still have to be able to trust that love is eventually going to come for you someday.

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