10 Ways Women Act When They Don’t Love You Anymore

“She doesn’t seem like she cares anymore.”

The sad truth about relationships is that they are rarely ever perfect. A lot of relationships won’t ever have the privilege of seeing itself go all the way because human beings are inherently imperfect, and their imperfections play into the dynamics of the relationship as a whole. There are lots of cases wherein people fall in and out of love with each other throughout the course of a relationship. What people have to understand is that so many conditions and variables have to be perfect in order for a relationship to have a fighting chance. Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. It takes a lot of commitment, hard work, time, effort, and heaps of good luck.

However, there’s no getting around the fact that people fall out of love with each other. It always hurts whenever that happens. You wouldn’t want to wish that kind of emotional pain or trauma unto your worst enemy. It’s a common occurrence, and the best that you can do whenever it happens to you is to just try your best to move on with your life.

The earlier you can spot the problems in your relationship, the easier it will be for you to move on from the situation. If you can spot early signs of your girlfriend falling out of love with you, then that will bode better for you in the long run.

1. She doesn’t seem like she cares anymore.

You feel like there’s no effort there and that her affection for you is slowly dying. It’s as if she’s lost interest in life in general, but in truth, she has only lost interest in you. It’s as if all the vitality and animation that was once in her life has suddenly vanished, and you don’t know what to do about it.

2. She no longer compliments you on your looks.

Initially, physical attraction is what brought you together. She used to tell you that you looked so handsome when you first started dating. But overtime, the compliments started to fade away, and now you’re left with practically nothing. She no longer has that physical attraction towards you.

3. She stops putting in the effort to make your relationship work.

She sees that your relationship is dying and withering, and she is making no effort whatsoever to save it from a slow and painful death. She couldn’t care less about whether you two fight all the time, and she no longer has the patience to resolve any lingering arguments between the two of you.

4. Communication is rare between the both of you.

Communication is always the bedrock of any strong relationship. A couple engaging in open communication with each is always more likely to survive as opposed to couples who shut each other out. When you and your woman no longer have deep and meaningful conversations, then that means she has probably lost interest in you and that your spark is dying.

5. She acts on her own accord regardless of how you feel.

Your thoughts and feelings are irrelevant to her. She will do what she wants regardless of how it’s going to make you feel. If her actions end up hurting you in the end, then it really isn’t a problem for her because she doesn’t really love you anymore.

6. She doesn’t express gratitude for your gestures.

She used to jump for joy whenever you brought her gifts or flowers. She would get all giddy and excited whenever you would tell her about date plans. She used to plaster a huge smile on her face whenever you came home with food and treats. However, nowadays, your gestures are met with nothing better than indifference.

7. You are always the initiator of conversations.

If it always feels like you are the one who is making an effort to initiate conversations, then you should be worried. If she were truly still in love with you, she would also willingly want to talk to you about anything under the sun. She would willingly turn to you for your opinions and your thoughts about things that interest her.

8. She doesn’t make an effort to make you feel special.

She used to love doing so many sweet and romantic things for you, however, things have changed. She doesn’t care about making you feel giddy and special anymore. She couldn’t care less about whether or not you were happy in the relationship because obviously, she’s not feeling happy either.

9. She stops asking for your attention, and she stops giving you attention too.

In the past, she used to ask for constant communication with you throughout the day. She wanted to always be the apple of your eye, and in turn, she always considered you as the center of her universe. Now though, she barely acknowledges your existence. She also doesn’t ask you to give her your attention anymore because she feels like she no longer needs it.

10. Physical intimacy is a rarity.

Kisses. Hugs. Nights in the bedroom. They’re things of the past. When the physical intimacy starts vanishing, you can be assured that your relationship isn’t in a good place.

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7 thoughts on “10 Ways Women Act When They Don’t Love You Anymore”

  1. I am thos woman. Not because I wnt anything to be over. Its because I am tired of thinking he has any interest in me as a person. So an example here is, of a person isn’t interested in me as a person, I can’t even force myself to be intimate. It feels one-way and it makes me feel empty. So now, I have no desire. So again, not so much lack of love. Its lack of interest, lack of communication (I feel like I have to re-say everything I say), no desire to go places with me nor interested in my interests, etc… He won’t see it that way, he will only turn the tables and tell me he is sorry I got offended and that I see it that way. Now I’m tired. And I am most of everything you said.

  2. Obviously he did something wrong. she made a mental exit and now her heart made an exit.
    we women are natural fighters but we know when the throw in the towel.

    • Always a mans fault yeah, you’re wrong it’s both party’s fault both didn’t try it’s not always 50/50 in a relationship sometimes you have to pick up that extra percentage because you care about them show them that you’re willing to fight to rebuild a stronger relationship if not then both people in the relationship are wrong and didn’t try hard enough.

  3. I just walked away from the woman I wanted. In my life.. Over a year ago I was having some tough times. I said things during an argument. I’ve apologized and have tried to make up for it. Throughout this time things have only gotten worse. I fought and fought to show that I live her and that things are different now. That I’m different. That I’m sorry for my mistakes as I’ve made a few. But she continues to hold on to my mistakes. She cant forgive me. No I didnt cheat. I didnt lie or hit her. I never talked down to her. I acted indifferent, I said you what do you do for me? I dont ask you for anything. I was wrong. I admitted it . I accepted it. Now she saids she needs to find herself. She doesnt want the job of a relationship. She said she has no more feelings for me that way right now. I asked if we were done. She said yes. So I said goodbye. I said I love you all I wanted was your love and to love you but you dont want it so goodbye. I haven’t heard from her since. Earlier in the conversation I said everything I do for you is because I love you and I want to touch your heart again. She said I’m throwing what I do for her in her face and it’s not attractive. Now its over. I wont text her or call her or reach out in any way. I feel lost, empty, lonely. But I cant continue to be used for what she wants. I can’t give as a man as a person in a relationship when I’m the only one in this relationship. So it’s over and I want to know if I was wrong for fighting for her love.. I feel like I was. I never want to do this again.. I wont allow myself…

  4. I was married for 3years but once l cheated with one elderly divorce women, l knew for long time l run away from my house because l though l found the person l was looking for . At the beginning this women was perfect in everything l am 6 years younger than her we are both in 40’s and she has two kids all growing ups with their children but are still living with and l am having 3kids one with the women l married and othee before l got married. I’ve been dating with this women for past 4years and my plan was also to divorce my wife and stay with her but now its like a pain in my head l ‘ve done many things for her as a men whereby l abandon my house and all my family and friends to just be around this women. Know l am losing interest in the women because of her behaviour l don’t want to do anything for her even when she ask me cause many times if l ask her something like a cup of coffee she’ll tell me directly she don’t want or she’s not my maide l must do it myself l even loose interest in bed with her because of many negative mindset in my head. L don’t know what to do.

  5. I really destroyed my brain trying to understand her, I really tried so hard to ask for attention, I’ve created a lot of girl fake account and i gave this account to my friend to talk to me as a girl wants to get close to me, and she doesn’t get jealous, before yesterday she was talking to a boy for a long time in the playground, I saw her, jealousy killed me, im so mad and even my way of texting shows that im mad of something but she didn’t ask, im the one who asks.. How was your day… in an obvious way, im the one who cares, when we talk, she answers my questions only, if i didn’t ask or open any shit to talk about she won’t say anything, i really dn what to say or do, pain and depression is killing me !


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