Men, do you agree?
Human beings are inherently complex creatures and so it should come to no one’s surprise that when human beings start developing relationships with one another, it’s not always going to be a walk in the park. There’s a reason why so many romantic couples are prone to breakups, separations, and divorces relationships are tough, and anyone who thinks otherwise is a fool.
To go back to the original point, relationships are difficult because people are difficult. It’s as simple as that. It’s especially more obvious considering that the whole gender dynamic is always going to play a big role in determining the chemistry of a relationship. Men act a certain way and women act another. It’s just the way of things. And sometimes, the silent killers of the relationship are brought about by these differences. There are just some things that some women do in a relationship with the false assumption that their actions have no negative impact. However, these mistakes can break a relationships’ back because men are also known to never open up or complain whenever they’re being bothered by something.
So if you’re a girl who is looking to keep your man happy, then you better make sure to not commit any of these common mistakes that a lot of women in relationships are prone to making. It’s not enough that you are in love with one another. You have to play it smart in the relationship. You have to be methodical in your dealings with one another and you can’t afford to be reckless. Recklessness can often lead to hurt feelings and can potentially destroy a romance fairly quickly. Here are some common things that women do in relationships which infuriate men.
1. You boss him around all the time.
You always act like you are above him in the relationship. You make him feel like he’s a slave to you with the way that you boss him around. You force him to run your errands for you even though you don’t have the right to do so.
2. You try to correct or change parts of his personality.
You treat him like he isn’t enough for you. You make him feel insecure about his flaws and his imperfections by constantly calling him out. You tell him that he could do better and you always diminish his confidence.
3. You don’t make an effort to be liked by his friends or family.
You couldn’t care less about integrating yourself into his social circles. He has his friends and his family but you’re not really invested in making them like you even though it would make him really happy for you to care.
4. You put your girlfriends over your man.
When you get into a relationship with a guy, you shouldn’t have to drop your whole life for him. You should still be able to have your friends outside of the relationship. But you shouldn’t be making your man feel like the second fiddle either.
5. You act too needy and dependent in the relationship.
You should still be able to stand on your own two feet even if you’re in a relationship with someone. Sure, your man wants to take care of you, but he also wants you to be strong enough to take care of yourself. It’s a big turn off if you keep acting needy.
6. You always seem like you’re in a bad mood.
Smile every once in a while. No one ever likes being around someone who is constantly exuding negativity.
7. You compare him to your ex.
One of the biggest rules in relationships is to never compare your partner to an ex. It’s rude, insensitive, and it doesn’t help anyone. It won’t make the situation that you’re in any better and it might only lead to further complications in the relationship.
8. You act jealous even though there’s no reason to do so.
It’s cute whenever you act mildly jealous because it means that you’re afraid of losing your partner. But when you obsessively act jealous and paranoid, then you risk making your partner feel suffocated and constricted in the relationship. Trust is an important component for any healthy relationship.
9. You spend most of the time on dates looking at your phone.
When you’re out on a date, you should be using that time to bond and be intimate. Your social media feeds can wait. Put your phone down.
10. You are reckless with your money.
Money is important and anyone who says otherwise is naГЇve. If you want to be mature enough to be in a sustainable relationship with someone, you must also be mature enough to be responsible with your finances.
11. You talk more than you actually listen.
Communication is an important aspect of any relationship. But remember that communication goes both ways. It’s not enough that you express yourself openly. You must also be willing to actually listen to your partner.
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