If you are the kind of girl who just never seems to find success with the boys, then this post might help you out. At a certain point, after a string of failed attempts at romance, you have to take some time to pause and assess the situation. What is the problem exactly? Are the boys you choose just the kind of people who aren’t into relationships? Or maybe you’re the problem in this equation?
Objectively speaking, you are the only common factor in these scenarios, and so you just have to swallow your pride and accept that you are the problem. You’re not necessarily a bad person. It just may be that you are approaching love and romance wrong. No one is ever perfect, but people still manage to love other people despite imperfections. So your goal here isn’t to be perfect. All you need to focus on is becoming the best possible version of yourself and conduct yourself in a manner that is classy and universally attractive.
While there is no sure-fire way to win over a particular guy’s heart, there are ways in which you can improve your chances. There are just some universally accepted things that guys hate in women. That’s a fact. If you happen to be guilty of a lot of these things, then that may be the reason you aren’t finding any success in love.
If you are guilty of any of the items on this list, then maybe you should so some minor readjustments to your character. All in all, they will help you become a better person.
1. You whine a little too much.
Men hate it when girls whine. Of course, to some extent, whining is okay. Men tend to screw up a lot and so women tend to whine because of it. However, it gets to a point wherein the whining can get irritating and unproductive.
2. You are too conceited.
No one likes Narcissus. No one likes a girl who is too obsessed with herself. Sure, you must love yourself, but not to a point where you make everything about you. You live in a world full of billions of people, and there are other lives that need to be taken into consideration as well, not just yours.
3. You practice poor hygiene.
Poor hygiene is always a no-no. A girl must always know how to take care of herself and practice proper hygiene. If she has bad breath or body odor, then you can expect a man to turn around and run away from you as fast as he can.
4. You bring up your ex during conversations.
No man in his right mind ever enjoys constant conversations about exes. Maybe once is enough, buy anything more than that is bad. It can get annoying for a man to know that even though you’re together, you’re still talking about another man.
5. You find something bad about everything.
Don’t be a negative Nancy. There’s nothing attractive about a girl who only chooses to see the bad in everything. You expect the worst out of people and you never try to shed any light on a situation. You only choose to see the darkness and it can be such a downer.
6. You don’t make an effort to look attractive.
You don’t have to wear the flashiest clothes or the most expensive jewelry. You don’t even have to spend hours of your day putting on makeup. You just have to at least make an effort to look classy and elegant no matter how simple your presentation. If you just act like you don’t care about yourself, then no man is ever going to care about you too.
7. You are too much of a wallflower.
The thing about wallflowers is that nobody ever notices them. The reason why you can’t manage to land a guy is that you don’t make an effort to stand out from the crowd.
8. You don’t smile.
Smiling is always attractive. You don’t always have to be forcing a smile, but it wouldn’t hurt. A smile can make a person seem very amiable, approachable, and receptive to new people. If you have a perpetual frown, then men will hesitate to talk to you.
9. You are always finding an excuse to get angry.
No one likes a person who is always angry. There is just too much negative energy there. The world is a difficult enough place to deal with as it is. When you only add to hatred and anger, then no man is going to want any part of you.
10. You have a tendency to be fake or plastic.
Men like their women real. They never want someone who is two-faced or plastic. Don’t be fake. Present yourself as a real person. Be the what you see is what you get kind of girl.
11. You are too loud.
You don’t necessarily have to shut yourself up, but don’t be obnoxiously loud in public either. There is a proper volume at which you should be talking about in every situation. You don’t always have to be talking with the knob dialed all the way up to level 10. Learn to modulate and assess the situation properly.
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Does this resonate with you? Let me know in the comments below!
I am none of those! Yet I have been dateless for years. Men don’t seem to value anything important about me. One guy told me I was possibly the sweetest kindest girl he had ever met, I just wasn’t wife material because I wasn’t thin enough