You need to stop making yourself suffer!
What a convenience it would be for you if you could just pick out the bad boys from a group of people and just avoid them altogether. Too many times we’ve been caught in the situation of being smitten by a man, falling in love with him, and then later on discovering the darkness in his soul. It can be a heartbreaking discovery to find out that the person you’re in love with isn’t really a good man. It’s not a rare occurrence. Plenty of women have fallen victim to the charm of a man who shone that gorgeous smile until a girl’s knees went week.
From now on, women have to be more careful and more wary of the men who are just going to end up hurting them in the long run. Fortunately, there are some hints and signs that a girl can take note of to determine whether the guy she’s dating is a true blue douchebag.
1. He isn’t a good listener.
A good man would always be a willing listener whenever you have something to tell him. He should always be willing to lend an open ear to you whenever you feel like you have to express yourself. He values your voice, your thoughts, and your opinions. However, a man with bad character would only pretend to be listening to you but in truth, wouldn’t care about what you have to say.
2. He fakes his emotions.
He’s quite an actor. He deserves an Oscar for the way he fakes his emotions whenever he’s with you. He isn’t a sincere person and he feels that he needs to manipulate people with his acting. He rarely acts like he really is feeling, and he always comes across as a fake. It’s difficult to figure out where he stands on many things because he never reveals his true self.
3. He is a self-obsessed and narcissistic.
Never trust a modern-day Narcissus or Dorian Gray. You don’t want to be caught in the collateral damage of a man who only has eyes for himself. People who are self-obsessed and overconfident are often the most insecure people on earth, and they will only ever genuinely care for their own selves. You can never rely on a self-obsessed person to be there for you whenever you need them.
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4. He makes jokes at the expense of other people.
He is keen on making fun of other people. He doesn’t care about the effect his words can have on other people and whether any feelings can potentially get hurt. Just as long as he gets a good laugh out of what comes out of his mouth, he’s always going to say it. – Continue reading on the next page
5. He keeps nagging about other people.
He’s a nagger. He’s always backbiting other people in front of you. He isn’t strong enough to confront people about their issues face-to-face and so he only resorts to gossip and nagging behind their backs.
6. He never assumes responsibility for his faults.
He is a deeply flawed man, but he would never be one to admit it. He is always quick to pass the blame on to other people because he is childish and immature. He never chooses to just accept responsibility for his shortcomings because he is too much of a coward to live with the repercussions. He would throw any person under the bus at first chance.
7. He’s a different person depending on he’s with.
It’s as if he has a multiple personality disorder. He’s always changing his personality depending on the person that he’s with. You never really know who you’re dealing with when it comes to him. He has a problem with just being himself and letting his true colors shine through because he knows he has a dark soul.
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8. He hates whenever he’s not the center of attention.
He’s a spoiled brat who always wants everyone’s eyes to be on himself. He wants to be the constant center of attention. If the spotlight isn’t shining on him, he will most probably throw a fit to attract everyone’s gaze. He thinks he is entitled to everyone’s attention.
9. He exhibits no signs of respect or basic decency.
Basic acts of chivalry, respect, and human decency are good signs of a person with good breeding. If he fails to act gentlemanly and respectful, then he is most likely someone who is mean-spirited and unkind.
10. He never admits that he’s wrong about something.
He thinks he’s always right. He doesn’t have an open mind, and he thinks that anyone who opposes him is wrong. He believes that truths of the world are only exclusive to him, and that all naysayers are always wrong. He doesn’t respond well to conflict or opposition.
11. He’s a serial liar.
Lies are always his thing. He is constantly digging up hole deeper and deeper with every lie he tells to get himself out of compromising situations. He doesn’t care whether his lies can hurt or affect other people. All he cares about is himself because he’s very selfish.
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Have you ever been in this situation? What did you do about it? Let me know in the comments below!
💯❗️you nailed it in this article .
Absolutely! This article denotes a portrait of several people who I have unfortunately crossed paths with. My prayers are with them, but my presence isn’t!
Yep
Sadly this article describes the person I bought a house with exactly. I am in such a depression because of his horrific behaviors and complete lack of respect for me. He has brought me to such a low place, I’m not sure I will be able to recover. Stay as far away as you can when their facade starts to crack and NEVER get a house with them.
R u located in Indiana? Sale the house the real estate market is booming right now. You may even make so money off of your house.
Your mot alone in this. Only mine was the woman version. So don’t feel bad. And although it will be hard to recover from, just know that there is a man out there that feels the same way and has been done the same way, but looking for exactly what you are. I know. I’m one of them.
Easier said than done if you have nowhere to go, sharing a cat and 2 more years of a car that is still almost paid off. I am not and I repeat…NOT going to a shelter. He changed after my parents died. Sad to say, but the truth.😢
You could be writing my story with what you just said. You’ll heal! It’ll take a lot of time but you’ll heal and move on! I finally just gave up nd left!
Good luck to you!
Yes I have been married to a guy like this for the past three years . I so glad I Finally walked away thou still processing divorce papers…
If only I met this article earlier I wouldn’t be going through all this
I’ve been married to a person like this for many decades and have feel disrespected and unloved and have very low self esteem. Nothing is ever his fault and whenever we have a discussion he turns it into an argument where I am to blame and says I’m evil. I’ve devoted my youth, my life to him and don’t want to give him the rest of it, my senior years but don’t know what to do. Please get out if you are in this situation early on!
Get out. There is someone better for you. I’m 48 and never thought that I would be saying this. Even though I haven’t found that person. And although it’s hard, I find that it’s better to be lonely than to think poorly of myself. My confidence was taken, I lost my job, gave her everything and got nothing but emptiness in return. Don’t live the rest of your life like that. It’s not worth it
My name is Michael and sadly this entire article sounds exactly like rhe woman I was married to for 8 years who were an exact replica of all these traits and I was the one who was making all the sacrifices so I understand the pain from the opposite side of the track.
Absolutely 💯 true
But it’s so hard to leave. You loved them once, and can’t breathe without them. I’m so burned now, I’d never be able to trust humans again anyway. Might as well stay -_-
I’m there too Kim I’ve been with him so long and I will never trust another and feel devastated to think of leaving but I’m sooo over feeling like I’m the problem and always wrong ………
100%, this is my girlfriend. These are the attributes and traits that she represents most accurately. She is a terrible person I guess…..actually I’ve known that for some time but this questionnaire definitely open my eyes!
These people are very very good at fooling people and at pretending to be wonderful loving people. It’s very difficult to spot them before it’s too late and very difficult to open our hearts to love again.
I was in a relationship with a narcissist for over 12 years with 3 kids….. in the last 12 years we have moved 6 times. He had segregated me from all my family and friends because no one liked him or wanted to be around him. Being with a person like this not only mentally traumatized me but also has had major effects on the kids mental states as well. Luckily I have kept my Faith with me and by the power of prayer, GOD helped me and my mom reconnect and I was able to move back in with her. Financially my life is in shambles for after he destroyed his credit and accrued loads of debt he had started on mine. I have nothing at this point but me and the kids are the happiest we have ever been thanks to GOD! Now I just have to pick up the pieces I have left and start over, but with my Faith I know anything is possible.
You are who you attract people! Look if you weren’t so similar to the person all of you sadistic people are complaining about then you wouldn’t palersonality clash with them so hard. Even this list told us 2 signs of a terrible person are complaining and gossiping so there you have it keep placing blame on others to and lacking accountability. Yall in the comments make me laugh!
Being a victim us not a flex. Raising a family despite your differences, sacrife and showing the meaning of love to your children is a big time flex with both arms. I not even surprised anymore at the audacity channel of most sadistic people .
today i have been married 3 years and have discovered all of these things about my husband.
What if these type of relationships are all you know? I finally realized it’s me that needs to heal but I didn’t even know how to start.