1. She always responds to your messages right away even when it takes you days to respond to hers.
You don’t really care much about making her wait. You don’t care about the dread and anxiety that she’s feeling with every passing hour that you don’t reply to her messages. You don’t care that she’s killing herself for your attention. You don’t care that it breaks her every time she has to follow up on a message with you. But when the tables are turned, she never makes you wait. She is always quick to respond. She would never lead you to think that she’s leaving you out to dry.
2. She makes an effort to plan your dates even when you’re always cancelling on her.
She doesn’t care that she’s constantly setting herself up for disappointment. To her, you are always going to be worth the risk of getting hurt.
3. She always makes adjustments to her schedule just to spend time with you even though you would never make time for her.
She is constantly the one who is moving things around in her schedule just to make sure that the two of you manage to spend time with one another. You are never the one who adjusts. You are never the one who tries to make space for her in your life. She is always the one who has to wedge herself into your life because you always make it so hard for her to do so. It might be tiring for her, but she’s never going to stop.
4. She acts serious about being with you even when you just continually play with her feelings.
She never plays around with you. You keep wanting to play games with her, but she’s taking everything seriously. That’s why it hurts her so much even when it practically feels like nothing to you.
5. She always gives you attention when you need it but you never give her attention unless you want something from her.
Whenever you want or need something from her, you wouldn’t even be shy about asking her. And she would always be so quick to just run to your side and cater to your every need. She wouldn’t even think twice about just dropping everything to make sure that she can be of service to you. She is always going to put you first and give you everything that she can possible give you. But when it’s her who needs something, you suddenly become the hardest person in the world to reach.
6. She still tries to keep you close even when you’re constantly pushing her away.
You are practically giving her every reason in the world to just give up on you. You don’t give her any incentive or motivation to stay with you at all. But she doesn’t care. She doesn’t mind that you make it so hard for her to stay in your life. She still does whatever she can to make sure that her presence is felt in your life.
7. She still clings to the belief that your love will last even when you don’t give her any reason to.
It’s a hopeless situation that you give her every single day – but she never loses hope in you.
8. She always puts your happiness above her own even though all you do is bring her misery.
IT’s as if she has made it her personal life’s mission to make you happy. She is willing to do anything that she can to put a smile on your face. She always willingly puts your happiness above her own. In fact, you might even be the cause of a bulk of the misery and sadness that envelopes her life. But she doesn’t care about that. She is still going to put all of her heart into trying to make sure that you have as happy and as joyful a life as possible.
9. She stays committed to you and the relationship even when your commitment is nowhere to be found.
She is really serious about being in a relationship with you even when you don’t commit yourself to her or your relationship at all.
10. She puts in all of the effort for the relationship to make up for your lack of effort.
She knows that it takes two people to make a relationship work – but since you’re not putting in much effort into the relationship, she feels like she has to compensate for it. She is working double time just because you act too cool to be interested.
11. She always tells you that she loves you even though she never hears you say it back.
At the end of the day, she doesn’t know if you love her or not. She probably thinks that she has to work double time just to earn your love. But that won’t stop her from telling you that she loves you. She won’t let her insecurities get in the way of her opening up to you. She’s always going to let you know that she loves you even when you don’t afford her the same kind of courtesy. She is always going to wear her heart on her sleeve for you because she never wants you to doubt just how she feels about you.