1. You would rather be right than be happy.
You are no stranger to arguments. And everyone knows this about you. You are always confrontational; and that’s something that a lot of people can be turned off about you. You tend to seek drama in the sense that you don’t shy away from disagreements with other people. And you go out of your way to prove other people wrong even if it means placing yourself in a bad light.
2. You don’t believe in the idea of surrendering or giving up.
You are just so relentless. You won’t let any argument go. You aren’t so willing to drop any conflict. You always want to see things through to the end. Yes, it’s important to be resilient when it comes to sustaining relationships. However, it’s also important to know when it’s time to walk away from battles. But you’re not like that. You never give up on any argument.
3. You always like to do things a certain way.
You are just far too close-minded to be in an intimate relationship with a person. You have a certain mindset that you have formed and lived by throughout your entire life, and you’re not really keen on changing anything about the way that you do things. You don’t really open yourself up to entertaining the perspectives and philosophies of other people, and that’s why you won’t do well in relationships.
4. You don’t believe in the idea of having to be 100% open to someone else.
You don’t like the idea of allowing yourself to become vulnerable towards another person. You don’t like opening yourself up to the possibility of being hurt by someone you’re close to, and that’s why you would rather not get close to anyone at all. You don’t want to be vulnerable towards anyone even if that’s what it takes to really have a deep and meaningful relationship with that person.
5. You don’t show a willingness to compromise.
When you are in a relationship with someone, you must always be able to show a willingness to compromise. You always need to be able to meet other people halfway if you want to have a healthy relationship with them. However, you aren’t like that at all. You never want to compromise because you always want to be getting your way in life. You never want to adjust.
6. You don’t take orders all too well.
You don’t like being bossed around. You don’t like being asked to do things. You hate it whenever you are serving as the butt of someone’s criticism. And that’s why you just don’t do well in relationships. You have to expect that in any kind of intimate relationship, you are going to have to open yourself up to being told a few things that you won’t want to hear. But you’re just not like that.
7. You prefer to spend most of your time on your own than with other people.
You find that you are just most comfortable whenever you are on your own. You get really anxious and uncomfortable whenever you are surrounded by large groups of people.
8. You tend to get things done on your own.
You are just too much of an independent soul. You are just so used to getting things done on your own. You are always accomplishing your tasks without asking for help from other people. You know that you don’t really NEED to be with anyone else to make it through this life. And that’s why you don’t feel a sense of urgency to actually get intimate with anyone.
9. You find it annoying when you have to deal with the problems of other people.
You hate it whenever you are forced to deal with the drama and problems of other people. You have your own issues that you need to be addressed; and that’s why you don’t really want to have to deal with the issues that plague the lives of those around you.
10. You always like to be in control of everything.
When you get into a relationship with someone, in order to make things work, you’re going to have to relinquish some sense of control. You’re going to need to be more lenient if you want to maintain balance and harmony in your relationships. However, you are unable to relinquish control. You always want to make sure that you are in control of whatever situation that you’re in.
11. You don’t like having to adjust your time for others.
Your schedule is your own time, and you really don’t want to have to be adjusting your schedule to make time for another person. You don’t want to have to be messing your routine up too much just so you can accommodate another individual in your life. You are so selfish in the sense that your time is your own time – and you don’t want to have to share it with anyone.