Some texts are suitable to be sent to friends but not to boyfriends. It doesn’t matter if you’re just starting to date or have been together for a while, there are texts guys dislike. In fact, some can even end things. If you make these texting mistakes, your guy might stop texting you. Do you want to lose a good guy due to bad texting?
Probably not, so avoid these errors.
1. “Why haven’t you texted me back yet?”
Sending a message like this might come off as impatient or clingy. People have busy lives, and they might not always respond right away. It’s better to give them some time and space. If it’s urgent, try to find a more neutral way to ask.
2. More emojis than text
While emojis can add fun to your texts, using too many can make your message confusing or childish. It’s good to mix them with actual words so your message is clear. Emojis are like seasoning – a little bit can enhance the flavor, but too much can spoil the dish.
3. “Where have you been? I haven’t heard from you…”
This type of message can sound accusatory or needy. Instead, you can send a friendly text asking how they’ve been or share something interesting that happened to you. This opens up a conversation without making them feel like they’ve done something wrong.
4. Late-night texts asking what he’s up to
Late-night texts might feel intrusive, especially if you’re not in a committed relationship yet. It’s considerate to respect each other’s sleep schedules. If you want to chat, try sending a message during more appropriate hours.
5. Anything that makes you seem like a stalker
Sending texts that make it seem like you know too much about their life can be unsettling. It’s important to build trust and let the relationship develop naturally. Focus on sharing about yourself and getting to know them at a comfortable pace.
6. “What are we?”
Asking about the nature of your relationship through text can be a bit heavy. It’s better to have this conversation in person or during a phone call. Texts can easily lead to misunderstandings, so important discussions are best saved for face-to-face interactions.
7. Passive-aggressive texts
Using passive-aggressive language in texts can create tension and confusion. It’s best to address your concerns directly and respectfully. Clear communication can prevent misunderstandings and help maintain a healthy conversation.
8. Multiple texts that could have been just one
Sending a bunch of separate texts one after another can be overwhelming for the recipient. Try to gather your thoughts and express them in a single, clear message. It’s easier to follow the conversation that way.
9. “It’s over”
Ending a relationship with a text is a big texting mistake. Hearing the news will already be tough if he’s not prepared for it, and a cold and blunt text will only make it worse. It’s best to have a face-to-face conversation when breaking up.
10. Screenshots of past conversations
Sending a screenshot of a past conversation might seem like a way to prove your point, but if the issues have already been resolved, it will only bring up unnecessary problems and worsen things. Instead, focus on moving forward positively and openly communicating any current concerns.
11. Sarcastic messages
Expecting a guy to understand sarcasm over text, where it’s hard to tell if you’re joking or serious, is asking too much. It can easily lead to misunderstandings and confusion. To avoid miscommunication, it’s best to use straightforward language in texts or save sarcasm when you’re talking face-to-face, where tone and expressions can better clarify your intentions.
Before you hit send, keep these tips in mind. We’d love to hear your thoughts too! Drop a comment and let us know about your texting experiences.
