Of course, when you’re in a relationship with a girl, she isn’t always going, to be honest about every single thing with you. She’s not still going to be speaking her mind. There are a few thoughts and feelings she might have that she keeps to herself. She does this because she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or make you feel bad. However, it would be best for you to be aware of the many ways that you gross her out.
Of course, you want to stay real and genuine when you’re in an intimate relationship with someone. However, you still want to do your part in putting your best foot forward. It’s always important that you are presenting your best self towards your girl. So, even though she might not be telling you about these things, you still want to make yourself aware of them. Do yourself a favor and educate yourself on the many ways that you might be grossing her out.
You always want your partner to be seeing you in your best light without completely distorting who you are as a person. Here are a few things that you might be doing, which are grossing your girl out:
1. You wear the same jeans for weeks without washing them.
Sure, you might look good in those jeans the first time you wear them. You might still even look good on the second and third try. But when you start wearing your jeans for four or five times without washing them, then it can be problematic. You should get your jeans laundered. If you don’t have enough jeans in your rotation, then buy more.
2. You leave your dirty laundry all around the house.
A lot of men are just okay with leaving traces of dirty laundry all around the home. How hard is it to just put all of your dirty clothes into a washing hamper? Stop being so lazy and reckless. She might not be saying anything, but it does gross her out.
3. You don’t shower right away after a workout.
You might feel like you are super sexy and attractive after getting a good workout in. However, that couldn’t be farther from the truth if you don’t bathe right after. She isn’t going to notice your pump if she’s too concerned about the sweat that’s dripping all over your clothes and the stench that you’re emitting from your body.
4. You wear dirty underwear.
This is essentially the dirty jeans all over again. If you don’t have enough clean underwear in your rotation, then you need to start buying more. You can’t be content with just recycling your underwear over and over again without having them washed.
5. You go for long stretches without shaving or haircuts.
Essential grooming should always be a given at this point. If you’re going for the long hair look, then that shouldn’t be a problem. If you want to grow a beard, then that’s fine. Just make sure that you’re grooming correctly. Having long hair and an unruly beard doesn’t make you look manly. It just makes you look more sloppy.
6. You burp or fart in public.
Burping or farting is inherently disgusting in itself. However, it’s even more embarrassing on her part whenever you do it in public.
7. You don’t brush your teeth right away after waking up or eating breakfast.
No one likes morning breath. You might think that those morning kisses are sweet and romantic. However, your breath is going to make it hard for her to appreciate the gesture.
8. You leave a pile of dirty dishes in the sink.
There is no excuse for you to be leaving a massive pile of dirty dishes on your sink. Be a genuinely mature adult and clean up after yourself. Wash your dishes after every meal. If you’re too tired now, then take a rest. But don’t leave those unwashed dishes on your sink for too long.
9. You talk to friends about gross things.
The “boys will be boys” argument is invalid. You don’t have to be talking about disgusting things to be a man.
10. You don’t make an effort to clean the house.
Clean your house. It’s where you live. As they say, you shouldn’t shit where you eat. But if your whole home looks like a public toilet, then you know that it’s a problem. She isn’t going to want to spend too much time at your place if you don’t make an effort to clean up after yourself.
11. You drool on your pillow when you sleep.
Okay, okay. This might not necessarily be your fault. You can’t control what you do when you sleep. However, that doesn’t change the fact that she finds this nocturnal habit of yours quite disgusting.