If you don’t know how to read your man, it’s only because you don’t know what to look for; or you’re probably just looking at all of the wrong places. A man isn’t always going to be so vocal about his feelings, but you are always able to tell how he feels about you based on how he acts when he’s around you. You just have to know what particular signs you should be looking for. Yes, it can be struggle to deal with men a lot because of how terrible they are with their words. But don’t worry; once you finish reading this article, you will gain a whole better perspective on how to read men.
It can be really annoying when you’re in some kind of a relationship with a guy but you don’t know for sure if he wants to get serious with you. You don’t have to worry about that anymore. If you find that your man is guilty of a lot of the things that are listed on here, it’s highly likely that he’s into you and he wants you to be his girlfriend:
1. He texts you first almost on a daily basis.
He doesn’t care that he’s coming off as “weak” or “needy” with you. He’s not looking to play any games with you as far as your relationship is concerned. He won’t deliberately refrain from texting you just to make you think he’s not interested. He likes you – and he wants to be in contact with you as much as possible.
2. He makes it a point to really schedule date nights with you.
He wants to grab at whatever opportunity he can to get closer and more intimate with you. That’s why he really never underestimates the value of scheduling date nights with you.
3. He showers you with compliments all of the time.
He isn’t shy about letting his admiration for you be known to you and to the world. He is always going to tell you exactly why he likes you and why he enjoys being around you all of the time. He isn’t going to be coy about his attraction towards you.
4. He talks about the future with you.
He doesn’t shy away from talks about the future with you – and it’s because he doesn’t see you as a mere temporary fling. He doesn’t consider you to be the type of girl that he can just use and discard. He sees a future with you and he wants to talk about it with you in an open and honest manner.
5. He spends most of his time with you.
We always spend the most time on the things and the people that are most important to us. And if he is spending most of his time on you, then you should have no doubt in your mind as to how important he thinks you really are. He willingly prioritizes you and places you on top of other aspects of his life.
6. He makes an effort to be friends with all the people who are closest to you.
He knows that one of the keys to getting you to trust him is to get the people who are closest to you to trust him – and he’s always going to make an effort to do so to the best of his abilities.
7. He lets you spend the night at his place.
This is a good sign especially when you have a sexually active relationship already. IF he’s letting you spend the night after a steamy session of lovemaking, then that is a sign that he isn’t just using you for your body. He genuinely likes your company and he adores spending time with you.
8. He opens up about his personal problems and insecurities to you.
He is allowing himself to be weak and vulnerable with you. He knows that genuine intimacy is only achieved with humility and openness. And so he opens up to you about his deepest insecurities because he trusts you – and he also wants you to trust him in return.
9. He develops an interest in the things that you are most passionate about.
He really wants to get to know you the best way that he can. And part of that is being able to get into the things that you are most passionate about in life.
10. He doesn’t pressure you into doing anything that you don’t want to do.
He respects your individuality as a person – and just because he wants to get into a serious relationship with you doesn’t mean that he’s going to rush or pressure you into doing anything that might make you uncomfortable.
11. He develops a slight obsession with you on social media.
He might be liking every little photo that you post of yourself. He will comment on funny memes that you might share on your feed. It’s just his way of letting you know that he can’t get enough of you – whether in the real or the virtual world.