11 Things Men Pay Attention To But You Don’t
A lot of times in relationships, people can get very comfortable with each other to the point wherein they lose a sense of self-awareness. They believe that they have a love and relationship that is so genuine, they feel like they can be perfectly comfortable with being their true selves. As a result, these people don’t really pay attention to how they conduct themselves in front of their partner anymore. There is a level of comfort, trust, and security there that takes a long while for couples to really develop and nurture.
If you’ve gotten to that point in the relationship wherein you feel perfectly comfortable with your man, then good for you. But you have to remember that just because you no longer pay attention to yourself as much as you used to doesn’t mean that it’s the same for your man. If he’s still madly in love with you, then he is paying every single bit of attention he can to every fiber of your being. He notices every single thing that you do because he loves you.
Here are a few examples of things that your man notices about you even though you don’t think twice about it..
1. How much you eat.
You just eat whatever. Sure, you have your set diet in place, but you don’t really think much about it. You eat however much just feels natural to you. But your man notices. He loves it when you have a hearty appetite so he won’t have to feel guilty about eating a lot.
2. How much makeup you put on every day.
You may think it to be a natural routine for you, but he still takes notice. He wants to know what kind of day you’re expecting to have based on the makeup you’re putting on. He knows that your makeup is a direct manifestation of what you’re feeling on a particular day.
3. What you drink.
What you drink at the end of a long day is going to give him an idea about the kind of day you just had. If you’re having a margarita or a cocktail, then he’ll know that you’re looking for a good time at the moment. If you’re going for a beer, then he will think that you’re just trying to blow off some steam.
4. A color you usually wear.
Your color choices when it comes to your apparel may seem like it’s something innate; natural to you. You don’t even have to think much about it in the mornings when you’re dressing up. He notices though. He thinks that your favorite color choices are reflections of your mood.
5. The hobbies that bring you the most joy.
He loves watching your face light up when you’re doing something that you love. That’s why he really takes the time to notice what activities bring you the most happiness. It could be doing yoga, running, writing, singing, or painting. If he knows it makes you happy, he’s going to encourage you to do it as much as you can.
6. Your cute smile.
Because what man wouldn’t notice the smile of the love of his life? You don’t even know the effect your smile can have on your man.
7. Your facial reactions.
You don’t notice much how your face reacts to certain situations but he definitely does. He knows instantly whenever you are feeling annoyed or irritated. He can tell when you’re genuinely intrigued and interested. It’s all a matter of looking at the nuances of your facial expression.
8. The weirdest stuff about you.
He loves your quirks. These are things about you that are specific only to your personality. Your little weird tendencies and personality traits make up a huge part of who you are as a person. To you, they’re just who you are and you don’t think much of it. But to him, they help make up the love that he has for you.
9. Your favorite music.
He wants to take a genuine interest in your life. He wants to immerse himself in your world. You just put on your Spotify and you blast some of your favorite music on there without thinking much about it. But to him, it’s another window into your universe. It gives him another chance to connect with you and learn more about you.
10. The things that worry you.
He never wants you to worry about anything. He always makes a conscious effort to protect you. You don’t even know it but he’s trying to keep you safe and secure from even your own emotions. That’s why he takes mental notes of the things that bring anxiety to your life. He wants you to always be chill and mellow as much as possible.
11. The things that liven you up.
He knows that having you happy means that he is also going to be happy. That’s why he is always taking note of the things that bring joy into your life. He wants to bring a semblance of delight to every single day that you’re together.
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