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11 Things Men Pay Attention To But You Don’t

Men, raise your hands!

A lot of times in relationships, people can get very comfortable with each other to the point wherein they lose a sense of self-awareness. They believe that they have a love and relationship that is so genuine, they feel like they can be perfectly comfortable with being their true selves. As a result, these people don’t really pay attention to how they conduct themselves in front of their partner anymore. There is a level of comfort, trust, and security there that takes a long while for couples to really develop and nurture.

If you’ve gotten to that point in the relationship wherein you feel perfectly comfortable with your man, then good for you. But you have to remember that just because you no longer pay attention to yourself as much as you used to doesn’t mean that it’s the same for your man. If he’s still madly in love with you, then he is paying every single bit of attention he can to every fiber of your being. He notices every single thing that you do because he loves you.

Here are a few examples of things that your man notices about you even though you don’t think twice about it..

1. How much you eat.

You just eat whatever. Sure, you have your set diet in place, but you don’t really think much about it. You eat however much just feels natural to you. But your man notices. He loves it when you have a hearty appetite so he won’t have to feel guilty about eating a lot.

2. How much makeup you put on every day.

You may think it to be a natural routine for you, but he still takes notice. He wants to know what kind of day you’re expecting to have based on the makeup you’re putting on. He knows that your makeup is a direct manifestation of what you’re feeling on a particular day.

3. What you drink.

What you drink at the end of a long day is going to give him an idea about the kind of day you just had. If you’re having a margarita or a cocktail, then he’ll know that you’re looking for a good time at the moment. If you’re going for a beer, then he will think that you’re just trying to blow off some steam.

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1 reply on “11 Things Men Pay Attention To But You Don’t”

I am living with a man that doesn’t want me to leave but he doesn’t want a relationship either.but he started seeing someone 9 months after I moved in. He says don’t get feelings for him. He says he’s gonna be with whom ever he wants cause he loves sex. When I told him fine then I’ll find me someone he replied that if I have someone then I then I need to just leave. I replied it’s okay for you to find another relationship but I’m to stay here alone. He spent the entire summer on his new house boat that I’m not allowed to be at.

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