A lot of times in relationships, people can get very comfortable with each other to the point wherein they lose a sense of self-awareness. They believe that they have a love and relationship that is so genuine, they feel like they can be perfectly comfortable with being their true selves.
As a result, these people don’t really pay attention to how they conduct themselves in front of their partner anymore. There is a level of comfort, trust, and security there that takes a long while for couples to really develop and nurture.
If you’ve gotten to that point in the relationship wherein you feel perfectly comfortable with your man, then good for you. But you have to remember that just because you no longer pay attention to yourself as much as you used to doesn’t mean that it’s the same for your man.
If he’s still madly in love with you, then he is paying every single bit of attention he can to every fiber of your being. He notices every single thing that you do because he loves you.
Here are a few examples of things that your man notices about you even though you don’t think twice about it… he pays attention to little details, like your favorite snacks or the way you like your coffee. these are all subtle signs he truly cares about you, demonstrating that he values your preferences and wants to make you happy. even in everyday moments, his thoughtfulness reflects a deeper affection that goes beyond words.
1. How much you eat?
You just eat whatever. Sure, you have your set diet in place, but you don’t really think much about it. You eat however much just feels natural to you. But your man notices. He loves it when you have a hearty appetite so he won’t have to feel guilty about eating a lot.
2. How much makeup do you put on every day?
You may think it to be a natural routine for you, but he still takes notice. He wants to know what kind of day you’re expecting to have based on the makeup you’re putting on. He knows that your makeup is a direct manifestation of what you’re feeling on a particular day.
3. What you drink?
What you drink at the end of a long day is going to give him an idea about the kind of day you just had. If you’re having a margarita or a cocktail, then he’ll know that you’re looking for a good time at the moment. If you’re going for a beer, then he will think that you’re just trying to blow off some steam.
4. A color you usually wear.
Your color choices when it comes to your apparel may seem like it’s something innate; natural to you. You don’t even have to think much about it in the mornings when you’re dressing up. He notices though. He thinks that your favorite color choices are reflections of your mood.
5. The hobbies that bring you the most joy.
He loves watching your face light up when you’re doing something that you love. That’s why he really takes the time to notice what activities bring you the most happiness. It could be doing yoga, running, writing, singing, or painting. If he knows it makes you happy, he’s going to encourage you to do it as much as you can.
6. Your cute smile.
Because what man wouldn’t notice the smile of the love of his life? You don’t even know the effect your smile can have on your man.
7. Your facial reactions.
You don’t notice much how your face reacts to certain situations but he definitely does. He knows instantly whenever you are feeling annoyed or irritated. He can tell when you’re genuinely intrigued and interested. It’s all a matter of looking at the nuances of your facial expression.
8. The weirdest stuff about you.
He loves your quirks. These are things about you that are specific only to your personality. Your little weird tendencies and personality traits make up a huge part of who you are as a person. To you, they’re just who you are and you don’t think much of it. But to him, they help make up the love that he has for you.
9. Your favorite music.
He wants to take a genuine interest in your life. He wants to immerse himself in your world. You just put on your Spotify and you blast some of your favorite music on there without thinking much about it. But to him, it’s another window into your universe. It gives him another chance to connect with you and learn more about you.
10. The things that worry you.
He never wants you to worry about anything. He always makes a conscious effort to protect you. You don’t even know it but he’s trying to keep you safe and secure from even your own emotions. That’s why he takes mental notes of the things that bring anxiety to your life. He wants you to always be chill and mellow as much as possible.
11. The things that liven you up.
He knows that having you happy means that he is also going to be happy. That’s why he is always taking note of the things that bring joy into your life. He wants to bring a semblance of delight to every single day that you’re together.
Girl please move the hell on with your life….he clearly has
Girl it’s time to move on, live is short show this man you got self-esteem, self worth you can do better ?without him
He wants to know you’re still there when he has nothing. That’s telling you ‘You’re better than nothing’..You are SOOO much better than that! . Dump him like a hot potato and find someone who will show you some respect.
Life is journey.. I’d known that in relationship we got to leave the door open…
You’re dumb a.f
That man is using you for times he has no other ladies and why waste your life on a man who clearly doesn’t care about you. Life is to short to waste even a minute of.
Play the same game on him then leave him high and dry after he gets his feelings hurt maybe I’m not the one you should be ?
Run, don’t walk to the nearest exit out!
Don’t even tell him just move out when he is gone block him on everything and ghost him for good and don’t go back don’t talk to him when he finds u to reach out to you girl u gotta get out of that situation and just ghost him best thing u can do for your self and in a few months he’ll either want to be with u and give u what u deserve bc he will know u are finally serious or you can give yourself the chance to move on find someone else to make up happy
Well me and my boyfriend has got a bit kind of contactless. Like we used to be in a touch for half an hour’s per day but suddenly it change lik after 4,5 days or a week ?
I agree,?
Wearing Brown And Purple Clothing As I Sometimes Am Wearing Brown And Purple Clothing OR Wearing The Same Brand That I Wear OR Wearing Shorts And
A Colored T-Shirt. That’s What Interests Me.
I Can Read The Emotions.
I’m a guy and I’m telling you he doesn’t care about you one bit.. Are you mentally challenged?Get The Hell Out!!!!!!
In this case you should have been long gone a long time ago. Dont get feelings for him ? Whatever Romeo !!
I met my guy after taking a hiatus from dating because I needed to focus on some health issues I’m still dealing with…but that’s besides my point. We met kind of accidentally online and I wasn’t trying to meet anyone and he wasn’t either because he was going through a bitter divorce. But, after talking to him for a little while he wanted to meet in person. I had just endured kidney stones so I put meeting him off for two weeks while I healed. But, we met just two weeks from our first chat and I knew we were meant to be together from the very first day we met. I was 49 years old and never married because I didn’t want to settle for anything less than true , genuine love! I have never experienced anything like him! He was honest (almost to a fault….but I loved his transparency!) He included me in every aspect of his life…and introduced me to his friends and family…who are all wonderful people who I loved from the start! They made me feel very included in everything and made it clear that they approved of me! (No one was a fan of his ex….so I think it was rather easy to fit in) He made me know where he was at and invited me to join him wherever he was. I felt I could trust him and he’s never given me any reason to doubt him. He and I are still together going on three years and I fall in love with him over and over because although he’s far from perfect…..we just make sense. I have never felt more trust, security, love and that I could be myself with anyone else like I do with him. We consider the date we first met as our anniversary because we have been together every day since and now live together and I love in such a strong relationship that makes me so happy I waited for the right guy!! Sometimes we need to focus on ourselves and when you can be happy alone…..then the doors open up for the person who you are meant to be with! It’s strange that the last thing I was looking for….ended up being the thing that 8 needed most! And now….I can’t imagine my life with anyone else! He’s definitely the person I was meant to grow old with!
So….please learn to love yourself enough to not settle for anyone who does not make you feel loved or who you can’t trust! Believe me…when you choose to love yourself first….the rest will happen when you least expect it!! I thought most men would think my health issues would be too much to deal with…but my guy thinks of me as being the strongest and kindest person he knows because of what I deal with. He makes me feel like I’m worth it despite the things I endure. I never knew this kind of love actually was possible after so much time of being single. But….when it’s meant to be…God finds a way to make it happen!! One more thing …we realized that we grew up in the same town our entire lives but never crossed paths…and we also lived 14 houses away from each other for the last decade…but I had never heard of him before! Which is rather unusual for the place we live. If you don’t know someone…you usually have mutual friends and at least know of them…but I had never heard his name mentioned by anyone…ever! It’s funny to think of now because I didn’t realize that the person I was meant to be with was so close to me and I never knew it until our paths crossed online one day! And…the rest is history….OUR HISTORY!
Just leave him at once, he’s treating you as a doormat!
You need to move out. Find a new man. If he’s gone, you don’t have a relationship. Don’t tell him what you are doing.
Get rid of him have a better life! Ur worth it!!!!