Ideally, you would always want to make sure that your relationship is one that is actually built to stand the test of time. You are always going to want to ensure that you and your partner are able to overcome whatever differences or challenges that may arise in your relationship. When you are in love with another person, you are always going to show a willingness to tolerate and be patient with whatever shortcomings your partner might have.
You might grow frustrated with one another every so often, and that’s normal. That doesn’t mean that you don’t have a relationship that isn’t meant to last. The key is in being able to stay patient and understanding with one another during these times of turmoil. You are never going to find a perfect partner because there is no such thing as perfect people in this life. However, if you truly want your relationship to work, you need to be able to tolerate these imperfections the best way that you can.
But it also gets to a point wherein you should also be willing to demand what you believe you are truly deserving of. There are just certain traits and behaviors that you or anyone else should never have to tolerate from a partner in a relationship. You need to have the self-respect that you need to defend yourself from terrible individuals who would treat you terribly. Here are a few things that you should never have to tolerate from someone you are in a relationship with:
1. He still flirts with other girls.
If he can’t commit to being with you and only you, then he isn’t a guy who is worth committing to either.
2. He lacks respect and basic manners.
There should never be room for any form of disrespect in a relationship. If he lacks manners, respect, and basic human decency, then it’s likely that he isn’t mature enough to sustain a romantic relationship.
3. He lets you pay for everything.
He is turning you into his own personal cash cow. He’s trying to make it seem like you are the one who is going to be shouldering most of the financial burdens of the relationship. He is treating you like his piggy bank.