Just because something is uncomfortable in a relationship doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s a bad thing. You have to remember that relationships are never going to be smooth voyages. There will always be some fits of turbulence every now and then. You just have to be able to weather the storm whenever it comes and you will find yourself alive when it’s all said and then.
One of the tricks in surviving the stresses in a relationship is to actually try looking on the bright side of things. Just because there are some uncomfortable facets to the relationship doesn’t mean that there isn’t any good that can come out of it. Here are few good signs that you are actually in a good relationship with a guy even though it might seem uncomfortable.
1. You question his motives even though you don’t really need to.
You have had loads of bad relationship experiences in the past and so you think that all boys are going to be the same. You think that they will lie and cheat their way into winning you over, but this time, things are different.
2. You always expect him to disappoint you but he proves you wrong.
You’ve been disappointed in the past. People have broken you in previous relationships. And so you think you have to brace yourself for the pain that this relationship is going to bring you. And yet, the pain and disappointment never comes.
3. You don’t believe his promises but he always comes through.
You’ve had to bear the heartaches of broken promises over and over again in the past. And so this time, you try to make yourself immune to such vulnerability. But somehow, this guy keeps on coming through. He actually keeps his promises to you.
4. You’re willing to play the game but he’s not playing around.
You’ve been around the block before. Perhaps you’ve even played the game better than other people have in the past. You know how the game works and you know that there are risks involved when playing it. But he isn’t playing around. You’re not just a game to him.