Whether you’re willing to come to terms with it or not, all ladies are just going to love gentlemen. Sure, a lot of the younger, less experienced, and more immature girls are going to want to pursue the bad boy who acts like a rebel all of the time. But down the line, as a woman grows older and she learns more about what she really wants out of life, she’s going to definitely choose the gentleman over the bad boy. Women are always going to want to have long-term relationships with gentlemen who know how to treat them right; with men who always know how to conduct themselves in a relationship.
However, true gentlemen are just so hard to find these days. Most modern men nowadays just act like straight-up douchebags because it seems to be the trend these days. As a result, a woman’s options can be limited. And that’s why you always want to do your part in setting yourself apart from the rest. You always have to be trying to rise above. And you don’t really have to do anything too complicated. You just have to practice basic respect and conduct. You just have to have proper manners and treat a lady with dignity.
This might be lost on a lot of men and you might need some reminders. That’s exactly what this article is going to try to do for you. By the end of reading this, hopefully, you will gain a better understanding of what it really means to be a true gentleman.
1. Always live up to your words.
When you say that you’re going to do something, do it. To a real gentleman, a promise must never be broken; a commitment must always be upheld. You have to consider your word to be your bond. If you say you’re going to commit to her, then make sure that you actually live up to that commitment.
2. Be mindful of how you talk to her.
Always stay mindful of how you converse with her. Be mindful of the language that you use. Be mindful of the tone of your voice. Be mindful of the volume of your manner of speaking. These are very little things that really play into how she perceives you.
3. Hold the door open for her.
It’s not really all that difficult. It’s a simple gesture but it can go a long way in getting her to feel safe and secure around you. It shows that you are always mindful of your surroundings and that you are always looking out for her.
4. Offer to bring her home after a date.
At the very least, offer to bring her home. She might be independent and she might say that she wants to go home on her own. And that’s okay. At least show her that you’re willing to go out of your way to make sure that she gets home safely after a date.
5. Take initiative in the relationship.
Don’t just be content with leaving everything up to her. Actually, try to take some initiative. Learn to be more proactive in making the relationship a fun, enjoyable, and fulfilling one.
6. Be respectful of her friends and family.
Always make sure that you treat the people in her life with utmost respect. You have to show her that the people who are important to her are also important to you as well.
7. Conduct yourself with politeness especially when you’re together.
Don’t just be polite to her and the people she knows. Be polite to complete strangers as well. Be polite to everyone you meet – even those who you might not really benefit from.
8. Learn to compromise with her.
Let her have her way. Try to meet her halfway whenever you have disagreements or differences in life. Make sure that she knows that you’re willing to compromise to make her happy.
9. Run errands for her to make her life easier.
Life is pretty difficult. And the point of finding a special someone to be in a relationship with is to face the world’s troubles with a significant other. That’s why you have to prove to her that you are a worthy partner. You have to show her that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to make her life easier.
10. Allow her to be her own person.
Never feel entitled to direct her life for her. Don’t get it into your head that you get to make choices for her just because you treat her well. Let her be her own human being and give her the freedom that she is entitled to having in your relationship.
11. Let her take care of you as well.
One of the biggest components of actually being a gentleman is allowing your girl to take care of you. She also has a lot of love inside of her that she wants to express. And even though you are a very strong and independent man, you still have to make her feel like you are receptive to her love.