Social media habits can tell a lot about a person.
It’s the new age and emerging technologies have revolutionized the way that people interact with one another. Technology has also fundamentally altered the ways that people forge relationships with each other. With all of these new platforms for communication, it’s so much easier for people to get in touch with each other instantaneously despite the distance. However, people in relationships must also be careful with how these new communication tools are used and managed. Social media has the power to either strengthen or destroy relationships and so there is always a cause for some concern.
A simple look into the social media habits of your man can instantly tell you just how he really feels about you and the relationship that you have together. Some peculiar social media activities can be attributed to the possibility that he’s just not as into you as you would think; and he’s not totally invested in being loyal and committed to you. If that’s the case, you should break things off right now before he hurts you even further. But how do you know if he feels that way? Well, there are a few signs that you could be on the lookout for. Here are 12 social media habits that prove he’s leaving you soon.
1. He still flirts with other girls online through posts and comments.
Obviously, if he’s still flirting with other girls on social media, then he probably isn’t very invested in your feelings or your relationship. He doesn’t care that his actions might hurt you because he doesn’t really love you.
2. He never posts or brags about you on his social media profiles.
It’s okay if he’s a secretive and discreet social media user. But if you find that he keeps on posting crazy memes and funny videos, he should at least allot some social media real estate for posts about you as well.
3. He doesn’t stalk your profiles on social media.
Is he even in love with you if he doesn’t stalk your social media profiles? Of course, any man who is in love with you would obviously develop a slight obsession with you and that includes stalking your social media pages.
4. He excessively stalks your profiles on social media.
However, stalking also has its limits. It can get to a point where it’s just downright creepy and you really have to be careful when that happens. You don’t want a man who is stalking you to the point where every single move you make is being monitored.
5. He discourages you from looking at his social media pages.
What does he have to hide? He’s being fishy if he’s telling you that he doesn’t want you to see his social media profile. There’s probably something on there that he doesn’t want you to see.
6. He throws a fit whenever you spend a lot of your time on social media.
Well, of course, everything should be done in moderation. So if you’re just spending so much of your time on social media to the point wherein you compromise the relationship, then that’s bad. But if he’s just acting that way because he feels entitled to all of your time, then there’s something wrong.
7. You don’t find your face on his Instagram feed.
Why would he even have an Instagram at all if he didn’t want to post about his favorite things in life? And well, if you’re not on his Instagram, maybe you’re not as important to him as you initially thought.
8. He still participates in those dating apps even though he’s supposedly dating you.
No man in a stable relationship with a woman he loves dearly would ever still willingly participate in other dating apps. If you still find your man on another dating app, then that’s an indication that he’s not totally serious about you.
9. He has deleted or blocked you from seeing his posts and his stories.
If your boyfriend suddenly does this to you, then you know something serious has gone down. And it’s likely that it wasn’t something good.
10. He makes it a point to be Facebook friends with all of your friends even when he hasn’t met them yet.
He is so controlling and overbearing, he wants to make sure to be friends with all of your friends just so he can monitor you better. He wants to be able to keep an eye on you with whatever means possible.
11. He would rather spend time on your dates browsing through his feeds than actually looking at you.
He is a social media addict to the point that he would rather be browsing through Twitter rather than engage in a real conversation with you during a date. Never choose a man who looks at a phone screen over you.
12. He gets upset whenever you post about him on your pages or profiles.
He gets upset because he doesn’t really want other people to know that you’re together. It’s as if he wants to keep your relationship a secret.
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