12 Things Alpha Women Don’t Settle For In Relationships

Any alpha women in the house?

1. Constant excuses for bad behavior and mistakes.

An alpha woman isn’t so heartless so as not to accept that you are an imperfect human being. Of course, she is going to be understanding of you making a few mistakes every now and then in your relationship. However, you also have to remember that she has very high standards. She doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a constant screw-up. She will tolerate a few mistakes, but she won’t put up with someone who is a constant failure.

2. Tardiness or flakiness.

An alpha woman values her time above most other things. So if you deliberately waste her time with your tardiness or your flakiness in a relationship, you can’t expect her to stick around for too long.

3. Blatant acts of disrespect.

Disrespect is always going to be a big no-no for an alpha woman. For one, she is someone who knows how to be respectful. She is always going to be on top of her game as far as being a lady is concerned. She is a smart woman but she knows that she still has to be respectful when interacting with others. And so since she’s like that, then that means she expects the same kind of behavior from you.

4. Dishonesty.

An alpha woman is never going to tolerate dishonest behavior especially in a relationship. She would rather be upset with the truth than be comforted by a lie. She knows that she is a human being who deserves respect the kind of respect that warrants the truth. She doesn’t want to be kept in the dark about anything especially by a man she is supposedly in a relationship with.

5. Infidelity.

An alpha woman will only want real genuine commitment in her relationships. She would never allow herself to serve as an accomplice to an unfaithful man. She will never allow herself to be toyed with in such a disrespectful regard.

6. Passive-aggressive behavior.

Passive-aggressive behavior is immature. Let’s just call things like they are. When you have passive-aggressive behavior, it goes to show that you aren’t brave and mature enough to actually come right out to communicate your needs and feelings effectively. An alpha woman will not want to put up with someone who can’t communicate properly without using passive-aggressive tactics.

7. Lack of enthusiasm and support.

You are going to have to show your support for the alpha woman if you really want her to take you seriously. She has lots of things that she wants to get done in this life. And sometimes, she can get overwhelmed despite the fact that she’s strong. This is where you have to step in. you have to be able to let her know that you have her back and that she can find a support system in you.

8. Emotional abuse or manipulation.

For one, you’re never going to be able to abuse or manipulate an alpha woman because she would never let you do so. And second, she would have no problems dropping you at the initial signs of manipulative behavior. She doesn’t have a weak or a vulnerable personality and she would never subject herself to being the victim in an abusive relationship. She would never settle for such a lifestyle.

9. Possessiveness.

You have to keep in mind that an alpha woman envisions a lot of things for herself. There are plenty of things in life that she wants to achieve. There are so many things that she wants to be able to do with her freedom. And so if you act all possessive and controlling with her; if you actually start to curtail her freedoms in a relationship, she isn’t going to want anything to do with you at all.

10. Unkindness.

An alpha woman can be ruthless in her pursuit of her dreams, but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t understand the importance of being kind. She still wants a man who is able to espouse kindness. She wants someone who is able to treat people right. She wants to be with a true gentleman who truly minds his manners.

11. Self-pity.

As mentioned previously, strong women only ever really like interacting with other strong figures. So if you’re the type of person who is constantly down; someone who is always wallowing in your own pity, then you can’t expect her to want to be with you. She wants a strong man who actually doesn’t cry over spilled milk.

12. Spinelessness.

She wants someone with a spine. Remember that she is strong. Her strength is what defines her as a human being. And strong people only ever really typically respond to other strong people. So you’re definitely going to have a strong spine if you want to be in a relationship with her. You need to stand strong on your principles and your ethics. You need to be someone who can defend your convictions without fail. You can’t be someone who is a mere spectator and observer.

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Ladies, do you agree? Talk to me in the comments below!

  1. HAHA! I am absolutely DYING!! An astounding YES on if I agree… u nailed it 100%.

    The only downfall in my currently ending relationship is that he is a convert narcissist, so I thought he was all these things when he was not in any way. Then being an empath myself on top of it, the situation tripped me up. I should have left LONG, LONG ago, but instead let my Alpha nature become Beta under his facade and was ‘waiting’ on him to unveil his supposed spectacular self (which never came and ended in his usual mask falling off with facts causing him to have one if his raging meltdowns). Never again! Would have been ok with it IF he was a true Alpha himself, but nope. On my way out with myself reintact and his true self flailing in his self fantasizing grandiosity. Did I mention he wanted specifically an ‘Alpha Slave’… darling, u picked the wrong girl when reality is that I am more dominate than u are.

    Superb and precisely perfect article and description!! Thank u! I’m laughing all the way out the front door and will never let anyone alter my Alpha self again!

    1. Ooooooh you talking about me here. It’s like u reading my life and everything about me. Well said. Extraordinary 🤞🏾

  2. I am looking for my own soul mate, my Alpha coz I’m a Beta. Please guide me to her. She is a Cinderella, Snow White or My Isabella. AMIN OR Amen. All of us come from Adam and Eve. You can be found in this? …? We are one. One for all and all for one. REMEMBER ME AND I WILL REMEMBER YOU.
    That’s all for now. Thank you.

  3. Went through a narcissistic marriage. Divorced him. Never again. I am all of the above. Maybe that’s why he wanted me- to make up for what he wasn’t. I’m free now & going ahead with all the things I want to do. I am a busy woman & enjoying it.

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