Ladies, make the first move.
A lot of people will underestimate the value of having to turn on their partners in a relationship. Of course, it’s already a given that you know that your partner is already attracted to you on some level. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be in a relationship together. However, just because things are going steady in your romance doesn’t mean that you should be content with just letting things stay the same. Throughout the entire stretch of your relationship, you must both be making a conscious effort to actually turn each other on. You must continuously build on your attraction for one another.
And ladies, you don’t have to be intimidated by the idea of constantly having to turn your man on for the rest of your lives together. A man is easy to please. He isn’t going to demand much from you especially if he’s madly in love with you in the first place. It’s just that a little effort can always go a long way and all gestures will be greatly appreciated. Your methods of trying to turn your man on don’t always have to be grand and complicated. In fact, a lot of them are just simple stuff that you can practice almost every day of your life. So if you’re feeling completely lost and you don’t know where to start, then this is the perfect article for you. Here are 12 ways that you can turn your man on.
1. Take the initiative and make the first move.
They say that women should never be the ones who make the first move; but a lot of men would disagree. There are plenty of men who find it attractive when women are more forward and open about their intentions. It shows that they aren’t afraid of going after what they want.
2. Play video games with him.
Instead of being upset at him for spending too much time with his video games, why don’t you just go ahead and join him? It’ll be a great way for the both of you to bond and spend time with one another while simultaneously doing something that he really likes doing. It’s a win-win situation for everyone.
3. Let your natural nerd self come out.
Being a nerd doesn’t mean that you have to put on fake glasses and braces or something stereotypical like that. Being a nerd mostly means you being very passionate in something that you’re extremely interested and knowledgeable about. Be a nerd in this way with him, and he will automatically feel turned on.
4. Have a classy tattoo on a private body part.
There’s always something inherently sexy about the rebellious nature of getting a tattoo done. Pair that rebellious appeal with a classy design and a seductive body part, then you are bound to have your guy turned on.
5. Be passionate about physical fitness.
Physical fitness is an often overlooked aspect of a person’s lifestyle. But thankfully, these days, more and more people are paying attention to taking care of their bodies. Not only will you come out feeling better about yourself for exercising regularly and eating healthily; but your body will look better to and your man will be thankful for it.
6. Practice good grammar and enunciation.
Too many people are murdering the English language nowadays. Be the outlier. Be someone who understands the importance of always communicating effectively and properly.
7. Be strong and independent.
A strong and independent woman is all the rage these days. A lot of men will not want to tie themselves down with a needy, clingy, and dependent woman. They will want someone who knows how to take care of herself.
8. Stand your own ground whenever threatened.
It’s a big turn-on whenever your man sees that you can defend yourself. It’s always good that you don’t always run to him for help whenever you feel like you’re being threatened.
9. Have a healthy and hearty appetite.
Eat healthily and heartily. You don’t have to constantly be ordering a side salad every time you’re out because you’re afraid of the extra weight. Learn to live a little.
10. Be laid back and easygoing.
Uptightness can often be a big turn-off for a lot of guys. While it pays to be organized and responsible, that doesn’t mean that you have to act like a complete robot all of the time. In fact, a lot of men will be turned on if you are more adventurous and willing to try new things.
11. Do some male activities every now and then.
Take out the trash. Fix the car. Do some household repairs. Just because you’re not a man doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be learning to do these things.
12. Read a lot of books.
There are fewer things in the world that are more attractive than a person who reads. So go ahead and consume literature like food. Books will make you smarter, more open-minded, and more eloquent. And who wouldn’t want those qualities in a fine woman?
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