It happens. Unfaithfulness and disloyalty are everywhere. Cheating is very much rampant in this day and age; and it can be brought about by a great number of things. Perhaps a woman can be seeking the attention that she has been craving for from her own relationship in someone else. Perhaps a man has been feeling sexually unsatisfied and he has been wanting to branch out a little bit.
There are so many motivations and selfish desires that go into driving a person to cheat in a relationship. But one thing is for sure: cheating is always wrong and it should never be tolerated in any kind of relationship.
And most people know this. Most people are aware of the fact that cheating is a terrible deed and it must never be done to anyone in a relationship. It’s not exactly something ANYONE can be proud of. It can be so easy to find reasons and triggers that may have led to the act of cheating in itself; but ultimately, there is no one else to blame but the actual cheater. And don’t be so quick to assume that men are more likely to cheat than their female counterparts. Recent studies have shown that the statistics of women cheating on their men have grown dramatically over the years.
So what gives? Why do people still cheat even though they know that it’s wrong? This article is going to seek to shed some light on that matter; in particular, it’s going to focus on why women cheat on men in their relationships. First, it’s important to establish why being faithful and loyal is actually integral in a relationship. When you are in love with someone and you want to forge a lifetime bond with this person, then you have to show that you are capable of actually committing every fiber of your being to this person and to the relationship. You can’t afford to let yourself get sidetracked. You can’t afford to let yourself get distracted.
You can’t be giving in to the temptations that are all around you. You have to show that you are serious about this relationship and that you’re going to do whatever it takes to make it work; including the act of staying faithful and loyal. Now, knowing this.
What drives women to cheat? And are there any situations wherein cheating can be justified? And if cheating occurs in a relationship, does that mean that it’s the end of the romance? Well, this article can only answer the first question. Any other complications brought about by the act of cheating in a relationship have to be addressed by the couple in question.
However, it’s always important for people to figure out the primary triggers for infidelity in a relationship. That way, you can do your best to avoid these triggers so that you don’t end up putting yourself in the position to cheat in the first place. Fortunately, we were able to interview 12 different women who have engaged in cheating in their relationships. They all have different experiences and they all carry with them different motivations as well.
It just goes to show that every experience is always going to be unique and it’s always hard to generalize. Now, whether you decide their reasons are justified or not is entirely up to you. But again, it wouldn’t hurt to know what actually drove them to wanting to cheat on their men; and then actually doing it. Here are 8 revelations from 8 real women who came clean about why they decided to cheat on their partners.
1. “I felt like he was suffocating me.” – Maria, 24
Maria felt like she needed room to breathe because her man was just suffocating her too much.
2. “He didn’t give me the attention I needed.” – Isabelle, 34
Isabelle was craving for attention; and her man just couldn’t give her what she needed him to.
3. “I was curious about what sex would be like with someone else.” – Katrina, 29
Katrina let her curiosity get the best of her. She wanted to explore and experiment a little bit.
4. “I still wanted to explore my options.” – Jean, 26
Jean wasn’t so sure that she wanted to be with her man for the rest of her life and she wanted to keep her options open.