They say that matches are made in heaven but then why, at times, apparently heaven made matches turn out to be absolute disasters? What can really go wrong in a fairytale romance that turns it into an episode of crime patrol’? Well more than habits and mismatches its the fault in our stars’. Well as clich as it might sound but stars do have a role in governing our everyday personalities. Astrology has always been an intriguing field that has on many occasions provided an insight into stories that could not have been comprehensible through any other way.
It is the patterns that matter. Behavioral patterns over the years have been shown to be exclusive to horoscopes. Understanding the vital forces of the universe that surround us will surely help us understand ourselves and the people around us better. Astrology has preset compatibility standards among the different stars, these standards in some cultures are taken into account with religious devotion at the time of matchmaking and hence they have lesser divorce rates. It will be very unfortunate to waste a lot of time and emotions in building up a wrong astrological match that ultimately leaves you in despair.
So it is better to understand pre-handedly the nature of your zodiac sign and the kind of partner that will suite you. Knowledge is indeed power and specifically an astrological education will help you in scoring the best in a short time period. To guide you through the astrological incompatibilities and incompatibilities given below are 12 astrological mismatches to watch out for!
12. Lion and the Virgin (Leo and Virgo):
Leo and Virgo fall at complete opposite poles in the horoscopic sequence of nature. Both the stars possess extremely opposite natures and their bringing together is nothing but a call for ultimate doom.Leos prefer glamour. The charm and highlights of the glamorous world out there keeps them captivated. They day dream a lot and live less in reality. Virgos on the other hand as compared to Leos are introverts. Where Leos prefer to party all night, Virgos desire a small intimate social circle with less attention. Leos prefer the center stage while Virgos are better backstage.
Madonna (Leo) and Guy Ritchie (Virgo) are a famous example of such a disaster where the two of them stayed married for eight years before divorcing in 2008. The Queen of Pop declared that her successful director husband lacked empathy and sensitivity. Jennifer Lopez is another Leo who has made similar mistakes twice. Both her marriages fell apart badly. The only way such a relationship can work is if the Leo guarantees that his/her Virgo partner does not feel left out at any point and their feelings are taken into consideration equally. Here are some qualities of Leo women and how you should treat them the right way.
11. Fire and Water (Aries and Scorpio):
When Scorpios marry Aries, it almost never works. It’s simple math that goes against them. Their union is like that of water and fire, intense and passionate but ultimately both put each other out.Both the stars are strong-headed and stubborn by nature when not making out in the bedroom, they make showdowns with ultimatums happen. Scorpios have a strong element of jealousy and Aries, by nature, are bubbly and flirty which severely puts a Scorpio off and makes them lose their cool. They make the sort of couples who apparently look happy but, inside, the premises of their bedroom are each other’s arch nemeses.
They will argue in cars, on bus stands, in shopping malls, at home, everywhere as long as they get a chance to keep up the appearance of a happy couple later on. Both of them are fierce fighters and do not accept defeat easily. A famous example of such a disaster is Meg Ryan and her ex, Aries actor Dennis Quaid, who got married in 1991 and divorced Ten years later. Quaid had accused Meg of cheating and the relationship went down in shreds. The only way to save an all Aries-Scorpio couple is compromise. Survival is their only option because they cannot fully live with each other’s jarred edges. One or the both of them has to continuously compromise to keep a relationship going. You can also read our very famous articles on how to love an Aries and 12 Things You Need To Know About An Aries.
10. Venus and Uranus (Taurus and Aquarius):
Venus governs Taurus and Uranus governs Aquarius. One is the bull while the other is the water bearer. One jump into the water and the other drowns in it. Venus being the planet of Romance, love, beauty and calm can never sit in harmony with Uranus that symbolizes the unexpected and is the rebel planet. The biggest lacking factor in such relationships is communication’. The lack of communication leads to a lack of coordination and hence compatibility. Aquarius refuses to take talks head on while a Taurus is always pushy about arguments and conversations. Every time a Taurus brings up a controversy,
the Aquarius refuses to entertain it and hence they fight. The lack of communication gives birth to misunderstandings, doubts and suspicions which ultimately drift both the partners away. Uma Thurman a strong-willed, stubborn and confident Taurus had a difficult time when in 2014 her ex- Arpad Arki Busson, (an Aquarius), pressed charges against her over the custody of their baby daughter, Luna. A long legal battle pursued which made both the ex-partners lose a lot emotionally and financially until finally a legal agreement was made between the two but the damage was already done. Also read, 9 Things to Adopt For a Healthy Relationship with an Aquarius.