13 Signs He’s Worth The Effort
He’s worth it.
Relationships are going to require a lot of effort. And that’s okay. The trick is in really being able to find a partner who makes all of that effort worth it. A lot of couples make the mistake of going into relationships thinking that love is easy and that it’s something that they would be able to just breeze through. That is never the case. Love takes a lot of work and commitment. It’s going to be challenging and overwhelming a lot of the time. It’s going to be a struggle. But the key to getting through that struggle is being able to find someone who you’re willing to struggle with.
So how do you know if your guy is someone who is actually worth staying together with? You have to know and be sure so that you don’t end up wasting your time in a relationship that you’re not all that crazy about. Read on until the end of this list and if you find that your man is guilty of a lot of the things that are written on here, then try your best to keep him in your life. He’s definitely a guy who is worth the effort.
1. He takes note of the little things in the relationship.
He is the kind of guy who isn’t just all about the big and the grand things in life. He’s the kind of man who really values the grind of the relationship and he understands that it’s the little things that really count.
2. He is a wizard in the kitchen.
A man who knows how to cook is always going to be an asset. If you can find yourself a man who cooks you really good meals, then you know that you’re with a guy who knows how to take care of you and keep you full.
3. He makes it a point to respond to your texts as soon as possible.
He really values your time and he knows that he shouldn’t be keeping you waiting if he can help it. He understands that you get anxious when he can’t get back to you quickly and so he makes it a point to always reply to your texts as possible.
4. He is a lot of fun to be with even when you’re not doing anything exciting.
It doesn’t matter where you are. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing. So as long as you’re together, you’re having fun. He’s a great guy to be with because of his genuinely entertaining personality. You just feel like you really mesh well together.
5. He would do things he doesn’t want to do just because you’re into it.
He wouldn’t mind doing activities or hobbies that he’s not fond of. He wouldn’t mind watching a movie that he hates. He just has to know that you enjoy doing those things and he would willingly do them with you.
6. He doesn’t hesitate to invite you anywhere he might want to go.
He will never want to make you feel left out or excluded from his life. He will always invite you out to make you feel like he genuinely enjoys your company all the time.
7. He willingly opens up to you about his life.
Not all men are going to be good at opening themselves up to their ladies. But if he’s doing so with you, it’s because he’s very comfortable with who you are. He trusts you and the value of trust is something that you should never understate in a relationship.
8. He is always acting affectionate and endearing towards you.
He knows that it’s all about building strong emotional connections. He always acts affectionate and endearing towards you because he knows that that’s what it takes to really win you over.
9. He is a great listener.
He not only hears you when you speak, but he actually listens. He pays attention to whatever it is you might have to say because he genuinely values your opinions and your ideas.
10. He plans his life around you and his relationship.
He now considers you to be a vital and integral facet of his life. He could never imagine a life without you. And that’s why he makes it a point to plan his short-term and long-term goals around having you by his side.
11. He inspires you to be a better person.
If you end up becoming a better human being overall just because you’re in a relationship with this man, then he’s definitely someone who is worth keeping around. He inspires you to be a better person and you shouldn’t take that for granted.
12. He is a guy you find yourself talking about a lot.
He drives you crazy with how amazing he is that you find yourself thinking and talking about him a lot when you’re with your friends.
13. He is always honest with you.
And lastly, a guy who is honest with you is always a man who is worth keeping. There are so many dishonest individuals out there these days, but at least you know you could always trust your man.
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