13 Things You Need To Know About Loving A Virgo

Any Virgos in the house?

Virgo’s always confused me as a child; I wondered how it was possible for a man to have the Zodiac sign of a woman. Now that I know better, it has all become very clear to me. Let me start off by saying that this is my favorite of all Zodiac signs. I have always found Virgos to be wonderful people. They really do, possess all the qualities of a woman. They are loving, caring, and giving people. They wouldn’t think twice before sacrificing their happiness for the sake of others.

Apart from that, every Virgo I ever knew was soft-spoken and kind. They would always treat me with respect. They managed to maintain composure in some pretty dark situations. They have a way of seeing beauty in things no one else can. If there is anyone maintaining balance in the world it’s the Virgos. You are a very lucky person if you ever get to date one.

1. Virgo’s tend to improve the lives of those around them. They have a way of seeing through people and things. You will find them managing situations no one else would be able to manage. The good thing is that they aren’t afraid of taking the liberty to correct and amend things. If you ever happen to date a Virgo, you will feel that you have become a better person. It’s just who they are, they bring out the better in you. When you interact with a Virgo you start looking at life from a whole new perspective. The scary thing is that you could be a pretty hard-ass person but, they will still somehow manage to change your approach towards life.

2. Virgos are self-motivated people, they wouldn’t take anything up as a profession unless they absolutely love it. They love what they do and are very passionate about their work. They are proud of what they do and if you try to tell them otherwise they wouldn’t be happy about it. A Virgo will always support your ambition; you should be equally supportive about theirs. If you cannot support your partners’ dreams you have no right to be in a relationship. Do you know what fuels a Virgo? Their ambitions!

3. It’s not about frantic romanticizing when you are with a Virgo. Although they are hopeless romantics, they look for practical proof of it. They believe in making words a reality, if you are all show and no game, they will definitely have second thoughts about you. Traditional methods of displaying love might fail you. Yes, an, I love you’ text every morning will be great. Flowers once a month aren’t a bad idea either, but if you really want to show a Virgo how much you love them, do the laundry, take out the trash, and wash the dishes. Put some effort into it.

4. If you are depressed or are going through a difficult situation always ask Virgo for advice. They will give you the best advice ever, given that you tell them the whole truth. The way they give advice is so unorthodox, they don’t push you for the information you don’t want to give and they don’t make you feel guilty for what you did. They hear your part of the story and then give you a suggestion in a way that is both beneficial and conventional.

5. Virgos are cleanliness freaks and they will definitely have bad blood if you mess their house up. It’s probably best that you keep your hands to yourself. They put a lot of effort into keeping their environment clean. Acknowledge their effort and help maintain everything. You will often find Virgos as environmental activists.

6. Virgos are honest, upfront people. They have a problem concealing their feelings; love is one emotion they cannot lie about. They will blurt out how they feel about you, even if you both are in the early stage of dating. Better said than done, right? If they happen to fall in love with you, they will make sure that you end up feeling the same way about them. They strive to provide a better life to the people they love. If you are looking for a long-term relationship with a supportive and trustworthy partner, a Virgo will be your best option.

7. Virgos don’t go looking for trouble, they are very intellectual people. They have second thoughts about everything because they always weigh in the pros and cons before they make a decision. Even if they fall in love with you, they will definitely evaluate the future of your relationship before making it official. If a Virgo ends up asking too many questions, don’t be annoyed; it’s probably for the best. Virgos aren’t imprudent and irrational,

they have an amazing ability to understand people, and they always trust their instinct while making important decisions. This is not because not that they monotonous, they are just extra cautious. Their idea of fun is a cup of coffee and a good book. If you are looking for an adrenaline rush, dating a Virgo might not be the best decision.

8. I told you they are well-organized people, that’s just how they prefer things. Don’t surprise them with something big, out of the blue; it will really stress them out. I am not a Virgo but surprises definitely stress me out. They will prefer that you plan each and everything out with them. The best thing you can do for a Virgo is taking them on a pre-planned vacation.

9. Yes, a Virgo will always be there for you much like your parents, they will help you in sticky situations and may even lie to protect you. They will tend to your needs and wishes, but don’t let their life be just that, okay? I have often seen people take them for granted because of their easy-going nature. Don’t do that, it’s unfair and very rude. Love them as much as they love you, care for them and look out for them. Make them feel worthy, wanted, and beautiful. Remember, if you love a Virgo wholeheartedly, you have no idea how much they will love you back. Virgos are known to give a new definition to love.

10. Virgos are the best homemakers. Their idea of fun will be redecorating the house, with you, making you dinner, and helping you out. They find closure in practical things, things that matter and make a difference. Ask them if you need them and they will love being around to help you. If you are a dependent baby, you should definitely date a Virgo, they will love pampering and managing you, also they have the ‘fix-it complex. Out of all the things you do, never make a fool out of a Virgo, they are sensitive and one wrong move, could really knock them out of their zone.

11. A Virgo is very persistent when it comes to relationships but they are only strong, as long as you feed them with sincerity. Whenever they feel that your love for them lacks legitimacy, they will definitely consider leaving you.

12. It’s easy to fool a Virgo; if they love you they will trust you blindly. Keep one thing in mind, if they ever catch you lying or cheating on them, they will walk out of your life for good.

13. A Virgo will never ask or expect much of you, so remember to thank them for everything that they do for you. We often forget to thank people for the numerous selfless things they do for us. Take our parents, for instance. The number one reason Virgos walk out of relationships is when they see a lack of gratitude.

Virgos are legitimate people; they tend to stick around through thick and thin. They have rules and they expect that you follow through with them too. Apart from that, they are generous human beings with the ability to bring the best in people. If you ever date a Virgo, they will change who you are for good.

Do you remember the friend who brought out the best in you? That’s exactly who a Virgo is, and you will never regret having one in your life!

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Have you been with a Virgo? Let me know of your own experiences in the comments below!

58 comments
  1. my virgo husband is just the opposite of how you described a virgo to be. he is a slob around the house . he doesn’t fix anything that needs fixing. he doesn’t show any affection,except when he wants sex. he doesn’t have my back or defend me, he leaves me to defend myself and to fend for myself. he takes off during hard times ,doesn’t help solve any problems. he won’t get a job, he would rather be a dumpster diver. he has cheated on me numerous times and won’t stop cheating ,so i have decided to divorce him.he steals from everyone in his life and from businesses.he doesn’t care about anyone’s feelings but his own.he is a big liar and manipulater.he is abusive and disrepectful. he is a narcissist.

    1. Geez mate, vent much? Sounds like you married yourself a real keeper NOT! Why choose to vent your marriage problems in a Zodiac bio? Honestly, it sounds to me like some counselling would be beneficial for you guys if not just for you. Leave the looser, what’s keeping you? Kids? He isn’t a typical Virgo that’s for sure. Good luck

      1. Her husband probably have those traits but not for her because why would you marry someone like that. I’m sure she didn’t meet him like that because that’s says a lot about her as well if she did.

    2. Hi Kim I too was married to a narcissist that person you describe is what my life was like with a Virgo male everything you describe is how my life were is with him. The description this other female describes my ex doing for two other women who in return burnt his sorry ass. Unlike you I just found out about his 30 years ago affair with a prostitute from a Korean hostess bar. In his mind it happen long ago no big deal. I don’t care if it was 100 years ago no cheating affairs are ever no big deal, because it is a BIG DEAL Unless you live this pain you just can’t
      imagine the heartaches we go through because they are con artists cunning everyone. Kim you need to have someone to just listen I have two to spare. I can give you pointers coming out a winner at the end 🙂 connect with me on face book private chat

    3. 100% described ex my sons father isn’t compassionate the only person he cares about is himself He’s a narcissistic sociopath who isn’t nurturing or caring at all

    4. Kimberly does your Virgo husband have a Virgo brother in California? You described my Virgo boyfriend to the minus the infidelity.
      I’m sorry you’re going through it.

    5. As a Virgo my self I feel it is pretty well spot on. With that being said…. what your husband is doing is showing you how you make him feel. He is tired of trying to tell you so he is showing you. If things don’t change you won’t be married much longer. Js. I know how my reaction is towards my spouse when I feel he doesn’t hear me when i try to tell him how his actions/ words make me. I show him how he makes me feel. Try sitting down with your husband and actually hear what he has to say not just listen. If you are on a Virgos intellectual level you will understand what I am say.

    6. I relate I’ve dated a vigo man and he is a liar a cheater and a selfish human. I’m a Virgo also and I’m more like you described here. I’m loyal and can’t stand liars I will do anything for the people I love and most of my good friends. I’ve had his back stuck up for him when he does the opposite. He never has my back he throws me under the bus. He has done nithing but blame me for all the crap that happens to him. He blames everyone else never takes responsibility for his actions. He says things but his words and actions are 95% of the time opposite. He’s a manipulator a narcissist and he don’t mind if you say he even knows he is finally admitting it all and he’s turning 55. He was getting a divorce when I met him yet he told me he had already been divorced for over 2 years. Everything with him was a complete lie for over 8 years. He stole money from me over thousands of cash out of my safe. And he also stole my purse over 2,000 in cash. He had been taking money little by little over time until I told him he needed to find another place to live giving him a few days he stole all my money I had I’m my safe.
      Over 15 k. And he got by with it because he was staying with me. When i finally let him stay with me and for 3 months. After resisting e erything about him he would stalk me harass me until he figured out a way to get what he wanted. He had to switch it up often. So what you described he is the opposite as well.

    7. I was reunited with my high school crush , a Virgo, he sounds a lot like your Virgo .. very disappointed tragically.. i waited to be with him for years when he went to prison thought that would change him due the better .. ur did not .

  2. I’m a Virgo male and now I see why all my past relationships have failed…… all I’d like is to treated the same as I treat others. I dont want a f*** buddy. I’d like a life partner that I can grow with and grow old with

    1. Me too. He’s boring. Nice guy but femine side. I want a nice fun man. Not a homebody. Life is passing me by

    2. I haven’t had the best of luck in relationships either. I always end up loving and caring to much too fast and I always find myself alone. I haven’t been in a relationship that started out as friends but I think that is the key to having a long healthy nontoxic relationship. What signs aren’t compatible with Virgos

  3. This feels like the female Virgo 24/7 being that this describes me to a T. Good bad and ugly lol. But I will say if you have a mature Virgo man all of the above is true. Even to friends. I don’t mean to offend but that guy sounds like a POS and that he would be that way no matter what the sign

  4. Hi! Good Day to every one ☺️
    Im Cancerian Man ♋
    But I have been Spend my life for almost 6yrs to My Virgos Women ♍.
    Let me explained what she mean to me?
    For me, Virgo’s are one of the most PERFECT Personality that Ive been ever Met in my life ???
    You know why i say that?
    She Always Passionate for What He Loves To Do. Even in small Things that she do.
    She Always Make Her Self Perfect. Even She’s Always stressed on in every single day ??
    She Always Do For What She Said. Even sometimes can cause of our Arguments ??
    She Always Want All The Things is in Manage. Even In Diffult Time ?⌚
    And The Real Cause Of Why I Said that?
    Its simply Because,
    Nobody Gonna Make Me Higher,
    Nobody Gonna Treat Me Better,
    She Know How Appriciate Me,
    & Nobody Gonna Loved Me Better
    The Way Like she Do ???
    The GENUINLY Loved And Honesty,
    That I Didn’t asked for her, But
    Absulutely She Gave ?????

    1. WOW! I’m glad you are getting out of what sounds like a terrible situation. I believe Virgo men and Virgo women are opposites. I’m a Virgo woman whom in my past dated a Virgo man and he was NOT GOOD either!
      This article describes a Virgo woman perfectly❤️

  5. I am a Virgo and made the unfortunate choice of spending 8 years with a Virgo male. I just found out a year after we broke up that he married a woman from his country a year after we starting dating. He was able to keep it from me due to her living in London the first 3 years. She came here bought him a house and had 2 kids with him. He continued the lie and took thousands of dollars from me. No Virgos for me thx

    1. I am married to a Virgo man and he is ALL of this! Intelligent, self motivated, Homemaker, trusting, honest, logical. Best man and relationship I have ever had! He challenges and supports me as my own person. We both value putting effort into our relationship and what we receive From our partner definitely fuels us to give back the same. Love me a Virgo!!

  6. My best friend is a Virgo; I’m a Libra. I am in love with my best friend but, he is not with me. He is in love with two of his best friends. We are more like siblings. What should I do?

  7. So everything that was said here is completely true and the reason y I know is cause I am a virgo and all my exs i left them cause they didnt really care about me or truly love me

  8. I will say I am a Virgo woman, I am very straight forward about wanting to only date someone that’s ready for something to lead longterm. Since I don’t like to party or bar hop I have always wanted family life and to build a life and memories with someone truly special. I am very driven, honest, affectionate and want to better everyone around me. I actually get a great joy by helping others. I enjoy doing for others I have since I was a little girl I used to save my allowance to go buy teddy bears to dress up and I would give them away as gifts to anyone I thought needed to smile. The description you gave fits me perfectly.

  9. I’m a Virgo woman & you totally described me perfectly; without pause!!!!!

    Virgo men are totally different than Virgo women, for some odd & strange reason.

    This fits Virgo women’s lives “only”!!

    We ARE the best!!!

    Wink!

  10. I agree with the past 2 comments- I am a virgo woman and this describes me more thoroughly than I could have even described myself!
    However- i was married to a virgo man, and everything that has been said about virgo men here is a nearly perfect description of my [ex-] virgo hisband.
    ***YES- THIS IS APPLICABLE TO VIRGO WOMEN ONLY!***
    Thanks for all the kind and honest words about us virgo [women, lol]- it’s good to know some1 out there appreciates us!

    1. I am a virgo woman dating a virgo man and I find that he is mainly about himself. I am like this article but he wouldn’t think twice about cheating, but like this article I will stick through until I know the truth and I’ve exhausted every avenue of trying to make it work. I wholeheartedly believe, that the virgo male and female are 2 different individuals, unless the male is in love then I believe he could be like this article.

  11. Im a Virgo woman and this is totally me. My problem has been making that cut off……the final cut off….but, as I get older, it has become easier. We give way too much and accept way too little. Done with that bit of business.

  12. Crazy insane how much this truly describes me and how i feel and get treated! I also agree virgo men are way dofferent and that has always confused me! Though i am talking to a virgo man that is older and i think he may be more this description then a younger virgo man would be.

  13. Yes I know this girl who is exactly like how you define. Fearless, charismatic, beautiful and down to earth. Every-time I talk to her she just blows my mind. She is amazing! Nothing seems impossible for her. Just fun, loving and positive with lots of energy. Didn’t know she was Virgo until I read this article and all I can think is that’s MJ. So I asked her what month she was born and she is September born. Amazing!!

  14. Julie-Virgo
    Everything you said in your article is 200% true, I couldn’t have said it BETTER!!!! How did you know!!! LOL

  15. You described me throughly.i am a virgo woman.thank you for this very thought out article.i couldn’t have described myself any better 😊

    1. Itoo am a Virgo woman though and through. Thisdescribes me toa tee. Althugh others may not see it. It is because people tend tobring out the worst in me and I do not like that all. I only wish that I could get those to be there for me and be kind to me as I am to them.

  16. I am a Virgo man and this describes me very closely. Shame on these Virgo women who claim these words only describe them.

    1. Capricorns are our devil, I have Capricorn in my family and friends who have been toxics in my life, meaning in some way they have been a foe to me in some way esp pertaining to my relationships with ex partners. I have been single now for a year, mainly due to a Capricorn who helped the last Ex.

  17. I am a Virgo woman married to a Virgo male. This description is me to a T but the complete opposite of my husband. I have always put everyone before me sacrificed my happiness for the happiness of others while he has always put himself first and foremost above all others without a second thought. It takes a whole lot for me to remove you from my life but once removed you will be invited back in.

    1. MY VirGo husband is a cheater. At first he was a good man but then I started to notice all his lies. He gave me two STDs. I was in the hospital cuz I couldn’t understand why he left me. He said he had a family emergency in jamaica he leftthe country. Ì found he gave me PID. I got upset with him. Then my husband said in a text I forgive u for all u did to me. He is a manipulative narcissist. After he left to go tojamaica he’s been mentally abusive. I’m getting a divorce and don’t care who he chose to be his girl while we together. I’m done. That’s why I don’t believe in horoscopes. God tells me who is who not people or horoscopes.

  18. I am this Virgo! You are exactly perfect in your description of me and I’m having a hard time learning to leave people that take advantage of me! Thanks for your insight!

  19. I am a Virgo woman and fit those above-mentioned traits. Virgo men are the total opposite. I have also dated a few back in the day, and it’s shocking that they are Virgos…

  20. Hello to all you Virgo’s;
    I Am as well a Virgo 08/25. I am everything you explained exactly. Readers I studied and experienced that Virgo men depending on what day in August or September they are born, I’m 44 and o have only loved all Virgo men and I’m single with no children and no husband and hurt again. I keep telling my self no more Virgo s even tho I am . I keep meeting them but here it is Virgo men that’s born to the cust of Leo and Virgo meaning In august are more Leo and are exactly like all these women explain. If you get a true Virgo man in sept You got a sweet loving and if they love you and your that girl they love ❤️ this reading is amazing and right on ty.

  21. I am a virgo man and usually don’t like giving myself compliments.i am more confident than arrogant and more humble than conceited but everything that’s been written describes the way I am. I always think about others feelings, happiness than mine. Always helping others but never get it back. It’s true I like everything organized and am very clean wether it be myself or ny home but wont attack anyone for not being clean . I’ll just clean up after that person. I love hard and with all of myself and have a hard time leaving someone even after being hurt by them. I hate that part about me. I feel weak and that person knows how much I love them and they are taking advantage of my heart.

  22. Wauw, i have never read a Virgo description so accurate as this one!! I am a virgo and every word you wrote, that is me!!

  23. I am a Virgo and you described me better than anyone ever has before. And my husband is an Aquarius and you nailed it on the head with him too. Good job!!

    *FYI to the prior comments about bad behaving spouses….when dealing with narcissist (or BPD) zodiac traits will disappear and leave only the narcissistic traits in their place. All narcissists act and behave very much alike no matter when they were born. Good luck.

  24. I am a Leo/Virgo, I have many of these traits, but seems when I got into a relationship with a Pisces, my Leo came out more than my Virgo and now the relationship is on the rocks. I love him and want to take care of him and be with him, but I let Leo side speak and got on his bad side, now he does not speak to me or have anything to do with me. I apologized to him twice but to no avail. All just a mess.

  25. I am a Virgo woman. The description mentioned about is describing me to the T. It felt like I was reading something that was written by someone I once dated. When I love, I love hard, betray me once nd you will never see me again. That’s how much I give myself to someone, I give my all when I am in a relationship. My life practically revolves around that person, be it support wise, organizing his house basically everything that has to do with my partner. You really know how a Virgo woman is, that I must say.

  26. i couldn’t have described myself better!! the only part you forgot is that us virgo women and our gorgeous smile and charming personality!!! sense of humor, ect! 😅😅😅. my man is also a virgo and so far, a few years in, so good.

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