A true gentleman will always respect his woman.
They say that chivalry is dead but you can definitely prove that it isn’t. And no, it’s not the kind of chivalry that involves knights and wars and violent battles. You can be chivalrous without being violent. Part of what made knights so amazing back then was that they were always so gentlemanly and kind. They were vastly admired and respected because of good manners. They always treated the women around them with utmost respect. They would never play around with them. They would never undermine their feelings and emotions. They would never do anything that would deliberately hurt the people they loved.
Fast forward to day and things seem to be just so different. Every day, girls’ hearts are being broken by terrible men who don’t know how to treat them properly. These are the guys who just really don’t know what it means to treat women well. And that’s why the men who know how to be real gentlemen are the ones women are likely to cling to.
So if you’re interested in being a man who sets himself apart; if you want to be someone who actually makes women feel revered and respected, then just practice the basic rules of being a true gentleman. Here are 13 tips to being a true gentleman who girls will love.
1. Be punctual and respectful of a woman’s time.
A woman’s time must always be valued and respected. You can do this by showing up on time during dates. Never make a woman needlessly wait around for you.
2. Stand up to greet her intimately whenever you first meet her for a date.
It’s a simple gesture, but it’s an indicator of proper breeding and good manners. You stand up to meet her because you would never want a girl to be standing on her own.
3. Offer to give her your jacket when it’s cold while you’re walking out.
This is a nice gesture to show that you want to make her life as comfortable and as easy as possible and you would do so even if it meant that you suffer a little bit because of it.
4. Let her order her food first at the restaurant.
It’s another simple gesture, but it’s one with important implications. It just shows that you would never want to place your own needs above her own. It shows that you value her needs and wants.
5. Let her eat her food first before you start digging in.
This is another nice gesture because it shows that you’re considering her as your partner someone you would never want to do anything without.
6. Always maintain full eye contact when you talk to her.
Maintaining eye contact is a sign of respect. It also shows her that you are focused entirely on her and you don’t have a wandering eye for other women when you’re together.
7. Keep our cellphone stashed away when you’re on a date.
When you’re out on a nice and intimate date with your woman, then you really have to keep your focus on her. And that means that you really need to put your phone away. Your social media feeds and internet updates can wait for when you’re not together anymore.
8. Steer clear of gossip and backbiting.
Gossip is immaturity. You shouldn’t be showing a girl that you’re willing to speak ill of other people especially when they aren’t there to defend themselves.
9. Practice humility at all times.
A true gentleman knows just how amazing he is, but he never feels the need to brag about it. A true gentleman always stays humble. He never likes to lift his own bench.
10. Offer to pay for the first date.
It’s not about the money. It’s about the gesture. Even if she offers to pay for her share on the first date, you should insist to pay for it especially if you’re the one who invited her out in the first place.
11. Don’t expect sex until she’s actually comfortable with it.
Real gentlemen are always respectful of a woman’s boundaries especially when it comes to sex. Real gentlemen would never pressure their girls into having sex with them especially when they aren’t feeling too comfortable about it.
12. Really pay attention to whatever she has to say.
Communication is always going to be an important aspect of any relationship. And so if you’re going to be spending time with one another, you are going to have to communicate effectively. And communicate isn’t about just expressing yourself. It’s also being about to pay attention to what she has to say.
13. Offer to bring her home safely or at least walk her to her car or taxi.
A true gentleman would always want to make sure that his woman gets home safely after a date. So offer to bring her home or at the very least, call an Uber for her
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