Today’s post comes from a viral Tweet from relationship expert Oloni. She posted a question on her Twitter, asking all the ladies about what made them realize their boyfriends and husbands didn’t like them.
“You ever think about the men who said they liked you before and suddenly realised they actually really hated you”
Her tweet instantly went viral, receiving over 5000 Retweets. A lot of women came to share their stories of what made them realize their men didn’t think of them as they thought. Here are thirteen of the best replies:
1. @IfeSzn said:
“I drove 5 hours to him & ended up getting stranded half way cuz my car broke down. I called him to tell him & all he said was “damn” . Didn’t offer to come pick me up, didn’t offer any resolutions , nothing … Ended up waiting in the nearby train station for hours …”
2. @daisabenaa shared:
“Spent Valentine’s Day with his girl best friend. When he got home, he put a polaroid picture of them both and a plastic red rose she got him on display on his wall”
3. @mikuhatsunegirl said:
“Oh, I forgot one. I allowed a former long-time friend of mine who showed interest in me the privilege of a date & he turned around and started sleeping with his brother’s ex while trying to talk to me.”
4. @Cindy87798017 told a heartbreaking tale:
“I was living with him at the time when he invited his baby mama from another province to visit him. Had to go back home to give them space. He would fetch me to go have sex with him at his cousin’s place after work before he went home to his baby mama.I turned into a side chick!”
5. @krash619 shared a cheating story:
“He told me he’d never get married. After 16 years he cheated on me, married the woman he cheated with, and then told her family I was never more than a ‘hookup’.”
6. @mynamehere46 said:
“I was presented with a box that held beautiful diamond earrings……then was asked to put them in….HIS ears…on Easter….which that year happened to fall ON MY BIRTHDAY!!!! I got nothing….not even his presence at Easter/birthday dinner……we were married…..lol”
7. @SoniaMGraham1 shared:
“When he came clean about cheating on me our entire marriages (11years) with at least 17 women physically AND his own sister.”
8. @sycuhdelik said:
“me & this dude i was talking to would bicker over little things (almost like siblings). after another petty argument, he thought he’d ‘lighten the mood’ wit a ‘joke’ and said if he ever saw a group of men trying to take advantage of me, he’d stop, laugh, and keep walking.”
9. @NubianLuv6 shared:
“He asked me how I’d feel about him tattooing my name on his body. I was indifferent because neither of us were in to tattoos. He called me from the shop & said ‘How do you spell your name again?’ & laughed. He wasn’t joking-he tatted the name of the bi**ch he was cheating with…”
10. @Cindy87798017 shared another story:
“When my ex lost his job. I found a job as a waitress to support our son. I rented and bought him food. Found him one time with a girl in bed in a house I was renting for his unemployed a**”
11. @megchinmy said:
“My 1st ex (back in college) told me that a classmate of ours was very pretty. Once he even asked me why I didn’t shave my hairy arms to be smooth like that classmate. We broke up, ended college & I found out he started dating that classmate shortly after.”
12. @amy_greenwell shared:
“When my ex cheated on me because he deserved a pretty girlfriend and it wasn’t fair on him 👍🏻🙃”
13. @___Tiaire___ said:
“When the guy I was with for almost 2 years cheated on me repeatedly unprotected. And when I asked him why he didn’t have an answer and if he even cared how I would have felt he said no”
Read the rest of the replies on Twitter here.
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