HE IS THE ONE!
There comes a point after weeks or months of dating when we sit down and think whether the guy is worth our time or not. We ask ourselves all these questions to conclude if he is the one or not. And that is justified; we need to sit down and do our thinking. To help you decide, here are some questions you should ask yourself in order to reach a conclusion.
1. Is He Supportive?
Love is not all you need in a relationship and even if it is, being supportive comes naturally when you are loved. So ask yourself if he is all for encouraging you to chase your dreams and does not let you sit back.
2. Is He Really Into You?
Does he smile at you randomly and tell you that you look beautiful? Does he absolutely love to spend his time with you? That has to be a yes if not for legitimate reasons and there are not many.
3. Is He Respectful?
Does he pay heed to your codes of conduct and never cracks sexist or abusive jokes? Because that is a sign of a gentleman and you don’t want to be a person who does not know the utmost importance of respect in a relationship.
4. Can You Confide In Him?
Since a relationship grows with the level of trust, can you trust him with your secrets and problems that you would not feel comfortable sharing with anyone else? You need to ask yourself why is the answer is no. – Continue reading on next page
5. Does He Take Pride in the Relationship?
Hiding you because he is not proud of you is not a quality of Mr. Right so assess situations and see for yourself if he is proud of you and does not hesitate in showing you off as his person.
6. Is He Chivalrous?
Chivalry shows the true traits of a gentleman and makes a woman stay attracted to his ways. It is a plus point, so it is another good thing if he opens doors, pulls chair and lets you try things first out of courtesy.
7. Does He Take Out Time For You?
Shifting plans to take out time for you or something that means a lot to you shows great value and importance. Therefore check for yourself if he is willing to move everything aside for you when you plead.
8. Does He Grow With You?
It can be the strongest sign of Mr. Right is the answer is yes. The person who is willing to accept changes in his life just to grow and evolve with you, there might be no reason for him to be the wrong person.
9. Is He There For You?
Going out of the way to make things easier for our loved ones, without selfish means, shows love. So if he is there for you even when you do not verbally ask, he is the one.
10. Does He Know All The Little Things About You?
Men usually don’t remember things like birthdays and other little things, especially when they are not interested. If he does remember all the details about you and your relationship, he is precious and should not be let go. – Continue reading on next page
11. Is He Willing to Invest in You?
Support comes in different forms in a relationship and it shows the same thing; love. If he is willing to invest in you, be it emotionally or financially, so that you become a stronger person, he is showing support and that is a good sign.
12. Will He Go At All Lengths For You?
Does he feel shame in doing slightly embarrassing things for you like holding your purse or covering for you when you are PMSing? If yes, you are lucky and he is Mr. Right because guys rarely do that.
13. Does He Discuss The Future?
Does he talk about the future with you in it? Do his future plans include you when he talks about a better life? It shows he is not just Mr. Right Now but actually Mr. Right who is really, profoundly, into you.
14. Is He THE Guy?
We all have our standards set for the man of our dreams. He does not necessarily have to come on a white horse dressed in silk, but we do have some characteristics attributed to our perfect life partner. Compare those with him and if you see a lot of matches, dance in joy!
15. Does He Want To Be The One?
Look for signs of him clearly telling you that you are to stay in his life. Listen when he says that he dreams to wake up beside you every morning until he dies. Because what’s the point of him being Mr. Right if he does not want be it himself?
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