If it seems like the spark is kind of running out, you NEED to do these things!
1. Take some time to disconnect from the virtual world.
Switch of your cellphones and unplug your laptops. Disconnect yourselves from the virtual world and just immerse yourselves in each other’s company. Sometimes, technology can be such a distraction in peoples’ expressions of love for each other. Just lose yourselves in each other’s eyes instead of your social media news feeds.
2. Take a vacation together.
Go on an adventure together. It doesn’t have to be as grand and expensive as a cruise on the Mediterranean. It could just be a quick trip to a nearby tourist attraction out-of-town. The point is that you have to try new experiences and explore new places together as a couple. Immerse yourselves in culture and adventure.
3. Try going on a long road trip.
You, your partner, and the long open road. Long road trips will give you the opportunity to just escape from the troubles and worries of your everyday lives. You get a lot of time to talk and bond with each other on these long drives. Go back to your roots of effortless communication with each other and recharge your spirits.
4. Go out as a group with your best friends.
Maybe the best way to revitalize your relationship is to spend a night out with other people. Maybe you just need to mix things up and learn how to interact with each other in a group setting. You spend a lot of time alone with each other as is. There’s no problem with breaking from routine and going out with your friends every so often.
5. Take a temporary break from each other.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Remember that. It’s a time-tested adage that still holds true today. You need your own space to grow and develop as an individual and sometimes, that means you need to spend some time away from your significant other. That doesn’t mean you have to break up. You just need to be afforded your own personal space to reconnect with your inner self.– Continue reading on the next page
6. Set goals for your relationship that you can work towards.
Set goals for each other as a couple. It could be anything. Maybe you can aim for a certain target with your shared income. Perhaps you can try setting fitness goals that you can work towards together. Either way, it grants you an opportunity to bond and work on a project together.
7. Write each other sincere love letters.
Never belittle an opportunity to express your love for one another. In the age where texting and social media messaging is all the rage, sometimes, it’s a nice and refreshing way to express your love with actual writing. Love letters are making a comeback these days and you should at least give it a try.
8. Be creative in your expressions of love.
Mix things up. You don’t always have to express your love with bouquets of flowers, kisses, hugs, or gifts. Put some creativity and imagination in how you express your love for each other. Remember that gestures don’t have to be fancy or grand, they only have to be meaningful.
9. Learn a new skill together.
If you take up the challenge of learning a new skill together, it gives you another opportunity to showcase your teamwork and your synergy.
10. Hit the gym as a couple.
Exercise and healthy living is a great way to just activate your endorphins and generate natural sources of happiness. You’re practically hitting two birds with one stone, because not only will you end up feeling good about yourselves, you’ll also start loving the new bodies you’ll be getting after all the hard work you put in at the gym.– Continue reading on the next page
11. Bond over common hobbies and interests.
Talk about books that you both love. Go see a concert of a band or an artist that you’re both interested in. Visit the museum and talk about paintings that you both like. It’s a great way to reinvent your means of connecting with each other.
12. Spend a whole day in bed together.
Just forget the world and lay in bed together for a whole day. You only need to get up for bathroom breaks and meals. Spending a whole day in bed together is a great way of escaping the world together without really going anywhere.
13. Spend a day at the Spa and get a couple’s package.
Who wouldn’t love a day at the spa, right? It’s a great way to recharge the mind, body, and spirit. Go to the spa and avail of a couple’s package if they offer one. Treat yourselves to a day of utter peace, pampering, and relaxation. You will come out of it feeling refreshed and ready to face life again.
14. Cook together.
The way to a person’s heart is always through the stomach. Switch things up for date night by staying in and preparing a meal yourselves. It’s a great way to bond and learn new skills in the kitchen as well.
15. Talk to me
Which of these do you personally do to bring that spark again? And also tell me the number 15 that you think I should have added in the list. Let me know in the comments below!
