Ladies, if you just so happen to be stuck in a relationship with a man with a body of an adult but with the mind of a teenager, then you probably know how much work it takes to keep a relationship going. If you think that you love him enough to endure his constant immaturity, then good for you. By all means, fight to preserve that love you have for him. But if it gets to a point where his immaturity is just too much to bear, then you might as well call it quits. Either give him the space to grow and mature on his own, or find another man who is ripe enough to be in a relationship with you.
Ladies, if you just so happen to be stuck in a relationship with a man with a body of an adult but with the mind of a teenager, then you probably know how much work it takes to keep a relationship going. If you think that you love him enough to endure his constant immaturity, then good for you. By all means, fight to preserve that love you have for him. But if it gets to a point where his immaturity is just too much to bear, then you might as well call it quits. Either give him the space to grow and mature on his own, or find another man who is ripe enough to be in a relationship with you. It’s hard to be babying a man constantly. Things can get particularly tricky down the line when you start getting serious with each other. If you ever decide to have a child in the future, you’ll end up having two babies instead of one. For most girls, that just isn’t cutting it. So how do you know when your man just isn’t ready to be with you? Here are a few things that you could look out for. Here are 15 signs that he’s not mature enough for you.
1. He’s always complaining about everything.
He never seems to be content about everything. Like the 5-year-old in the toy store, he always wants the best possible toy. He always fails to see the good parts in anything that he has in his possession.
2. He doesn’t treat you right.
A relationship should be fun, loving, and affectionate. If he always manages to mess things up for you, then he’s not really that mature. A real man realizes the importance of treating his lady with grace, class, and unconditional love.
3. He’s rude and insulting.
We’re all familiar with toddlers who haven’t yet learned their table manners and can be very blunt with how they talk or act. We shrug it off because they’re still toddlers and they’re still learning as they go along. It’s completely different when it’s your grown-up boyfriend who is being tactless with his words and actions.
4. He sweeps problems under the rug.
A real mature man would always choose to face his problems and worries head on. No proper functioning adult wants to just sweep problems under a rug in the hopes that they eventually go away.
5. He keeps whining about his job.
At least he has a job, right? No. It’s okay for a man to be stressed out with a job, but only immature men continue working jobs that they can’t seem to find fulfilment in. Emotionally mature men understand that having a fulfilling career is more important than having a stable one.– Continue reading on the next page
6. He’s very lazy.
He has no ambition nor drive. He really never likes to challenge himself in any aspect of life. He’s stuck in his own personal comfort zone, and there’s no getting him out of there.
7. He’s very vague about his goals and dreams.
A real mature male individual knows what he wants to achieve in life, and he always has a plan for how to go about his dreams and aspirations. An immature man is someone who just lives life day by day in the hopes that eventually, life will magically start to get better.
8. He’s allergic to apologies.
Real men know whenever it’s the appropriate time to swallow their pride and apologize. Immature men act as if they’ve never committed anything wrong in their entire life.
9. He can never get serious about anything.
He’s always just joking around and taking things too casually. Sure, not too many people want a boyfriend who is too tightly wound, but you shouldn’t be settling for a man who is virtually incapable of engaging in serious discussions with you.
10. He finds himself constantly fatigued.
He doesn’t have any proper time management skills, and so he always finds himself chasing after deadlines. He feels very tired because he’s inefficient with how he manages his time, not because of the amount of work he’s doing.– Continue reading on the next page
A man who isn’t afraid to cry at appropriate settings is a strong man. A man who cries for even the smallest reasons is a man who is emotionally immature and unstable.
12. He has no plans of getting a place of his own.
If he’s still living with his mom, and has no plans of securing his own spot, then you might as well be dating a high-school kid.
13. He doesn’t value your own personal time.
Time is such a difficult aspect of any relationship. Whenever you start dating someone, you automatically give up a bulk of your time. However, when he starts feeling like he is entitled to all of your time, then this kid seriously doesn’t understand boundaries.
14. He breaks his promises.
Real grown-up men keep their promises. Plain and simple.
15. He hurts your feelings.
A mature man always understands that it is never right to hurt a lady. Real men understand the value of chivalry and nobility. They always place their women above themselves and treat them like absolute royalty. Only immature men find joy in hurting the women that they love.
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