1. He thinks that he is entitled to sex whenever he wants.
He has no respect for your boundaries or for your dignity as a person. If he wants to have sex with you, he thinks he is always entitled to it. It doesn’t matter whether you’re in the mood for it or not. He always expects to have his way.
2. He is constantly disappointing you.
He stiffs you on dates. He doesn’t offer to pay the bill. He forgets important dates. He never gives you any gifts. He is always disappointing you. He never lives up to any of your expectations and he treats you terribly.
3. He isn’t supportive of your goals and dreams.
He doesn’t really push you to become a better person. In fact, he doesn’t really seem to care about your life. He doesn’t support you in your pursuit of your dreams nor does he ever make you feel better whenever you’re down.
4. He doesn’t let you interact with other guys.
He doesn’t trust you enough to leave you alone with other men. He doesn’t think it’s appropriate for you to have guy friends. He is very insecure about your love for him and she he isn’t comfortable with having you surrounded by men.
5. He doesn’t take an interest in the things that you’re interested in.
He really doesn’t take an interest in your passions. He doesn’t care much about the books you read or the music listen to. In fact, he might even make fun of you for your interests. If your man doesn’t make an effort to try out your favorite hobbies, then he isn’t a good guy.
6. He looks at other girls even when he’s with you.
He has no regard for your feelings. Even if you get hurt when you see him looking at other girls, he is going to do it anyway. He thinks that it’s just him being playful but it only goes to show that he doesn’t respect the sanctity of your relationship.
7. He gets annoyed whenever you try to be honest with him.
He hates it whenever you try to be honest with him. He doesn’t want to hear about the ways that he has hurt you. He doesn’t want to listen to any criticisms that you may have about him. If it makes him uncomfortable, then he is going to shut you out.
8. He doesn’t make an effort to communicate with you.
Communication is not big for him even though it’s an important aspect of every relationship. He doesn’t text you to check up on you. He doesn’t have deep conversations with you. He just doesn’t like talking to you in general about anything that actually matters.
9. He gets drunk or stoned regularly.
If you’re dating a guy who is constantly stoned or drunk, then you seriously have to reconsider the relationship. Maybe your guy has some problems that he needs to deal with first before he can be ready for a relationship with you.
10. He rarely shows you physical affection unless it leads to sex.
Hand-holding, kissing, hugging, or caressing are very rare. He doesn’t really like getting physically intimate with you unless he knows that this intimacy is going to lead to sex. It’s all about sex for him. Otherwise, it’s as if you’re practically strangers.
11. He raises his voice at you to intimidate you.
He scares you into submission. He doesn’t respect you at all. He raises his voice at you as if he were above you. He tries to destroy your spirit by intimidating you.
12. He doesn’t put effort into planning dates.
The best kinds of boyfriends actually put effort into planning their dates with their girls. They see dates as opportunities for memorable experiences. If your man doesn’t even care about going out on a date with you, then he isn’t a good boyfriend at all.
13. It’s either his way or no way.
He is never willing to compromise in the relationship. For him, it’s all about what he wants and what he needs. He is very selfish and he will never think about what you need from him. It’s either you do things his way or you don’t do it at all.
14. He is always trying to pick a fight with you.
You feel like during any conversation you have with him, he is always trying to start a fight with you. He is very hostile and combative. He uses foul confrontational language with you all the time and he doesn’t care about hurting your feelings.
15. He doesn’t make an effort to be liked by your friends and family.
If he were truly a good person, he would understand that your friends and family are important to you. He would also make an effort to have them like him and accept him as your boyfriend. He is a totally bad boyfriend if he didn’t care about being integrated into your social circles.
16. You are always feeling anxious in the relationship because of him.
He gives you constant anxiety attacks. He doesn’t make you feel safe or secure in the relationship. He isn’t really acting like a gentleman. He is a terrible boyfriend who doesn’t deserve you.
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