Being in love is the most beautiful thing in life. However, you might feel a bit stressed at times. One question which keeps on hitting your mind again and again is whether he sincerely loves you or not?
Slowly and gradually, you start to love unconditionally. You also start to love without any expectations. But one thing which always scares you is to love someone who does not show any feelings towards you. You are always worried about being hurt. This is even more intense when you love somebody for the very first time. It gets a little hard for you, those uncertain feelings about that guy irritate you, those perplex moments you go through in the start.
It is a well-known fact that women cannot hide their emotions. Therefore, it is much easier to guess if a woman loves you or not, just by the way she loves you back.
Conversely, men can conceal their feelings much better. They are taught from the very beginning to never let their feelings become their weak point. Just because of this, it is harder for men to accept the passion they carry for someone.
It is even harder for men to express what they feel deep inside. Rather, they keep it hidden and never say what they really feel. Women find it really annoying.
Ladies! Never ever think he doesn’t love you just because he has never told you the truth. Men find it hard to express their sentiments.
However, we can help you to guess if he really loves you or not by these following signs!
1. He always texts you Good Morning!
You can easily know if he loves you or not if the first thought in the morning is about you.
Love is a kind of heavenly passion that can be enormously pleasing and blissful. When you believe that he really thinks about you the first thing in the morning, it is a sign that he is really into you. It is true that most boys are not very good at expressing their feelings. But some try their best to show their love by sending you good morning wishes.
It’s hard to control your emotions when you are in love. However, even the strongest man would fail to conceal his sentiments and would say that he cannot live without you.
2. He always checks out on you because he is curious to know what you are doing!
It is human nature that most people are really egotistic. Women are a bit more caring and loving, unless they fall in love.
While in love, you start caring about that special one as much as you do about yourself. Guys do some really funny things while checking up on their girlfriends. Some pretend they really don’t care as much as they do inside. However, if he is continuously checking on you several times a week and that too for no genuine reason, that’s the point when you know he is all yours! And I don’t mean checking up on you in a clingy and invasive manner.
3. He can really do anything to solve your problems!
Ladies are usually irritated by their husbands being lazy and not helping them with their work. It is because men change with time. Once, the same man did everything to make her life better. He could even put himself at risk just to solve her issues. He was always there to pick her up regardless of how far he was. He always helped her choose what to buy and let her buy as much as she liked. You are lucky if your guy does the same for you. Now, it is up to you to let him be the same way even after you get married.
4. His face glows with happiness as he sees you!
Love is a feeling of bliss and delight. Love is when you cherish beautiful memories and plan a cheerful future ahead. You smile all the time while in love.
He is definitely in love with you – if his eyes sparkle the moment he sees your face. He would give all of his attention to you when you are around.
5. He is interested to know how you spent your day and listens attentively!
Love is when you care about that special person so much that you even want to know what she eats and when she sleeps.
He truly loves you when he wants to know every little detail about your day like what you did, where you went, what you bought, the stories of your success etc. He wants to be with you forever. Even if he did not spend the day with you, he wants to be in it just by listening about it.
6. He respects your opinion!
He always asks about your opinion and choices. He respects your opinion in every matter. He likes to know your views about world and relationships.
It’s easy to know he loves you when he asks about your choice in every matter and lets you take decisions. It’s a way of planning a future ahead, as well. He likes to see the world through your eyes.
7. He gives you the best side of the bed and pillow.
He loves you if he is willing to give you the side of the bed he likes. He is all yours if he gives you the best in everything the last piece of the cake, the bigger bite of sandwich, seat with the best view in the cinema etc. He really loves you and thinks of you as his better half as he really believes that you are his better half.
Since childhood, we learn the worth of sharing. But it is not just sharing. It is giving all of the best to you. It makes him happy to give you the best. He feels like giving you the best is same like if he is having the best too.
8. He is always there to help.
Some men are afraid to offer help as most ladies refuse accepting help from men as they feel they don’t need any man to help them and are independent. However, if your man is happy to help you clean the dishes after dinner or take you shopping, trust me, he is really the one who loves you!
9. He likes asking you for help.
I find it really sexy when guys ask their girlfriends for help. Like, men asking women to help them reach destinations by checking directions on their phone while driving. He might ask your help to put up that new entertainment system in the room. He asks you for help even when you don’t offer any help.
10. He remembers the important dates!
He really likes you when he has planned every important date in the calendar whether it’s your birthday, some holiday or anniversary. He plans your birthday just the way you like it. He invites your family and friends to your favorite spot and even gifts you the dress you liked two months ago.
11. He likes to give you gifts for no reason.
Chocolates, flowers, candles all those little pieces of affection. He tries his best to win your love by giving you little gifts for no specific reason. Cheaper gifts coated with love are his way to show he really cares about you.
12. He likes planning future ahead!
Most of the men you dated previously in life disliked talking about future. Men avoid discussing about the future. But this man likes to plan a future together with you and discusses how you want it to be. This can be one of the most important things here that you need to look out for in your guy. If your guy plans things for the future вЂtogether’, he’s the one for you.
If you guys are talking about your future and he mentions the words вЂwith you’ or вЂus’ or вЂtogether’ while talking about his future, it’s doneвЂ¦ you don’t need anything else to be sure, the guy is yours already!
13. He likes the things you like.
He buys tickets and likes going to the local concert of your favorite band just because you like that band. He likes watching your favorite shows with you just because he wants to spend more time with you. Even though you don’t ask him to like things that you like he does it for his own happiness.
When he picks out the movies that you like, even when he doesn’t watch that genre, I mean, mostly guys aren’t really into those romantic movies but still, your guy agrees to watch it with you, or someday he, himself, brings the DVD and wants to watch it with youвЂ¦ these are those little moments that define true love.
14. He really loves to spend time with your NOT just to get in your pants!
You guys are too hot for each other in bed, but when it comes to talking and communicating, you both are JUST as good as it can get. Most of the time, guys say those emotional things to girls and those вЂ3 magical words’, just to get in bed with that girl. But that is not the case with your guy. Yes, obviously, he loves you sexually but that’s not the only thing that matters to him.
You both have those cute moments together, you both have those inside jokes about stuff as well and the list goes on. It’s not only about sex, your guy won’t just show up at night, have fun time in the bed, and leave.
15. He praises you with pure heart.
If he did not notice your nail paint change from matte red to bright red, he might praise a new shirt you bought. He compliments your new hair color. The best thing is that he actually notices you and praises you. You don’t have to give him any clues.
16. He values your views about everything.
According to the latest study on complementarity in relationships, even if two people are on totally opposite poles of the political spectrum, they might still live happy together forever. You should not always care about what you like. It also depends on how firmly you accept your partner’s views and opinions.
For example, if you are a true feminist and your man carries some old fashioned views about women, he would at least listen to what your feelings are and would respect them when you talk about topics like ‘a woman’s position in the workplace’. Don’t let go of such man!
17. He defends you and your relationship.
He truly loves you when he protects you when somebody tries to bully you. He defends you when someone criticizes you for no reason or tries to hurt you. It is a well-known fact proven in literature that men who care about someone would even risk their own lives to protect the one they love. People in normal relationships show their love by bonding together against external attacks.
Researcher David Frost from San Francisco State, in a study about bisexual individuals like gay and lesbian in intimate relationships, observed that many who felt ashamed because of their relationships took strength from one another and felt more strong and confident when united.
18. He gives you that warm and safe feeling.
He strolls on the outside of the walkway, in light of the fact that if a vehicle were to diverge accidentally, he would be the one who gets hit rather than you. He nourishes you. He is very protective when it comes to you. He is dependably there whenever you feel down or have a flu or any other sickness.
At the point when a man is more careful for you than his own self, he really loves you. He may not be a warrior or a fighter, but when he sees you in risk, he can turn into one for you. He can pretty easily transform from that cute teddy to a furious beast in no time, just to protect you and be there for you.
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