When you’re in love, there aren’t enough happy things that you can’t wait to do with your significant other. You’re always looking for one way or the other to express your love. Girls feel that their better halves just stop trying to woo her or win her affections after the initial stage or the honeymoon period’ passes. This is the time when insecurities arise and fights happen. Us girls don’t expect you guys to forever act in that same manner when you were trying to woo us, but little efforts to show your affection for us goes a long way. They don’t have to be grand gestures, but little gestures so that we don’t feel like you’ve lost interest in us, and that we haven’t lost that spark.
Here are 23 little things you can do for your girlfriend to make her heart melt!
1. Cuddle with her, just hold her and talk to her.
Girls love being cuddled. Once in a while, have a heart to heart with her when you two are snuggled up in bed. Talk. Talk about random stuff, anything that comes to mind, your dreams, your fears, your life, anything at all to make your girl feel closer to you. Cuddling your girlfriend will release chemicals that’ll make her feel more happy and loved.
2. Tell her she’s your best friend.
Nothing beats the feeling I got when my other half told me I was his best friend. Trust me, it just made my heart melt and my eyes tear up. – Continue reading on the next page
3. Introduce her to your friends.
One of the best ways to make your girl feel special is introducing her to your friends. She probably feels left out when you go out with your friends or talk about them. But introducing her to your best buds will definitely make her day.
4. Give her massages.
Massages are intimate and giving them to your other half not only stimulates them but also makes them feel that you realise that they are tired and needed relaxing. Just place your palms on her shoulders and her face will light up with a thankful smile!
5. Remember that time of the month.
Remembering that time of the month and making extra efforts like getting them chocolates or ice cream or food that they are craving as a surprise goes a long way. It not only improves our moods, but also makes us feel that you truly care for us.
6. Make bucket lists together.
When you make bucket lists together, it will make her realise that you are going to be there for the long haul and are making plans with one another for the future.В – Continue reading on the next page
7. Do silly things together.
Getting into tickle fights, or running around chasing her playfully, watching her favourite chick flicks, spending time with her alone in your pjs, goofing around, just about anything that will bring her to fits of laughter will definitely make your girl feel closer to you.
8. Kiss her on the forehead.
Girls love it when guys kiss them on their foreheads. It makes their knees weak.
9. Introduce her to your parents.
One of the best ways to let a girl know you’re going to be there for the long haul is making her meet your parents.
10. Write love letters for her.
In this digital era, having your man write you a love note is the most romantic, old fashioned gestures in the world that girls swoon over. There’s something very intimate and personal about having someone write you a love letter.В – Continue reading on the next page
11. Public displays of affection.
No one appreciates couples who are all over one another, making everyone feel uncomfortable. But having your man give you a peck on the cheek, or hold your hand when you’re with company, makes a girl feel confident of your affections, and loved (also, she doesn’t feel threatened by other females).
12. Go shopping with her.
Girls love shopping. And there’s nothing better than having your man accompany you when you are doing the thing you love, even though they hate it. We love having your opinion on buying something.
13. Running fingers through her hair.
It’s not just cats that love having hands run through their hair. We absolutely adore it too. Especially when you run your fingers through our hair when we’re sleepy, or play with them or tie it in a ponytail.
14. Surprise her with a date.
Once in a while, it is nice to have a romantic date planned out instead of just thinking about where to eat out. Ask your girl to dress up and dazzle her with a romantic dinner date.В – Continue reading on the next page
15. Sing songs for her.
Singing songs for your girl will bring out the biggest smile on her face. Even if it’s really funny and you can’t sing to save your life, she’s going to call you silly and giggle, but trust me, she loves the attention.
16. Say I love you’.
Look deep into her eyes and tell her that you love her. It will do the trick.
17. Kissing her on the hand.
Every girl has a fantasy of having her own Prince Charming, and there’s nothing more charming than having your man kiss your hand.
18. Let her nurse you sometimes.
Females are natural nurturers. And at times when you’re unwell or low, we love playing doctor. It makes us feel closer to you by babying you.В – Continue reading on the next page
19. Giving compliments.
Call her sexy, beautiful, hot, gorgeous, and see how her face brightens up. This will for sure make your girl make an extra effort for you, because at times girls tend to slack and get lazy, and we all know guys appreciate girls who look on point.
20. Send her Good Morning messages.
If the first thing we read after waking up is a Good Morning message from you, it will be a GOOD morning for sure. It’ll make your girl happy and in good spirits all day thinking that they were the first thing on your mind when you woke up.
21. Make an effort to look good for her.
We all know guys tend to not dress up and always be in their most comfortable clothes, but it wouldn’t kill you to make an effort to look for your girl once in a while. It will make her want you more if you look killer.
22. Get freaky in the bedroom.
Don’t be afraid to try new things. Discuss your likes and dislikes and experiment new things just to stir things up in the bedroom. Try each other’s fantasies and develop confidence, this also helps in getting comfortable with each other’s presence.
23. Be a gentleman.
Opening doors for her, pulling out the chair for her to sit on, opening car doors, offering her your arm while walking, these are small gestures that make girls feel giddy. No matter how independent they get, girls dig gentlemen.
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Guys, have you done any (if not all) of these things? What’s her favourite thing? Let me know in the comments below. And as always, stay blessed and keep the love alive!
