In order to win the game of love, you always have to go into it with the kind of self-assuredness and confidence that forces you to believe that you can actually succeed and find the love that you deserve to have. You have to actually believe that you are worthy of the love that you deserve before anyone would be willing to give it to you. And if you’re lucky enough to find yourself in the position to grab at the love that you think you deserve, then you really can’t waste any opportunities. You have to make sure that you make the most out of your chances. And if you manage to play your cards right, then you will have done it. You get into a relationship with a person you love so much; someone who loves you just as much in return.
However, it’s important for you to know that the fight doesn’t end there. Love alone will not be enough to ensure the longevity and the strength of your relationship. You have to remember that just because you love one another, it isn’t guaranteed that the two of you are going to stay together for the rest of your life. You always have to make sure that you are able to supplement your true love with effort, commitment, dedication, and good timing. These are the key ingredients in making sure that a relationship is going to turn out alright. But as predicted, at the base of it all is true love.
Everything has to be built on true love. No amount of dedication, effort, or commitment in the world will be able to make up for a fake or insincere type of love. The raw love that two people have for one another must always be real in order for a relationship to last. Even when you have true love, your relationship is still at risk of failing. But when you don’t have true love for one another, then the relationship is sure to fail no matter what.
So how do you make sure that the kind of love that you and your partner share is the genuine kind? Well, there are a few signs that you could be on the lookout for. Remember that there are 3 important things that never change; 3 things that you would always find in places of true love. These are those three things:
1. You both genuinely and sincere wish the absolute best for one another.
One very important aspect of romantic relationships is a shared enthusiasm for the future between the two people who are in love with one another. When you get into a loving relationship with each other, chances are that you share similar interests, dreams, goals, and visions for yourselves. If it’s a true and genuine love, you would always be operating with the kind of mindset that assumes your partner’s successes and accomplishments to be your own.
You would always believe that the milestones that your partner manages to accomplish would bring you just as much joy and fulfillment as it would bring them. You don’t really see your relationship as some kind of a competition where you are constantly having to outdo one another. You see your relationship as more of a partnership where the success of one is also the success of both. You constantly push one another to be better and you always believe in each other’s ability to do great things.
2. You have a solid base of mutual respect for each other.
Respect is always what should come before all the physical attraction and need for companionship. In fact, respect is essentially the foundation on which any form of relationship should be built whether romantic, professional, or casual. True love is always going to built on a mutual respect between the two people who are involved in the relationship. You really value what the other has to think or say. You don’t belittle one another and you always acknowledge your own individual personalities and boundaries. Respect is essentially what dictates the dynamics of your relationship and how you treat one another.
3. You are always looking to share your lives with each other.
When a love is true, it has the potential to bridge the gap between two individuals. It actually has the ability to merge the souls of two beings into one. As clich as it sounds, love is always going to have the power to bring two people close to one another. When you have a true love with someone else, everything that you are passionate about will automatically start to become interesting to the person that you’re in love with.
Everything that is near and dear to your heart becomes important to the person who loves you dearly. When a love is true between two people, the lines that separate themselves as individuals start to blur.
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