A Leo man is someone who is going to need a lot of effort for you to win him over in a romantic capacity. However, you have to make sure that you are putting your efforts in the right Leo. There are some Leo men who are just looking for a quick ego boost. They will keep you around like some kind of confidence booster.
They will only want to lead you around on a wild goose chase where only they end up feeling good about it. And you never want to be wasting your efforts in a guy like this. You don’t want someone to be emotionally draining you without really having any intentions of being there for you for real.
That’s why you need to make yourself aware of whenever a Leo man is just playing you – whenever someone is just leading you on. You have to arm yourself from those bad Leo men who are only concerned about boosting their own egos. And it’s not always going to be easy for you to spot a good Leo from a bad one whenever you’re in love. Your love might be blinding you from the signs that you need to be on the lookout for. You might be so desperate to the point that you fail to see that you’re just being played.
Fortunately for you, it’s possible to arm yourself against your own desperation. You are fully capable of finding out whether a man is serious about you or not. It’s all a matter of being able to make yourself aware of the signs. You just have to be armed with knowledge so that you don’t end up getting played. Here are a few signs that a Leo man is just playing you and what you need to do to get over him.
1. He will not really pay attention to you.
A Leo man is really unlikely to pay any real attention o you whenever he’s not serious about being with you. Remember that he has a tendency of being very conceited and self-absorbed. He is only ever going to be accommodating with someone he’s truly in love with. If he’s only leading you on, then he won’t really be interested in hearing about whatever you might have to say.
2. He only ever talks about himself in your conversation.
He isn’t really going to be so willing to talk about you or anyone else during your conversations. He’s mostly just interested in talking about himself. He’s always going to want to drive the conversation back to himself. He is only ever interested in talking about his favorite subject – his own life. If a Leo man were truly in love with you, he would always want to be expressing an interest in your life. He would want to get to know you a much as possible. But if he’s only playing you, then he’s only going to want to keep about himself.
3. He is likely to be very arrogant.
You know that he’s just playing you if he’s looking for validation about who he is and what he’s done. He’s constantly just wanting to float his own boat and lift his own bench. He’s not really interested in knowing about what you or anyone else has done. He just wants to keep on bragging about how great his life is. He wants people to be jealous of him. His sense of validation is dependent on whether people are impressed by him or not.
How to get over being played by a Leo.
Okay, so now you realize that you’ve just been playing this whole time. And that can be a difficult blow to recover from. However, it’s not impossible. You already made the first step in recognizing the need for you to move on. You just might not exactly know how to do that. You might be feeling heartbroken and disappointed. You might be distraught and you don’t know how to be okay again. Read on further to find out how you can get over being played.
1. Create some space between the two of you.
Just get away from him. He is a toxic ma and if you want to be free of his toxicity, you are going to need to separate yourself from him for a bit.
2. Surround yourself with positive people.
One of the quickest ways to get out of a hole of negativity is to surround yourself with positive people. Be around energetic and uplifting individuals and they will infect you with their positivity.
3. Focus on building your own life.
If you start focusing on building your life, you won’t be dwelling on the heartbreak that has been caused by the Leo man who just played you.
4. Have some perspective.
Yes, you have just gone through a very difficult phase in your life. However, you should know that there are bigger problems in the world that require your attention. Have some perspective.