Can you name one thing in the world that is more frustrating than being attracted to a man who doesn’t even know you exist? You so desperately want him to notice you and yet you don’t want to come off as someone who is overly aggressive or too forward. You want to make sure that you are still classy and gracious; that you aren’t acting too desperate in your pursuit of your man. You don’t want to seem overeager. You don’t want to be giving all of your cards away at the start of the relationship. You want to be subtle about it. You want to hint at your interest in him and you want him to be the one who acts on that hint.
But how exactly do you do that? You already know that boys can be stupid. They aren’t particularly the most attentive people on earth. It’s very rare for a guy to have great attention to detail when it comes to human interactions. It’s highly unlikely that he’s going to be able to pick up on your hints if you don’t know how to do it right. And if you’re completely new to the game, then you’re going to need some kind of guide to help you make sure that you don’t make a fool out of yourself – and that’s exactly what this article is.
A lot of people think that flirtation is random – that you can just play it by feel. But actually, there is a science to it. Remember that human psychology is a science – and if you want to be able to stimulate him on a mental and emotional level, you need to know the right buttons to push. You need to know how to conduct yourself when you’re with him. You need to learn the art of attraction. Of course, all men are going to be different. All men have their individual little quirks and distinctions that make them who they are – and they carry with them different preferences and tastes as well.
But that doesn’t mean that there isn’t a universal set of tips and tricks that you can follow to make sure that you really grab a hold of his attention. Just follow the stuff that will be listed on this article and put yourself in the best position to be noticed by the man you’re interested in.
1. Make sure that he really SEES you on a visual level.
First of all, you need to keep in mind that men are very visual creatures. They respond well to visual stimulation. So look your best. You don’t have to necessarily STAND OUT but you can’t be someone who he’s just going to overlook either. Make sure you put some effort into how you look and how you present yourself if you really want to be able to catch his initial attention.
2. Ask him lots of questions about his life – and make him the topic of your conversation.
This is going to make him notice you on two very distinct levels. For one, he’s going to notice the fact that someone is taking a very deep interest in him. Always remember that a man has an ego – and the more that you are able to fluff that ego, the more he’s going to end up craving for your attention. So if you show him that you are genuinely curious about his life and who he is, he’s going to take note of that.
And on a second level, if you are able to keep the conversation revolving around him, you are going to be revealing very little about who you are. And he’s going to end up curious as well. He’s going to want to make an effort to get to know the girl who is expressing such a profound interest in him. You aren’t giving him much and you’re going to keep him coming back for more.
3. Make sure that he has a lot of fun whenever he’s around you.
At the end of the day, your biggest mission is not that he really feels your presence whenever you’re around him – but that he feels your absence whenever you’re not together. That’s the best way to get a guy to notice you. Make sure that whenever you’re together, you always show him a good time. Make him feel light and easy. Release all of his tensions and make him feel as relaxed and as loose as possible. So that when the time comes that you’re not together and he’s feeling down and lonely, he’s going to look for you.
He’s going to crave for your calming presence in his life. He’s going to crave for the positive energy that you bring. Not only does he really notice your presence when you’re together, but he really feels your absence whenever you’re too far away from him.